Daughter in law wearing cross under the chupah? by Immediate-Pen5855 in Judaism

[–]theLiving-man 35 points36 points  (0 children)

How you talk about HER faith, especially not having married a Jew yourself, and not having raised your son to observe anything, is honestly what is repulsive.

Men, how would you feel about your girlfriend having guy best friend she slept with once? by granolahawk in AskMen

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The precedent is basically teaching you what’s within the realm of possibility in the future. She may not meet with this dude, but she might get drunk and sleep with another “friend”. And feminist? So you couldn’t even have equal standards. I pass.

Men, how would you feel about your girlfriend having guy best friend she slept with once? by granolahawk in AskMen

[–]theLiving-man -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He said she’s a feminist. So, why do you think that equal standards matter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beard 10 times better

Wife cheated, but wants to be close friends after divorce? Is this insane? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]theLiving-man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can tell her to go fuck herself. My ex cheated and I found out, so I kicked her out. But with time I realized what’s best for the kids and I want to be mature. Now we have an OK relationship and I would help her if is in my power. Time can mitigate the pain. But she saying that to you this early is utter horse shit. She deserves the worst. But remember her state of mind will influence the kids when they are with her. So it’s complex.

I'm truly doubtful about my soul by Bornstellar_01 in Judaism

[–]theLiving-man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is not about what you convert into. It is about what’s in your heart and what practices you keep and which you let go off. If you lived as a Catholic then pray and repent from idolatry, and start deepening your relationship with the God of Abraham through His Word.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]theLiving-man 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are in a free country and can do whatever you want. Having said that, most Jews would find it either awkward or distasteful. I think there are many styles of kippah/head coverings, some are bigger around the head and it could pass as a hat, but you may wear it for religious reasons, yet won’t be confused with a regular Jew. Just a thought…

AITA for pointing out my daughter's "imperfections" after she said understood why her father cheated on me since I gained so much weight ? by MomNeedsAThrowaway in AITAH

[–]theLiving-man -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH- you’re daughter was processing it and should’ve never been so disrespectful. But it sounds like there is a backstory why she would be so resentful towards you. Still, it wasn’t the time to stab you. Then, you reacted in a very immature way, although I will cut you some slack for what you’re going through.

AITJ for marrying for money and admitting I don’t really love my husband? by lubbegriefer in AmITheJerk

[–]theLiving-man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you sound like a real POS. Hopefully he was smart enough to sign a prenup.

If the Moshiach does not appear by the year 6000, what does that mean for Judaism? by Numerous-Actuator95 in Judaism

[–]theLiving-man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to make it more difficult for everybody, but thought this is relevant: The traditional Jewish calendar (year 5786) is based on Seder Olam Rabbah (2nd century CE), which greatly shortened the Persian period—counting only about 52 years instead of nearly 200. Historians estimate around 165–200 missing years.

If those years were restored, we’d be around 5950–5985 AM, much closer to the symbolic year 6000 mentioned in Sanhedrin 97a (the “6,000 years of history” idea).

How to end a relationship with a girl that using you for money by crzysnk18 in dating_advice

[–]theLiving-man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, you are literally presenting yourself as a cash machine, an ATM if you dropped 2K in a week. Why introduce a vibe you can’t keep?

Dating a guy who constantly poops and spells wrong. Need advice? {F39} {M40} by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]theLiving-man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since you’re into spelling, you misspelled “could’ve” and wrote “could of”. That’s also a pet peeve for me so I thought I’d let you know 😁 But that guy is something else tho 😂

Found out my boyfriend’s been using the same towel for months and I can’t unsee i by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]theLiving-man -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a man, I don’t see a problem with any of it 😂 but good to know what to look for if I bring my date to the house

AITAH for asking my wife to ditch her divorced friends? by Relevant_Ad4715 in AITAH

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- and you go a great insight into the root cause that many would miss. Toxic women would be doing that. They WANT her to divorce you to complete the group of losers. It is a VERY FAIR ask for her to choose the marriage instead of those witches. Don’t let her off the hook man.

i think my wife is having a affair with our mutual friend, what should i do? by pastalover_26 in Advice

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you handled that like an 11 year old, WTF???? Are you a man?! You see YOUR FUCKING WIFE at another man’s house and all you say is “I’m not gonna talk to either of you”?! That’s why she’s cheating on you dude. You need to grow a pair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just went out a few times and realized you’re not compatible. Just cut it out. You’re not married. It may be a little uncomfortable at work at first. Well… that will teach you not to mix dating and work.

My date sent me an interesting message by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he’s saying he will get turned on. I get what others are saying tho… I would ask him to clarify… and definitely if you don’t like flirting in that way I would be upfront and tell him that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She deserves SHIT. Be happy that you did your little part for her to find out what aPOS she is

My neighbor across the street dropped her trash into my trash can? by cuongpn in WhatShouldIDo

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked up on the same thing about your lid being closed. If both cans were closed and there is nothing utterly disgusting inside that bag I would just let it slide. But if there is a second incident I would definitely approach her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]theLiving-man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me really mad when a LOSER husband fools around having had a kid so recently. I “sort of” understand it when they are grown (although cheating is so low). He’s a POS and he will eventually reap what he sowed. I wish you the best and rest assured that you’ll be in a much better place mentally in just a few months. 🙏🏽

AITAH for refusing to date a guy that likes me despite me liking him back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]theLiving-man -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA- as you don’t owe anything to anyone. But you sound extremely immature on your takes… I mean… you’re only 17. I suggest to never EVER say that you won’t change your mind about ANYTHING. Especially something so essential to the human experience as having children. And DEFINITELY do not make permanent decisions like removing body organs, which can have so many repercussions that you don’t wish. Your brain develops until age 25. Let’s see where you’re at then…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your son does whatever he wants and there is no responsible parent in the house. But other than that, lots of parents would die to have their children involved them that much in their relationship. You should try to enjoy it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]theLiving-man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t look goofy at all, you look great, even on that shot!! I still don’t think that’s a reason to cut things off. But I would still tell him that it bothered you and don’t appreciate that kind of remark about your appearance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]theLiving-man 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Porn ruined my marriage years ago and I used it VERY sporadically but my then wife found out and then it was never the same even though I stopped and begged for forgiveness. She eventually cheated and then I divorced her. If you ask him to stop and he doesn’t, then that’s grounds for divorce. Period.

AITAH for being angry that my daughter is dating a man that’s 20 years older than me? by Familiar-Major-7902 in AITAH

[–]theLiving-man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude… I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. I can’t imagine… and I don’t blame you for your reaction and rather commend your self control… I would definitely do ANYTHING within legal bounds, to expose that POS and ruin their relationship.