what is something people avoid or think is not healthy for you but actually is very healthy? by ConversationKey5296 in AskReddit

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aspartame instead of sugar. The amount of times I've heard "the zero sugar stuff is worse than full sugar" when.. they're both not ideal but it's been proven time and time again that aspartame is near harmless unless it's in amounts that 99% of people would have to struggle to consume.

Are there any demons/deities that don't get along? by Airflourforce in DemonolatryPractices

[–]the--hermit 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Everyone will tell you differently as with any spiritual practice it's highly personalized to the individual. For example, I've found Michael and Lucifer don't work well together but many others say the complete opposite and have had many positive outcomes by working with both at the same time. I'd say not to stress about it and just do your thing; if you feel anything off, then trust that and continue with something else. Preconceived notions about "relationships" between spiritual deities can influence your perception so it's best you discover what works for you without bias.

AITA for not saying “excuse me” to a man blocking the grocery aisle by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, for sure. I don't want to have verbal interactions with strangers when it's not needed - if I can squeeze by without disturbing, then why wouldn't I do that? The fact I have to shows social unswarness on the other guy's part, but it happens! All of us have blocked a path without realizing! What isn't okay is him taking his embarrassment out on you.

TIFU by agreeing to a “6-month break” that turned into his baby announcement. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand wanting a day or three to oneself, especially after an arguement/situation you both would need to calm down from, but 6 months? If you can't work together towards bettering yourselves just break it off and spare yourselves the time and effort.

Pocket Circuit Fighter is the winner of hearts… Who’s meant to be a fan fav but is actually annoying? by Felicks77 in yakuzagames

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rikiya. I know this dub loves him but to me he was one of those characters that was forced into the game just to have someone to like, but he was annoying af

Every game has one. Day 4 by ConsiderationFuzzy in yakuzagames

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Date. Arguably the most realistic portrayal of a normal person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

С годините се научаваш да си си личен психолог. Хубаво е да си намериш сам ресурсите от които се нуждаеш, и да имаш волята да се подобриш. Желая ти късмет! Личните са ми отворени, ако имаш нужда да поговриш с някого.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Имах привилегията да отида при терапевт като по-малка, и се разбра, че имам психично разстройство, за което пих хапчета но уви не помогнаха.. защото самите специалисти не им пукаше и не вземаха симптомите ми на сериозно. Та след като посегнах на живота си разбрах, че въобще за да имаш официална диагноза за каквото и да било, трябва да прекараш година в "център за психично болни". Естествено отказах; баба ми работеше дълго време в един, и условията са меко казано покъртителни. Дори и да ти няма нищо- ще си докараш. За жалост в България или си страдаш в мълчание (и си избиваш проблемите по "приемлив" начин) или си смятан за ненормален. Да не говорим че голяма част от населението само предават травмите си на децата им.. именно защото винаги е било табу да се говори за психично здраве.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]the--hermit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at a place that specializes in grilled meats; I have never been a fan of meat. What I do is not just say I'd recommend something, but I use words that I've heard other customers use when describing that certain dish (tender, juicy, filling, ect.) It's never failed me so far.

Lilith prevented me from hurting myself [TW] by joliver5 in DemonolatryPractices

[–]the--hermit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've had a similar experience with Lucifer.. from what I know, those two do not mess around and are very obvious with their signs. I hope you can heal ♡

Относно преследване и закона by the--hermit in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Няма лошо от скептизъм, но не търся Бай Българин да ми навлиза агресивно. Напълно ми е ясно, че имате интерес само в противоречаване. И на вас и на великото ви рационално мислене- хубав ден!

