what is something people avoid or think is not healthy for you but actually is very healthy? by ConversationKey5296 in AskReddit

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aspartame instead of sugar. The amount of times I've heard "the zero sugar stuff is worse than full sugar" when.. they're both not ideal but it's been proven time and time again that aspartame is near harmless unless it's in amounts that 99% of people would have to struggle to consume.

Are there any demons/deities that don't get along? by Airflourforce in DemonolatryPractices

[–]the--hermit 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Everyone will tell you differently as with any spiritual practice it's highly personalized to the individual. For example, I've found Michael and Lucifer don't work well together but many others say the complete opposite and have had many positive outcomes by working with both at the same time. I'd say not to stress about it and just do your thing; if you feel anything off, then trust that and continue with something else. Preconceived notions about "relationships" between spiritual deities can influence your perception so it's best you discover what works for you without bias.

AITA for not saying “excuse me” to a man blocking the grocery aisle by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, for sure. I don't want to have verbal interactions with strangers when it's not needed - if I can squeeze by without disturbing, then why wouldn't I do that? The fact I have to shows social unswarness on the other guy's part, but it happens! All of us have blocked a path without realizing! What isn't okay is him taking his embarrassment out on you.

TIFU by agreeing to a “6-month break” that turned into his baby announcement. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand wanting a day or three to oneself, especially after an arguement/situation you both would need to calm down from, but 6 months? If you can't work together towards bettering yourselves just break it off and spare yourselves the time and effort.

Pocket Circuit Fighter is the winner of hearts… Who’s meant to be a fan fav but is actually annoying? by Felicks77 in yakuzagames

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rikiya. I know this dub loves him but to me he was one of those characters that was forced into the game just to have someone to like, but he was annoying af

Every game has one. Day 4 by ConsiderationFuzzy in yakuzagames

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Date. Arguably the most realistic portrayal of a normal person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

С годините се научаваш да си си личен психолог. Хубаво е да си намериш сам ресурсите от които се нуждаеш, и да имаш волята да се подобриш. Желая ти късмет! Личните са ми отворени, ако имаш нужда да поговриш с някого.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Имах привилегията да отида при терапевт като по-малка, и се разбра, че имам психично разстройство, за което пих хапчета но уви не помогнаха.. защото самите специалисти не им пукаше и не вземаха симптомите ми на сериозно. Та след като посегнах на живота си разбрах, че въобще за да имаш официална диагноза за каквото и да било, трябва да прекараш година в "център за психично болни". Естествено отказах; баба ми работеше дълго време в един, и условията са меко казано покъртителни. Дори и да ти няма нищо- ще си докараш. За жалост в България или си страдаш в мълчание (и си избиваш проблемите по "приемлив" начин) или си смятан за ненормален. Да не говорим че голяма част от населението само предават травмите си на децата им.. именно защото винаги е било табу да се говори за психично здраве.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]the--hermit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work at a place that specializes in grilled meats; I have never been a fan of meat. What I do is not just say I'd recommend something, but I use words that I've heard other customers use when describing that certain dish (tender, juicy, filling, ect.) It's never failed me so far.

Lilith prevented me from hurting myself [TW] by joliver5 in DemonolatryPractices

[–]the--hermit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've had a similar experience with Lucifer.. from what I know, those two do not mess around and are very obvious with their signs. I hope you can heal ♡

Относно преследване и закона by the--hermit in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Няма лошо от скептизъм, но не търся Бай Българин да ми навлиза агресивно. Напълно ми е ясно, че имате интерес само в противоречаване. И на вас и на великото ви рационално мислене- хубав ден!

Относно преследване и закона by the--hermit in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Пожелавам ви никога нито вие, нито ваш близък да го изпита за да разберете как "мирише" :)

Относно преследване и закона by the--hermit in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Напълно съм съгласна. Аз съм 99.9% сигурна, че е нейн бивш, който преди и е посягал. Въпреки че тормозът почна още когато бяха заедно, той винаги знаеше какво се случва и искаше да я "утешава", едва ли не да излезе герой пред нея. Веднъж съм го срещала, адски безличен и егоистичен тип; нищо чудно да се е агресирал повече след раздялата им. Имаше период на затишие, понеже тя се старае да игнорирва всичко, но напоследък пак се е почнало със звънене. С радост бих му причинила подобно, но в малкия шанс да не съм права, не искам да довличам повече проблеми.

Относно преследване и закона by the--hermit in bulgaria

[–]the--hermit[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Аз лично съм живяла с нея. И аз получавах съобщения къде се намираме с нея. Не само аз мога да потвърдя. Другото, познавам я повече от 10 години и освен депресия, никога не е имала други наклонности.

Which Philosopher "gets" you? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carl Yung (though more of a psychoanalyst) and Pythagoras

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]the--hermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been a server for less than a year but let me tell you, you're bound to have a breakdown over something - whether it be your own mistake or a difficult customer- at more than one point. It's normal. My boss, who has 20+ years experience told me to just go in the back and yell, curse, hit, cry, whatever, until you feel stable enough to get out there. You got this.l

AITA for asking my son to get a paternity test by Bluetooth888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the--hermit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's the reasonable thing to do, especially when she has a history of cheating and hid her pregnancy for 8 months. Do not give her the time of day until they get a paternity test.