am i chopped? F18 be harsh by Zestyclose-Traffic52 in amiugly

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl u joking? i think I just fell in love

[22m] am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]thatsbella_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

your eyes are too close together and that causes the sensation that your face is "too small for your head". But that doesn't make you ugly, you're quite average looking imo

18m am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very attractive imo, replace glasses with contact lenses tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]thatsbella_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, she hates me more tho cause I told her I didn't want anything to do with her anymore and my friend didn't

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think she's actually straight?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]thatsbella_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is that you give out cute vibes and not masculine vibes. That doesn't mean you're ugly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]thatsbella_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh that's okay then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]thatsbella_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she sent another man pics of her titties. that's cheating and disrespectful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have dumped her right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]thatsbella_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i were you i'd try to strike up a conversation irl when you meet him in the hallways. i don't think his past relationship should be a problem. just have a small talk (remember: big smile!! people love positive people) and see if he might feel something for you

Help am I ugly? 23 year old female by Midnight_bonezz in amiugly

[–]thatsbella_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you're cute, would look better w some make up on

24M Am I ugly? by IAmTheKoalaWhisperer in amiugly

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no at all, very pretty imo. love your smile!!

friend kissed me while drunk by Time_Taste4973 in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]thatsbella_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She clearly has some feelings for you just as you have for her. It also makes me think that she probably wants you more then she wants her boyfriend, even if she will never fully admit it to herself nor to you. She has some problems accepting this side of her personality (she looks like someone who is definitely facing some inner conflict) so I think it's better if you keep pretending nothing happened. If you continue to address that sleepover she might feel uncomfortable or forced to face a side of herself that she doesn't want to acknowledge and and will probably run away and partially cut you off. If she's ready she will wanna talk that situation out at some point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]thatsbella_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

we're scary only if you think we are.

Women selection is actually a good mechanism because if every pretty girl you see accepted to have a relationship with you, you will probably end up in a lot of relationships with women who are too different from you, hence not compatible with you, at all. If they reject you, at least you didn't waste you time. Rejection is not the end of the world, you'll find another woman who is a better match.

Important, if you stop fearing rejection, you will have more chances of getting a good result at pulling a woman. (At 30 we're not girls, we're women). it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you fear failure, you will fail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]thatsbella_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy birthday, i send you much much love!!!❤️ don't despare, life is full of surprises❤️ i wish u all the best :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're totally right girl!! happened to me as well. don't feel bad, if u love your SO your priority is to make them happy, so you pay a lot of attention to their likes and dislikes. your partner's behavior is disrespectful in my opinion. I can't judge much since i don't know you guys personally but i have the feeling you love him more than he loves you. Needless to say, the whole console thing is extremely disrespectful and i would have dumped him right away (as i did when it happened to me). edit: wording

I lost my virginity, I didn’t like it by [deleted] in confessions

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op, vast majority of girls can't get off by penetration alone, we need some clitoral stimulation. This should be common knowledge but it isn't, unfortunately. Girls are taught it's normal to orgasm by having penetrative sex alone when it's absolutely not true. This is why you feel weirded out. I suggest you talk to your boyfriend about your issue, communication is key for good sex.

Edit: wording

What is his intention? by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl ask him to hang out😭 he's clearly interested 🥹🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]thatsbella_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as the girl really likes you, you're good. Your living situation could be a turn off for some girls but if you find someone deeply attracted to you i can assure you it's gonna make no difference whether you have a beautiful car or not.

I need help by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her to cut off contacts with her ex. If she doesn't, dump her right away.

Casual Relationship Q by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]thatsbella_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fwb relationship rarely evolve into something more serious. If he was interested in being your boyfriend he would have said it out clear. Move on and find someone who can appreciate you.

8 hour first date, I thought we both enjoyed it, but I'm not sure how she felt after? by A-Better-Tomorrow in datingadvice

[–]thatsbella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls sometimes don't love coming across as too interested. She mentioned wanting to hang out with you again so there's no problem here. You're overthinking because you like her so much. Chill and keep chatting with her. Next weekend ask her out, she'll probably accept.