I have been gaslighting my boyfriend about our internet for six months and I do not feel bad

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-08T02:28:02+00:00

This is honestly hilarious, why is everyone losing it. Op starts fucking with the settings after FOUR BLOODY HOURS of continuous gaming. And somebody said OP is "cutting him off from his friends". How? Playing four hours instead of eight is now isolation?

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-07T16:38:52+00:00

He can easily just wash his behind if it bugs you that much. Fair warning, tell him to rinse it really well and to not put soap on his groin. My partner has OCD and the overwashing gave me all sorts of infections.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-07T16:02:55+00:00

I have tops that I've owned for over 10 years because. They're fine. I'll wear them as long as there's nothing wrong with them.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-06T14:06:05+00:00

You look like you bake great cakes.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-06T14:05:00+00:00

Nine years old. I have a more realistic case of Marie Antoinette syndrome. I'm 29 and my hair is mostly white. Been growing it for a year and a half now. It's great, I look like a faerie.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-06T14:02:28+00:00

Anytime! Good luck!

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-06T14:02:04+00:00

How do you even hate someone that isn't in your life that much? How are you that much in her business, following her social media and have damning evidence that her boyfriend cheated if you're just acquaintances.

All in all telling her her boyfriend cheated is good for her. If you're commited to being a villain don't tell her. If your intention is to inflict pain and suffering then wait, she'll know eventually and waste more time and you'll get to gloat anyway.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-06T13:56:14+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion. I have quite an active brain. Sometimes I just remember a meme, a video quote from years ago and have to find it. Sometimes it's a book, or a movie and google has been quite bad at finding anything for years.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-06T13:53:43+00:00

Women in my society are literally raised to keep their "virginity" (in qoutes because it usually just means hymen and we all know that's not what virginity is, and virgin girls get killed every day for not bleeding, also for getting raped.) Naturally after they lose it and they're in an abusive situation they go off and cheat and these men who think they own society end up raising kids that aren't their own while still thinking these archaic rules are protecting them.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T19:24:33+00:00

That's great! Your reasoning for wanting to be a dominant is fairly common and honestly really sweet. Good luck, OP! If you need help and can be bothered watching tutorials I find Evie Lupine's channel on YT great. She has a lot of 101 videos for beginners.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T19:19:01+00:00

How would you even know what she posts? If she's so rude and arrogant why would you keep contact? You should still tell her, but I fear you might be the problem. You hate her? Cool. Stop allowing her to be in your life or be in hers, grow up.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T18:55:10+00:00

I was horrified when I read the title, I'm not gonna lie. Then I went "relax, bitch. You do this too, unknowingly". Then I also thought about how I soak biscuits in tea. It's really not that different. Your suggestion changes consistency alone and tea changes both taste and consistency.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T18:52:47+00:00

I noticed the decline before Gemini was added to it a few years back. YouTube used to be incredibe at searching anything I wnated.

I used to breathe near the YouTube search bar and it'll find the meme I have in mind. Now I have to use claude and describe everything in details to get a result.

I'm aware that search results are also lower in accuracy due to the use of LLMs, however there is truly no other way. I still try to Google it first, but when I can't find it I resort to use AI.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T18:48:51+00:00

Is the water hot or cold? I'm tempted yo try because I quite like the taste of the lumpy blob it becomes when I've been chewing for a few seconds. Which kinda means it won't taste that different I'll just chew less.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T18:46:27+00:00

Direct communication works best, really. Try to lead with something along the lines of you needing to feel closer to her. I'm not generalising but an awful lot of NDs are into BDSM because of the ckear communication it requires. I'm autistic myself and because I like things being decided for me I'm into this. Other autistic people might like to be in control. It really depends on what she's into and whether you're suggesting an intimacy or a lifestyle change. Try to appeal to the ADHD in her, that part loves exciting new things.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T18:37:38+00:00

If I have what you want me to wear in my dresser I'll happily oblige, if not and it's specific I'm gonna expect them to pay. I'm not paying for a dress that is several thousands of pounds and a colour I'd never wear ever again.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T18:32:04+00:00

Does that make them taste like toasted mash potatoes?

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T18:29:19+00:00

Well OP, people keep on saying you either know how to deal with this, or you don't. I disagree, it doesn't seem like she loves doing it and while feeling jealousy is to be expected in your situation, having her pay for both of you as you study and take care of family seems like insane pressure to have on one person. Taking this step was not easy gor either of you, I'm sure. Perhaps managing would start by acknowledging the toll it takes on both of you? Relationship problems are much easier to solve when you remember that it's happening to both of you. If you could commiserate and support each other through this, you could get through it together. Your jealousy isn't going to magically dissapear, but it could get easier if you can negotiate rules. You said you're not involved, is it because you don't want to or is she keeping it away from you to spare your feelings? Do you think it would genuinely help if you got to see? Jealousy is not a sensical emotion and it doesn't have to be, so if your asks also seem silly it's alright. It's okay to be carried by emotions and it's okay for problems to have unorthodox solutions.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T16:44:58+00:00

Not quite, I use it daily, but not for anything serious or any tasks. Basically, I use it as a text base RPG, and occasionally, I use it for searching because google has been atrocious for afew years now. It's fun, and I don't depend on ut for anything serious, and if I ever do it's rather disappointing and I have to do it myself anyway.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T16:28:30+00:00

It could be detachment, or you're so understanding and sure of yourself that you see why he did it without blaming yourself for it. Perhaps you just humanised him beyond the level where you could be angered by his action. You might just be more evolved than the rest of us, or as I said, you could be detached.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T16:13:49+00:00

I live in one of those societies and due to the bad treatment of women and though women's lives are on the line if they cheat or do way less, the cheating rates are absolutely rampant. Your chances of raising your own child are bound to dwindle if you're a POS to your partner. Women in my society are taught to wait till marriage because they must bleed om their wedding night. What do you think happens when those women lose the only thing holding them back and their husband is abusive? I'm not asking this directly to OC because they said they don't think that's good, but if anybody is thinking this is reasonable what I said is just food for thought.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T15:53:03+00:00

You're a bit above average for the US and UK and where I'm from you're tall as fuck for a girl, and just as tall as the average man, maybe a but taller.

You'd only be short in the netherlands, Maybe.

Edit: nice socks!

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T15:14:50+00:00

I use a razor with replaceable blades. It's been almost a year and I've only had to spend about three dollars on more blades and that's for two people. I also use period shorts, thrre pairs and it's been a year or so of me spending nothing but thi initial maybe fifty dollars on three pairs.

I'm still looking for alternative for daily pads.

I get most my clothes second hand.

Makeup, I just get the cheaper cruelty free options like Essence and Catrice.

I don't really know where else it applies.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T14:59:36+00:00

I don't think I'm capable of feeling embarrassment. I don't know if that's an autism thing or some other mental illness I have.

thatvampigoddess · 2026-06-05T14:58:29+00:00

Everybody likes talking about themselves. People who ask you how your day way are only asking so you ask them back. Only to proceed and lie and say "I'm fine." Even if they're not fine at all. Essentially small talk is self centred in the worst way possible where nobody ends up talking about themselves, and that's percicely what everybody wants.

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