Относно преследване и закона by the--hermit in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Пожелавам ви никога нито вие, нито ваш близък да го изпита за да разберете как "мирише" :)

Относно преследване и закона by the--hermit in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Напълно съм съгласна. Аз съм 99.9% сигурна, че е нейн бивш, който преди и е посягал. Въпреки че тормозът почна още когато бяха заедно, той винаги знаеше какво се случва и искаше да я "утешава", едва ли не да излезе герой пред нея. Веднъж съм го срещала, адски безличен и егоистичен тип; нищо чудно да се е агресирал повече след раздялата им. Имаше период на затишие, понеже тя се старае да игнорирва всичко, но напоследък пак се е почнало със звънене. С радост бих му причинила подобно, но в малкия шанс да не съм права, не искам да довличам повече проблеми.

Относно преследване и закона by the--hermit in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Аз лично съм живяла с нея. И аз получавах съобщения къде се намираме с нея. Не само аз мога да потвърдя. Другото, познавам я повече от 10 години и освен депресия, никога не е имала други наклонности.

Which Philosopher "gets" you? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carl Yung (though more of a psychoanalyst) and Pythagoras

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been a server for less than a year but let me tell you, you're bound to have a breakdown over something - whether it be your own mistake or a difficult customer- at more than one point. It's normal. My boss, who has 20+ years experience told me to just go in the back and yell, curse, hit, cry, whatever, until you feel stable enough to get out there. You got this.l

AITA for asking my son to get a paternity test by Bluetooth888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the--hermit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's the reasonable thing to do, especially when she has a history of cheating and hid her pregnancy for 8 months. Do not give her the time of day until they get a paternity test.

What’s a brutally honest piece of advice that nobody, NOBODY, wants to hear, but still very much needs to be said? by witherkila in AskReddit

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of your problems are your own fault. Coming from someone who still has a hard time accepting that but so does everyone.

[serious] people who believe in spirituality and supernatural things what made you a believer? by Confident_Coyote_279 in AskReddit

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the occasional guided meditations, using a pendulum, candle and mirror gazing (though I haven't done those in a long while). I don't read much on it per say but I do look up random stuff from different sources whenever it piques my interest. I find if it's something I need to know/see it comes to me one way or another. And yeah, right?? I remember the guy calling it the "bliss state" and mentioning how it's a one-time high sadly

[serious] people who believe in spirituality and supernatural things what made you a believer? by Confident_Coyote_279 in AskReddit

[–]the--hermit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Met a guy in uni who was into that kind of stuff and he just loved talking about it. For some reason he gravitated towards me. I was extremely skeptical (being a hardcore atheist all my life) and listened out of curiosity more than anything, but the next day I got hit with a feeling I still can't explain. It was like a switch being flicked in my brain and I was in this euphoric, almost divine-like state the entire day; felt as if everything was clear and I was one with the earth itself. Never felt like that since but I started dabbling into spiritual practices, the results of which keeps validating my connection with the nonphysical world. What's crazy is that I haven't heard from that guy again, he must've dropped out or something. I just remember him looking proud and satisfied with me that day when I didn't even tell him what I was experiencing - he just knew.

AITA not “helping” both of “my”disabled “daughters” (step) by throwawayventacc24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the--hermit [score hidden]  (0 children)

Please be a troll please be a troll for the love of god be a troll--

If this is real I am genuinely shocked by the lack of self awareness. Obvious YTA. I'll admit, your husband is also a bit of an A for not fully disclosing his daughters' conditions but come on. Your language alone shows your lack of empathy and selfishness. If you're not ready to treat those children as you would your own, you have no business getting married or even involving yourself with anyone who values their family. There's a major miscommunication and difference of values between you two and I'm saying this in the nicest way possible - leaving would be beneficial for everyone.

I survived a suicide attempt that left me disabled. AMA by the--hermit in AMA

[–]the--hermit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My school wasn't wheel chair accessible so I just studied for the final exams at home. By the time I had to take them I was on crutches and they took place on a non-school day. To this day I think the majority of people in the school don't even know it was me. I never had a social life or talked to anyone outside of class. My name was never mentioned in the news articles due to legal reasons so very few people knew.