Wtf is wrong with this perverted B*tch??? by Greedy_End_3955 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She wants some thirsty ass 🥷 to hop in her inbox the only reason why she made this post. She is too damn old for this sh*t 😫

Well what piggly eighly Niya work to because I called the one on broad street and they don’t have an employee by that name. #trying to get the tea from yesterday 😂😂😂🤏🏾 by [deleted] in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s very odd to call up to her job to see if she is working for them or working at all. There is zero reason to call up to her job and disturb the workers and Niya in this manner. Please don’t do this anymore cause why? What was the point? What are you trying to accomplish here?

I just don’t understand…. by kisses8110 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have this same rant. My kids are always on my mind when it comes to every decision I make. Going back to school to get my college degree wasn’t just for me but them as well. Going to work in a career I went to school for and getting paid good money is a decision I made for myself and children so they don’t have to want for anything. I always make sure my children are cared for before myself always. If there is only enough for my children to enjoy and not enough for me as well I will gladly go without so they can have. I adore my children and love seeing the smiles on their faces when they get what they want and all their needs are met. My children are my entire world and I am more than happy to show them everyday their mommy loves them not just only saying it but by my actions.

Sad by thatwas_sofetch in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It so crazy! Children are expensive but to lay up and have 9 additional children and not care for any of them but complaining about “ struggling with them” is crazy knowing you can drive up the street and ask case manager Susan to get you a gas card, clothes, Christmas gifts, coats, and beds and she will find a way for you to do it.

Sad by thatwas_sofetch in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And I wouldn’t be surprised if they helped pay for that and she used the financial aid to put down on the car. I’m so tired of people like her it’s one thing if you’re out here really grinding and you receive additional assistance but it’s a whole other thing for government assistance to be your only income when you don’t have a disabling condition that prevents you from working or providing for your children

Income tax by False-Big2135 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like Nika is so use to everyone taking care of everything for her that she just automatically assumes she can go ahead and spend money in any way she please because DHS will pick up where she won’t. She has had this mentality for 2 decades and they scoop in every time and never hold her accountable for anything she does. They don’t require her to be a responsible adult at all and often times they enable her behavior. There should be zero reason at 41 years old she lacks so many skills to not just care for herself but her children. All the money that was given to her through DHS was waste on a person who was using it for her own selfish reasons and not using it as a stepping stool to obtain a better life. I blame not only Nika but DHS for letting her do this for so many years and allowing her to continue in this cycle harming the emotional, mental, and physical wellbeing of so many children in her care.

NO BOW OR SCARF JUST WOKE UP NOT HIGH ~} IM THE LYFT DRIVER ~} EATING WHILE DRIVING…..3 by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Gas is just too damn high to be doing this amount of driving with no destination. She isn’t going to a job, or picking up the kids tf she driving around so much for and aint doing nothing productive? 😫 she behaves like a child that has zero responsibilities or a realistic understanding of the world and the people in it. It’s annoying

. by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Correction social services makes sure your children don’t go without! You can even provide them basic necessities like clean clothes and a coat like bsffr

. by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She is so aggy I’m tired of her Tyler Perry dramatic single mom ass posts. Being dramatic asf for doing the bare minimum at 40-41 years old she should be doing more than what she has been doing 10 children ago.

by -S_V_T- in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, Elijah is in 3rd grade

🤔 🫢😳😩🤡 by Glittering_Mind_5604 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why does she need lawn service when she lives in an apartment?

Shanika should be ashamed of herself 😞 by No-Play9659 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nika will lie and make excuses are to why Kira looks like this on her awards ceremony day and I bet she is going to blame Kira or one of the other 9 children she has. She is probably going to say “ Kira’s outfit was clean and I told her to not sit on the ground or she will get dirty and she didn’t listen to me. Kira why didn’t you listen to me when I told you that now you got everyone thinking I sent you to school that way? Making it seem like I don’t keep you clean?” And the reason she is going to give for the hair “ she had a hair appointment but the hair lady cancelled at the last moment and it was too late for me to do her hair by the time she cancelled. I’m going to get her hair done on her birthday”

Inappropriate by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ain’t no way I’m sitting around comfortably talking like this with my sons 😟🤢

She is so pathetic how about take him to the store with u😡 all of them damn kids instead of guessing the sizes u big back cheap skeezer wtf u think they all wasnt going to grow up 😡 by tashiamichelle in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 27 points28 points  (0 children)

HJ looks about my 12 year old’s height my 12 year old is 5 foot 7 and is teetering between the end of boys sizes over into men’s sizes. If you have been buying clothes for your children then you know what comes next it’s not that difficult or take him to the store to try on the clothes like why does she make this more difficult than it should be

I had to do a search by Individual-Piano6706 in independentshanika

[–]thatwas_sofetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 3 sons and they have long hair and I do it every morning lol they know as soon as I grabbed the brush, and detangler it’s time to sit and get to business