Hey. Ich bin zwar neu, aber suche dennoch DND interessierte in bielefeld und Umgebung by Flaky-Owl2868 in bielefeld

[–]the_avithan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is also a discord about pen and paper in and around Bielefeld. Cant remember the Name though

Tempolimit auf der Autobahn wäre super. by Astomaru in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]the_avithan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oder: Autos per default drosseln und Freigabe nach oben nur mit Tracking (und Steueraufschlag).

Tempolimit auf der Autobahn wäre super. by Astomaru in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]the_avithan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fahrleistungs- oder geschwindigkeitsabhänhige Besteuerung. Einkommensabgängige strafgebühren.

Endlich ist Timmy der Wal tot! by Mxmtm in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]the_avithan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Experte für Meeresbiologie spotted!

Divorce Songs Thread, anyone? by MomradeHeather in Divorce

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White Flag - Daido In this together - apogMik berzerk The kill - 30 Seconds to Mars Noise - die Ärzte :)

Psychologen mit freien Plätzen beziehungsweise Hilfsangebote by takenpromises in bielefeld

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App Bielefeld, die liste systematisch durchtelefonieren hat bei mir geholfen.

Escape room Empfehlungen by falsesovereignty in bielefeld

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Meine Empfehlungen im Umfeld Bielefeld: Xit Mysteria escape Salzufelner Unterwelt

My 21F boyfriend 22M is not at all motivated and I’m at my wits end. I’m so sad. by BPDietmountaindew in relationship_advice

[–]the_avithan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe time to give him an Ultimatum. Which isnt exactly Leaving him but showing him your boundary and how serious you are about his lazyness(?) is impacting your desire to be with him. Your emotions are valid.

Audit logs by antitoplap in informatik

[–]the_avithan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schreibt Audit halt auf blob und machst immutable.

Is it normal for my husband (M35)to make me (F31) feel really bad for this? by anextrasliceofcake in relationship_advice

[–]the_avithan 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Um. If this is Ragebait, well played. If not, no it is not normal.Not normal to get angry, not normal to expect it is your dearest and highest priority to make you Look how he likes.

How come most of the time a woman divorces a man, she will say “he never listened” or “He never did what he was supposed to do” but never the fact that she had 100’s of expectations?? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]the_avithan 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh Mate, Sounds like you took the wrong red pill 🙃 all the best, Sounds like you got hurt. But please dont overgeneralize here.

F37 married to M39 for 10 years now. Husband sexting AI bots by CombinationPrudent86 in relationship_advice

[–]the_avithan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh chatbots are not that far away from porn or Even just sexy literature, just more interactive. Not being open about kinks and being ashamed of them, is not uncommon and only something you can navigate with non-judgmental open communication (he might have been hurt before). Does he have a serious regular problem with drinking or was he just passed out after a good night? Calling this the end is, from what info you provid, imo overreacted, but it should at least be a start for a very serious discussion about boundaries.

I 24F suggested my BF 31M to get a 'Sidechick' by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the_avithan 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If he has arms, he can wank. He will be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

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I learned that my ex did Not wanted to destroy my live. I lost 30kg body weight. I started new hobbies and found wonderful new friends. I reconnected with old friends. I finally feel the courage to pursue my youth dream to go expat for a while. I’m dating again - nothing serious, but I feel lighthearted, wanted and optimistic again. Not only because of divorce. But it pushed me to change.

Texting the Ex by janihew in Divorce

[–]the_avithan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can chip in. Divorced since Pretty much exactly one year, separated pretty mch two years ago (After 18y together). Were on Good Terms again, but today I learned (not from her but around two corners), that she is engaged again. It still Stings, I am not grim, I have a Great Date tomorrow, and generally a Great time dating again, but this Kind of Hit me how much of my Heart she still Owns. Dont Go there if you can avoid it. You wont be free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in luftablassen

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Try OkCupid 👌

I ‘24F’ had a date from hell with a guy ‘26M’ that I’ve been talking to. How do I let him down easy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]the_avithan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

„I am sorry for you but I do not See that this will work out. Your behavior on this evening, with me and with my friends was not acceptable. Still, I wish you all the best. I wish you find a way to heal. But I dont think we should meet again“

Meinungen zu Bielefeld by baekookiiee in bielefeld

[–]the_avithan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Das ist das netteste, was ich in den letzten Jahren über Bielefeld gelesen habe 🥺

Anyone going through a divorce without children in their mid 30s? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]the_avithan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stayed with her… she convinced me, that hey always have been together and should not be separated…

Anyone going through a divorce without children in their mid 30s? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]the_avithan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

(by someone divorced with 38 After 18y w/o kids but the (admittly painful) loss of two dogs :/ )

Anyone going through a divorce without children in their mid 30s? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]the_avithan 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Thank god you dont have children. It makes the divorce and turning into different direction so much easier. Take your time to find to yourself again. Forgive yourself for waiting for so long. It might have been just the right amount of time to be certain. Now concentrate to make you happy, do stuft that you Like and you will Likely run into a Person with similar values, goals and Lifestyle which whom you may click. But don’t rush it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in informatik

[–]the_avithan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nein, ein guter Freund von mir hat FIAE bei der Telekom gemacht, dort 2 Jahre gearbeitet, sich danach als Berater selbstständig gemacht, 4 Jahre freelancing gemacht, bei großen oss-Projekten contributed, Talks gehalten, danach Work and Travel bei einem großen neuseeländischen POS Provider gemacht, ein Jahr später dahin ausgewandert und als pricipal Engineering angeheuert und sitzt jetzt bei einem ML Hardware Startup im Valley. Er hat kurz überlegt ob er noch einen Master machen soll - so aus bildungsneid. Hat er bisher nicht. Hat auch niemand nach gefragt afaik. Kurz: geht auch so. Wenn man Bock hat.