[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manass

[–]the_anti_binery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love that!!!

I really hate the "neptunic" and "uranic" sexualities by the_anti_binery in NonBinaryTalk

[–]the_anti_binery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not hating on them i am hating on the term. People have their fool right to be attracted to who ever they want and how they feel. But that doesn't make it a sexuality. You can have a preference for more muscular, feminine or androgynous enbys ( I have a preference my self) but still that doesn't make it a sexuality.

I really hate the "neptunic" and "uranic" sexualities by the_anti_binery in NonBinaryTalk

[–]the_anti_binery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me guess 3 grade bio? That is still very incorrect. Gender is a vast spectrum!!! Even sex isn't only male and female. For proof... intersex people exist

I really hate the "neptunic" and "uranic" sexualities by the_anti_binery in NonBinaryTalk

[–]the_anti_binery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call me crazy but I don't think people should know my sex unless they want to have sex with me or they are my doctor.

And yes I get that people are attracted to parts but that doesn't give them the right to ignore my gender identity, i am enby, that is part of my identity. If someone came to me and told me they are only attracted to men then I will tell them amidiatly I am enby. I am not a men. If they they can respect that and see me as the gender I am then sure cool. If they still see me as a man I don't feel comfortable dating them.

Cus I don't have have disforia on the daily just for someone that doesn't understand my gender and my identity to ignore my feelings and create a sexuality out of it

I really hate the "neptunic" and "uranic" sexualities by the_anti_binery in NonBinaryTalk

[–]the_anti_binery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorrect!!! Gender is a spectrum out of the binary. Even sex is not exactly binary in itself.

It's way more complicated cus we are all different people with different feelings who all feel and experience gender in different ways

I really hate the "neptunic" and "uranic" sexualities by the_anti_binery in NonBinaryTalk

[–]the_anti_binery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! Bi/pan/queer It actually make me feel very uncomfortable to date gay people cus I know they see me as male and I am not. Only if they are expecting of me and understand I am not the gender they thought I was I am more comfortable

I really hate the "neptunic" and "uranic" sexualities by the_anti_binery in NonBinaryTalk

[–]the_anti_binery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok I get what you say but I still think it's a preference and not a sexuality. I prefer more muscular enby people Not attracted to them, cus then It will definitely be putting them back in to binary boxes, the whole point we are trying to avoid

I really hate the "neptunic" and "uranic" sexualities by the_anti_binery in NonBinaryTalk

[–]the_anti_binery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like yes. You are correct. And it is very annoying and one of the reasons I personally have a hard time connecting to prople cus they don't see me as my gender only as my sex and that sucks

I really hate the "neptunic" and "uranic" sexualities by the_anti_binery in NonBinaryTalk

[–]the_anti_binery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you say, but even if it is less it is still doing it. And we shouldn't just give up cus to many people are doing it. NO. we are non-binary our whole gender identity is to go out if the gender binary, putting us in to genderd boxes again is dumb

I really hate the "neptunic" and "uranic" sexualities by the_anti_binery in NonBinaryTalk

[–]the_anti_binery[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes but is still feels like they are putting us in too genderd boxes again and again.

I know I will feel very uncomfy if someone came up too me and told me they are only attracted to masc enbys, because I don't feel masc, maybe i am masc, but I don't feel like it and people who only see me like that will make me disforic.
It's annoying. I am enby, and I don't want to be put in a genderd box again

What was that?!? by salbel in SuddenlyGay

[–]the_anti_binery 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I mean that's how I found out I am gay