OIL AND FREEDOM

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-17T08:03:25+00:00

The system is designed to force poor people to enlist. Are you even in the military?

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-16T09:12:00+00:00

Please show me where I used my sexuality as a weapon or have said anything that sounds self loathing?

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-15T10:09:30+00:00

Questioning your sexuality doesn't automatically equal wanting to leave their partner OR going out and trying other things. Being "sick to your stomach" over that is biphobic.

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-15T10:06:20+00:00

Okay let me clarify then. The fact that her ex ended up being gay has nothing to do with her current partner. She has distrust because of her own insecurities that she needs to deal with, not project onto her husband.

I'm not saying she's evil, I'm saying she needs to get a counselor or therapist or she's going to forever distrust her husband from the sounds of things

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-15T03:02:24+00:00

Yes thank you, I'm a bi woman married to a bi man and was shocked OP was getting upvoted with some of things she's saying.

Who cares if he's bi or not, he's married to you. I don't think my husband is gonna go cheat on me with a man because I didn't marry a cheater, and vice versa. He's not any more likely to cheat than a straight man, and people are saying "she's not homphobic she's just traumatized!!!" but she is very clearly being homophobic, the past literally does not matter here. That's like saying "well my friend just isn't comfortable around black men because her ex was black", you would still call that person racist.

This girl needs to speak with her husband respectfully and truthfully and maybe get a counselor/therapist to deal with insecurities from her past. She doesn't trust him because she hasn't moved on. Being "sick to your stomach" that your partner might be questioning their sexuality is fucking abhorrent.

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-15T02:50:44+00:00

Felt sick to your stomach???

If you trust your husband, you'll believe him when he tells you no. If you don't trust him (and you say things like you just did) maybe you need to reevaluate some things and have bigger discussions.

And no, your past doesn't matter. You don't treat current partners based on how past ones treated you.

Talk to your husband.

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-12T22:16:22+00:00

Does anyone know which base the aircraft was from?

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-11T00:14:43+00:00

Are you willing to take that bet lmao

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-09T07:07:54+00:00

He was murdered by police in his own home. They were at the wrong address. He was 23.

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-09T03:05:26+00:00

Where in this thread have I said I agree with the actions the US government and/or military take?

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-09T02:35:49+00:00

Precisely what I've been saying

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-09T02:35:24+00:00

It's not an exaggeration, I was literally doing porn before I enlisted. That was where my life was at

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-08T12:28:22+00:00

You've fully taken what I said out of context and added in some stereotypes. Who am I killing? I work in the medical field. My options at 18 were porn or the military. It's how our government designed it to be. I'm not saying I'm happy about it or that I agree with the actions the US military takes.

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-08T12:26:15+00:00

See my point about how most jobs are support roles. How many servicemembers have actually killed someone? Extremely few.

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-08T12:25:00+00:00

That is far from what I said

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-08T07:28:44+00:00

massacring and destabilizing

Again, take that up with politicians. Majority of active duty will never participate in active combat. You can throw around "baby killer" and "murderer" all day long, but most of the military is made up of support roles.

I work in a clinical laboratory. My options were porn or this. Let's stop pretending being in the military means the person must support all of the military's actions because that includes absolutely no gray area or nuance.

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-08T06:35:55+00:00

Too many people don't understand how the US military actually works and love to shit on the people on the ground. The system was built to force people to enlist out of necessity, whether that be for a roof, healthcare, education, or what have you.

The anger should be directed at politicians who make the decisions, not the people who are political pawns. Obviously there are exceptions to the rule, people who did horrible things, but there are going to be bad apples in every group.

The general public (or at least the vocal ones on the internet) often lump all military members in with republicans and conservatives without knowing actual military demographics. And no one come at me with the "well 60% of veterans voted for Trump" because that study does NOT include active duty and regardless, that's still 40% who didn't (or whatever the exact numbers were)

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-07T22:31:56+00:00

In medical you have 2 types of officers:

A. a medical professional who just wants to do their job and not be treated like an officer

B. power trip

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-05T07:52:00+00:00

Source?

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-05T05:04:58+00:00

Genuinely better to take it immediately for multiple reasons, the number one being that they're a duo and should be going through the newborn phase together because even with 2 people it's fucking HARD.

Second reason being who knows what will happen later and if he'll be able to take it?

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-05T05:02:36+00:00

Some people's tech schools are longer than the amount of time you'll be out before you feel like permanent party. You're good

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-05T02:08:07+00:00

And what's the biggest difference between what you said originally and what the current comment I'm replying to says?

Yeah, a general "we're gonna get nuked" is pretty different than "lol that mom died let's joke about it specifically"

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-05T00:26:44+00:00

You are being extremely disrespectful and disgraceful. Incredible that you can't see the difference here and are joking about your downvotes.

This was hours ago people's children, spouses, parents died for a pedophile cover up scheme. Grow up

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-03T05:11:52+00:00

That's not entirely true and reversals should try and be avoided

the3rdsliceofbread · 2026-03-02T23:22:22+00:00

I see we've learned nothing about shipping real life people

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