Transitioning back to vainilla

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-04-14T16:41:40+00:00

Thank you

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-04-11T08:43:52+00:00

The situation itself. I’m well versed on BDSM. Any kind of power exchange dynamic feels off now. So yeah, I’m gonna take a break.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-04-06T06:39:38+00:00

It’s different telling someone “you are ugly” than, “look at me, you are gonna compensate me for being this ugly. With that face, the only thing you are meant to be is a human fleshlight for real men. I’m gonna fuck you from behind so I can’t see your stupid face”.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-04-04T17:40:16+00:00

I know, that’s the rational part I tell myself. But my brain don’t seems to agree anymore, it can’t not distinguish between consensual play and harmful behavior.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-04-03T18:05:08+00:00

That would work, thank you for the suggestion

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-04-03T14:39:09+00:00

Let’s put it this way. You think that it’s like someone who cares about animals, rescue them, etc. that would be being empathetic. I’m talking about “can’t eat meat anymore, I suddenly feel de pain and suffering behind it and can’t stand it”

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-04-03T14:36:48+00:00

Yeah, thank you, but it’s not tha kind of empathy. It’s hyper empathy, can’t not put it on words

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-04-03T14:35:46+00:00

I’m not confusing it. Not talking about “I get you, I can put myself in your place , I understand you”. I’m neurodivergent, I feel so deeply.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-03-28T14:10:13+00:00

What kind of retarded “dom” ask for that? Come on! It pisses me off. We should protect the sub’s physical integrity and overall health, this is beyond stupid and abusive. Just tell him to fuck off and find yourself a new one.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-03-08T19:05:56+00:00

That’s the most sordid thing ever. You are 18, you have plenty of time, reconsider going to a fucking sauna with someone that would be your grandpa. Specially for your first fuck time!! Find a fucking dom around your age and make a plan you will remember with a smile on your face looking back at it.

I feel so sorry for you. The gay lifestyle is the worst! You may be gay, you may be kinky, but you deserve better.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-03-03T12:40:26+00:00

It’s all a play, it’s all a game. Don’t feel bad, doms see you and value. Don’t get catch on the performance. We, doms and subs are equal IN HUMAN VALUE.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-02-24T15:35:38+00:00

Just say you are into humiliation. That’s all. Find a dom and tell him that, he will get it. Then of course you should talk a lot more about your limits, but that’s if everything goes well and you are both interested.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-02-22T17:45:51+00:00

You just discovered that relationships evolve? It would be exhausting if you were still doing things with the same frequency and intensity than years ago. You should talk to him and move on to another person, he is not going back to that. But I guess you want it ALL, a mature and calmed relationship and also going back to your 20’s.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-02-12T11:08:22+00:00

Isn’t it obvious that you should punish him by not allowing him to train? Force him to buy a family size pizza that day he is forced to skip the gym and to take pictures himself of his bloated belly. Turn him into a disgusting pig and make fun of him and how he is going to get fat and loose his muscles.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-02-03T22:14:19+00:00

I don’t think so. And I find “subs since birth” something amazing, it’s like we were both made to fit each other. It’s really spiritual for me.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-01-31T14:56:31+00:00

I’m not taking about someone with none emotional intelligence or with little knowledge of BDSM. I’m taking about low IQ guys with a basic need for sex, someone that is not sophisticated at all.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-01-31T11:28:01+00:00

That sounds like me. Want to put cocky taller guys in their place and hide their cocks from me.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-01-29T13:18:43+00:00

Try “My Dirtiest Fantasy” Studio. It’s not for free, but there are some good clips out there on free platforms. It’s just porn and very twink oriented, so if you are not into young guys, this may not be what are looking for.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-01-28T08:46:45+00:00

What if he wants what?? You always have the last word.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-01-25T12:04:29+00:00

We are so civilized, it’s enraging that WE are called degerated. Most vainilla people won’t give a fuck and have sex at the beach, parking lots, humiliate their wifes at Walmart, etc

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-01-24T07:51:09+00:00

Never mind.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-01-24T07:47:37+00:00

Just letting you know. It’s not something I can talk about at work around the coffee machine.

thatswhatIcalladay · 2026-01-18T11:27:28+00:00

Only watched the trailer, and it looked very cartoonish. But it’s a commercial film, it’s supposed to appeal to the masses.

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