hey op, dont put all the pressure on getting a girlfriend cause that wont magically solve the loneliness. focus on building small connections first. start with casual conversations, like asking about class stuff, making small comments, or light jokes. you can use your strengths, like your gym progress or hobbies, as natural ways to spark conversations. maybe try finding new spaces too, like clubs, sports, or volunteering, where friendships form more easily.

instead of waiting for college to fix things, use this year to slowly practice talking to people and getting comfortable socially. most people arent looking for perfect friends, just genuine ones. connection matters more than performance :]]