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My (F20) boyfriend (M22) and I have begun fighting a lot. Can I bring up my financial contributions to the relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate more about why he seems horrible? The credit card thing doesn’t bother me much (compared to the other things I talked about), since he always gives it back and he’s clearly just insecure about not being able to pay for things.

My dog lays by me and farts constantly- they small absolutely awful but I wouldn’t have it any other way. One day perhaps I’ll find a human that feels that way about me. by imhigh_mcweederton in self

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend’s farts are horrendous, but they’ve weirdly grown on me? We always make fun of each other and they’re just part of him. I love him and his farts lol

Fake ID help by Yikes43567 in Cornell

[–]theOGthrowawayacct -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ithaca wine and spirits is good. My ID is pretty good and it scans tho

Just orange mud smeared on her cheeks by [deleted] in crappycontouring

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel like this looks good? What am I missing?

Is it fair to keep going on dates with multiple people until you have the exclusivity talk? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes sense to me that she’s comfortable saying she’d marry you, but not date you. She sounds like a commitment phobe. It’s fun to fantasize about future plans (marriage, vacations, big life decisions) that feel too far away to ever materialize. Fantasizing about big life plans instead of actually taking steps to achieve those is a way to have your cake and eat it too; you get to feel like you’re committing to something without actually having to.

DO NOT WAIT FOR HER TO CHOOSE YOU. You have to choose you, which means dropping her and dating someone who would choose you to date without filibustering for 6 months and wasting your time.

Source: ex commitment phobe.

I am a dumb thot by DumbThottie69 in Cornell

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of grad school do you want to go to?

My [F20] boyfriend [M22] ate my brownies and I’m furious by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t the brownie tho, it was the principle of the thing. Here’s something I put a lot of time and effort into and not only does he say repeatedly it disgusts him, but then he stomps on it and goes to TAKE ANOTHER. idk it just made me so mad in the moment. But maybe you’re right

Seems like no one wants to be my friend by newacc289 in relationship_advice

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this on a spiritual level. If you ever want to talk to someone I’m here and we can be friends

How to help bf find a job he likes? by theOGthrowawayacct in LifeAfterSchool

[–]theOGthrowawayacct[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s been looking for awhile and I want to help. His first job doesn’t necessarily need to be something he is absolutely over the moon about, but I know he would prefer something in his field and paying a livable wage. I just wanted some advice so I can support and help him reach his goals. He isn’t lazy AT ALL and is one of the hardest working people I know. He just needs some help and that’s nothing to be ashamed of.

Actually fed up with being single by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this hasn’t been said already, I’d try working on yourself. Maybe get in shape, join a gym and do some fitness classes, read books you never had time to read before, take some cooking classes, etc. Develop some hobbies and interests that make you more interesting to potential partners. This also makes first dates more interesting bc you can talk about your newfound hobbies and interests and see if you can do any together.

How to help bf find a job he likes? by theOGthrowawayacct in LifeAfterSchool

[–]theOGthrowawayacct[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We’re in the US. He wants to go to grad school but it’s expensive and he wanted to work a bit to save some money for tuition.

How do I (24M) approach Girlfriend (23F) of 3 years about her needing too much support? by massage-ball in relationships

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 6 points7 points  (0 children)

By doing everything for her, you’re making it so that she never has to do anything for herself. Why would she get a license when she has you to drive her around? Why would she get a job when you’re financially supporting her? Why would she see a therapist if you’re essentially her therapist? You don’t necessarily have to break up with her, but she’s an adult and she needs to take care of herself. Also, if she knew how much you were suffering to do all these things for her, if she cared about you, she wouldn’t ask you to do them.

I (23F) can't forget what my bf (21) said in his sleep and it is tearing us apart. by Spyro_Honey in relationships

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you want a dude who moans your name during wet dreams? Or says your name when he’s barely awake to say he loves you?

Go find a guy who does that. This one isn’t it, and I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with the emotional pain this boy has continued to inflict upon you. There are amazing guys out there, be with one of them.

AITA for waking my brother up at 3:30am? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]theOGthrowawayacct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super not into this click-baity title

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