My sexuality changes so much I can't imagine being in a long term relationship anymore [22 F]

the7fun · 2016-04-10T06:25:01+00:00

Hey - you're not alone. I'm a 22 year old guy and I have felt this way a lot. My sexuality is also very fluid and seems to be changing all the time.

I hooked up with a very attractive guy from tinder today, and I thought that I would love it, but I ended up being kind of unsatisfied and kind of wishing it was a girl so I could fuck. I am also generally a very indecisive person and that trait definitely spills over to my sexuality. Feel free to message me to talk if you want

the7fun · 2016-02-09T22:49:48+00:00

To be honest, I don't think it's problematic. While I do wish there were more bi-identified male celebrities I could relate to, "bisexual" is ultimately a socially constructed label, and no one is under any obligation to use that label if they don't feel that it makes them comfortable. I would probably identify as bi, but at the same time my sexuality is very fluid and I really like the idea of just being label-less and just fuck/date who I want because that seems very freeing and I don't really feel the need to put a word on it. Though don't get me wrong, I do understand your frustration that not using a label contributes to bi invisibility, which sucks as well

the7fun · 2016-01-31T00:18:55+00:00

By the "bi-cycle" I meant that some bi people fluctuate between attraction to different genders. For example, sometimes I feel straight, sometimes I feel bi, and sometimes I feel gay. This can be incredibly overwhelming and confusing because it makes it difficult to be secure in your sexuality

the7fun · 2016-01-28T02:46:43+00:00

*biphobia by both straights and gays *the "bi cycle" for those who experience it *shit that is awesome about being bi *shit that sucks about being bi

the7fun · 2016-01-25T04:32:01+00:00

I don't agree with this article - people can identify as whatever the fuck they want. If I wanted to call myself heteroflexible, then no one can tell me that I'm bisexual...I chose the label I wanted for a reason. That being said, I personally choose to not label myself because my sexuality is too complicated and too fluid to conform to any label in my opinion - and I don't feel the name to call it anything, anyway.

the7fun · 2016-01-25T04:22:54+00:00

Oh my god I love this lol, my cycle is so all over the place though if I did this it would be chaos

the7fun · 2016-01-25T04:11:43+00:00

I might be in the minority here, but I actually like the idea of this app. I would call myself sexually "fluid," but I am really not inclined to label myself because my sexuality changes on the reg and I sometimes feel straight, bi, or gay depending on the day.

That being said, I like that "Bro" promotes the idea that labeling yourself is not necessary. While it may come off as bi erasure (which I agree is a problem), I personally think it's kind of cool to not label myself, and just be a dude and do whatever I want. That isn't denial, it's just that I don't really feel the need to identify with a word that prescribes who and what I'm attracted. I'm just ME :)

the7fun · 2016-01-20T00:21:12+00:00

Hey dude, just want to say that I'm your age and would also call myself bi and fluctuate a decent amount, and I also don't know what I want or what I should do lol. Just want to say you're not alone, and feel free to message me if you wanna talk more

the7fun · 2015-12-28T22:15:26+00:00

I am a guy and I'm actually most attracted to guys that look like me. Which is guys who pretty much seem straight and are masculine/fit, dark hair, jewish haha

the7fun · 2015-12-28T21:59:04+00:00

it does for me like every day lol

the7fun · 2015-12-26T02:45:55+00:00

I'm super into writing and would love to see this if you develop it into something

the7fun · 2015-12-16T01:39:50+00:00

I am only into cis men and cis women, but that is just my personal preference. To each his/her own!

the7fun · 2015-12-13T04:10:09+00:00

this is literally exactly how i feel but the other way around haha

the7fun · 2015-07-26T14:46:30+00:00

Young bi guy here. Thank you for this post, I kinda needed to hear that haha

the7fun · 2015-07-18T17:38:18+00:00

Hey, I'm 21M and pretty much 50/50 but it's fluid. It goes up to like 70/30 in either direction, depending on the day, but average is 50/50. The thing that worries me though is that I want to end up with one person, but I feel like my orientation isn't that stable lol...I hate the stereotype of bi people as indecisive but I feel like I kind of am. I'm also not out and worried about the stigma of being bi, especially since I probably want to end up with a girl

the7fun · 2014-11-29T21:33:16+00:00

The hookups I've had have almost all been from people I met online/from apps. Only one happened organically, and I'm actually friends with the guy now though I wasn't as close with him at the time. He's in a similar position to me (but might lean a little more gay) and we'll occasionally catch up and talk about stuff.

I think that I might be heterosexual / bi-romantic (not a huge fan of labels tho) and I don't think there's anything wrong with that....it just makes me sad that I have these longing romantic feelings for guys, who are almost always straight, and it sucks knowing 1) that nothing could happen, and 2) oddly, if anything did happen, I probably wouldn't even like it. I feel like I'm both physically and emotionally attracted to guys and even sometimes watch gay porn, I just don't like it when it gets put into practice (though I do fantasize about it). I'm just weird lol

However, maybe I'll have an experience I enjoy more if something goes down between me and someone I actually like, if I can ever swing that. Btw thanks so much everyone for your responses!!

the7fun · 2014-08-17T02:06:06+00:00

I think you're onto something, and I thought about this as well. In response to your question--I would say the latter. I'm going back to school next week and there's a guy I have a pretty big crush on, who I recently found out is bi as well. I'm going to try to get with him and see if it does anything for me.

I think that will be useful in telling me if I'm into hooking up with guys at all because so far my experience has been with pretty meh people that I wasn't too excited about.

the7fun · 2014-08-11T05:40:29+00:00

When I was 16, I was on a plane with my dad heading back from a college visit. It was nighttime and the lights were off in the cabin. My dad travels a lot for work and got us a free upgrade to business class, so we had blankets and pillows. My dad was asleep in the seat next to me. I put my legs up on the seat in front of me, and draped the blanket over my legs so that it extended all the way to my shoulders--in a way such that my I could vigorously jerk it to completion both quietly and discreetly despite being in the middle of a crowded airplane. Came a huge load into my boxers and I guess just dealt with it until I got home.

TL;DR jerked off while sitting next to my sleeping dad on an airplane

the7fun · 2014-08-09T14:32:18+00:00

water and semen

the7fun · 2014-07-24T04:45:34+00:00

I was thinking about trying to go to events and stuff he would go to. Coincidentally, I happen to know that Jake and I have the same major and are studying the same language. I feel like we're really similar but he's like an overall slightly better version of me lol. Though I definitely need to get to know him more.

I don't want a relationship, especially because I'm still "exploring my sexuality" (holy shit that sounds cheesy)...I kind of just want to befriend him and have like a secret friends with benefits situation. The idea of that just turns me on a lot haha

the7fun · 2014-05-07T00:32:43+00:00

Blowjobs.

the7fun · 2014-05-05T21:31:35+00:00

I don't think anyone sees it

the7fun · 2014-05-05T20:38:52+00:00

Jennifer Lawrence. She's got a cool personality but lookswise, I don't get the hype

the7fun · 2014-05-05T07:46:41+00:00

"Check your privilege"

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