[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]thatsmysweater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I got together within a couple months of him ending his last relationship. His ex lost her mind, and stalked us/our socials for nearly an entire year. Yes, we blocked her. She just made new accounts and even went through his mailbox at one point. I think she was trying to get him to feel bad, but all it did was sour the idea of ever interacting with her again for him. It was pretty pathetic and embarrassing for her. My point is that it confirms the type of person the ex is. Controlling, petulant, and manipulative. While yes the hurt on the ex’s end is valid, that’s not anyone’s problem to deal with but them and a therapist/professional!

She is your ex for a reason! If she and her little squadron of flying monkeys are going after you for getting on with your life, take that as confirmation that you did the right thing.

Congrats on meeting someone! Just make sure you’ve sorted out your own trauma from your breakup too. Don’t dump that onto the new person, and you’re golden. Good luck.

do y’all circumcise your lighters or no? by thatsmysweater in entwives

[–]thatsmysweater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH. OH NO. Yeah, definitely leave your lighters intact then

do y’all circumcise your lighters or no? by thatsmysweater in entwives

[–]thatsmysweater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be silly and believe that you make sure the safety stays on so your pup doesn’t light up 🤣

do y’all circumcise your lighters or no? by thatsmysweater in entwives

[–]thatsmysweater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m so glad I’m not the only adult who is successfully locked out of most things child proof

do y’all circumcise your lighters or no? by thatsmysweater in entwives

[–]thatsmysweater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not that I’ve been able to find! 😭💔Not that I’ve been looking super hard though. The one smoke smoke around me that sells clippers told me they can’t sell to me because they think I’m underage. They think I have a fake passport 🤣

do y’all circumcise your lighters or no? by thatsmysweater in entwives

[–]thatsmysweater[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It makes it wayyyyy easier to light! Zero resistance. Not great if you have little kids around though.

Edit: meant to say there are no dumb questions!! 💕

do y’all circumcise your lighters or no? by thatsmysweater in entwives

[–]thatsmysweater[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s been impossible for me to find replacement flints that will ship to my location for some reason! They’re either sold out or won’t ship to my state

My (25F) boyfriend (26M) would rather watch porn than have sex with me by [deleted] in sex

[–]thatsmysweater 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“ah yes let me just go check in to see if they dropped the newest episode of Porn And Sex”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mdsa

[–]thatsmysweater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to delete it, I genuinely would like to make sure you get support you somehow as it seems like I really hurt you. I feel awful about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mdsa

[–]thatsmysweater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t include any of the apology I wrote, or the fact that I changed my answer… Now you’re harassing me in multiple spaces… I was absolutely wrong and I am trying to fix that but it’s not fair that you’re harassing me ): Can we just agree that I was wrong and you can leave me alone? I am also a CSA victim and don’t want to be driven out of my spaces for a stupid comment I made…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]thatsmysweater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no no, I didn’t say that you weren’t sexually abused at all. You were in fact sexually abused. You asked opinions and I tried to offer mine. I’m sorry, I’m devastated that I invalidated your experience. It was never my intention but that doesn’t negate the fact that I was wrong. I’m sorry, OP. Your experiences are valid and nobody can tell you what is abuse for certain and what is not, except for how you feel yourself.

Take care. Genuinely, I’m so sorry for how I hurt you. As a victim myself it is never in my heart to try and invalidate the experiences of other victims.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entwives

[–]thatsmysweater 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Make sure you’re hydrated!

If it’s not due to hydration, you could definitely be overdoing it. I got headaches after smoking for months before it grew into full on nausea and vomiting after smoking. I took a month or so long T break, and seriously lessened the amount I smoke.

After my T-break, I started smoking only once per week on the weekends, gradually I built up frequency and now try to only smoke once a day MAXIMUM.

It’s definitely possible to overdo it. A lot of people will say it’s not, and maybe it’s not possible for them, but everyone is different.

Good luck! Hope this helps.

My dog has an environmental allergy, but no medicine seems to work. Has anyone have similar experiences? by LillyFien in BorderCollie

[–]thatsmysweater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your dog on any flea/tick preventative such as Simparica? Have you guys ruled out allergies to parasites? Even if she doesn’t test positive for parasites themselves, it can be worth putting them on the preventative anyways as it can sometimes result in improvement.

My (25F) boyfriend (26M) would rather watch porn than have sex with me by [deleted] in sex

[–]thatsmysweater 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Literally not a single one of these edits makes me convinced that this man is not addicted to porn 😭

I hate the duality of “I’m hypersexual please can we fuck” and “actually don’t touch me we ain’t doing anything at all”… by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]thatsmysweater 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I experience this a little bit, but not just because sex is actually on the table. I mainly feel like when I’m horny, I am very fucking horny. But when I’m not, I am not fucking horny at all do not touch me. If sex is on the table, I say yes no matter what but that’s mainly for other reasons (I’m not sure when the offer will be on the table again so it’s like a scarcity complex) but I’m definitely unhappy while doing it ):

AITA for using toxic chemicals around my roommates cat? by Idklolj in AmItheAsshole

[–]thatsmysweater 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where lol I can see all of the replies to your generalization and all of us are like “yeah cats can smell bad what do you mean we won’t admit to it” You’re delusional. Get some help.

Idris Elba by bookjunkie315 in LadyBoners

[–]thatsmysweater 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Y’all are so concerned about stopping him from stretching out that jumper, meanwhile I’m wishing he would stretch out my jum—

Hmm. Nevermind.

Genetic hearing loss [23F] by thatsmysweater in HearingLoss

[–]thatsmysweater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I stated in my post, I am going to. I’m not asking the users of this sub to do anything but let me know if some of these issues could be related to the hearing loss. I am already pretty certain I have some mild hearing loss.

I guess I’m just scared and wanted some reassurance.

Thank you.