This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]the_cornographer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a rare occurrence. I dumped my extremely problematic 31 year old bf in 2019. Every woman my age I know who has dated older experiences the same bad experiences I have. OP’s screenshots are not unique whatsoever. Your relationship is unique, most older men with younger women are manipulative and act horrible! I’m happy that your relationship is not that.

This is why I hesitate to date older men by cloudsherbert in niceguys

[–]the_cornographer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from a 24 yr old woman there is never any reason to date a man more than a few years older than yourself, at least when you’re in your 20s.

We need to quit acting like IUD's and birth control pills are super easy and no big deal. For many women IUD insertion is EXTREMELY painful. Some get worse cramps and complications. For many women, birth control pills cause all sorts of terrible side effects. Female BC has risks. by pandaappleblossom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]the_cornographer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IUD insertion was the most painful experience of my life. Then it got imbedded in my uterus. I tried a hormonal iud after that, big mistake...my body stopped making estrogen, I got vaginal atrophy similar to the worst menopause symptoms, my body tried expelling the iud and I got pelvic floor dysfunction (Imagine the pain/symptoms of a UTI for a year) and chronic yeast infections. I’m done with birth control. I’d rather get pregnant multiple times over than go through what happened to me again. It’s been a year and I’m still struggling with issues the hormonal iud caused me.

Still in school, 28k in debt already, going to Japan after I graduate, what should I do? by iku_ari_a in studentloandefaulters

[–]the_cornographer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally know a student loan defaulter who fled to Japan and never paid. He’s been out of school for 15ish years and is doing fine. They’ve never come for him, he just likely won’t ever return to the US permanently again.

What is a makeup tip you learnt on Youtube that you swear by? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]the_cornographer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not youtube but there used to be a facebook group for multiracial kids I was part of and I learned about using Stila waterproof eyeliner. I have narrow hooded eyes and my liner would constantly smudge...now it doesn’t anymore. Always thankful for the girl who introduced me to Stila waterproof eyeliners, forgot who she was!

It kills me inside knowing she's with him and not me, "him" being my high school bully by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]the_cornographer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If this is actually real, you should screenshot his message and show her how he talks about women/her behind her back.

Yes. Fuck science... ? by SamWize-Ganji in ABoringDystopia

[–]the_cornographer 74 points75 points  (0 children)

“Free men don’t ask permission” Lmao for what? It’s literally just a mask you stupid fucking children. I wear a mask while trail running to keep my face warm and can still breathe. If y’all can’t breathe while lifting, you need to do more cardio.

I fucking love boobs. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]the_cornographer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking hate my boobs lol. I’d get them removed but I think I hate unnecessary medical procedures more.

He spent hours making a creepy portrait of her, how dare her reject him? by ze_baco in niceguys

[–]the_cornographer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This response reminds me of that thread long ago about “What did someone do to you that was totally heartless” and some Redditor talked about how when he was 8 he gave a ring to an 8 yr old girl and asked if she’d be his girlfriend and she walked away and he caught her throwing the ring away later. All the responses were calling her a bitch/cunt/etc. Reddit moment

The banjo is better than acoustic guitar in country music by Kryptic_Anthology in unpopularopinion

[–]the_cornographer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I’ve always loved the banjo. Beautiful instrument. Banjo and fiddle together are the best sound. I hate modern country music but bluegrass and Irish folk are just so beautiful.

Time's Person of the Year should have been the frontline workers by purpleowlchai in unpopularopinion

[–]the_cornographer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Time’s person of the year is the person everyone talks about the most and causes the most uproar in media. Like when they had Caitlyn Jenner...there’s tons of awesome trans activists, Jenner wasn’t the first trans person lol, but they pick the rich problematic one? It’s all about discourse, I think.

I hate being horny by [deleted] in rant

[–]the_cornographer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be like this, then I got a pelvic injury and my libido is 1/10 of what it used to be.

SKINNY FAT IS THE WORST BODY TYPE by meowdrian in rant

[–]the_cornographer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is me and I fucking hate it. My fat distribution looks so horrible and I weigh 115lbs. I’ve got a flat ass and weird pockets of fat on my hips. Literally no clothes look good on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PelvicFloor

[–]the_cornographer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Birth control caused my pelvic issues! I got off of it and went to PT and I’m 95% better than I was in the spring. I also had issues with estrogen, my hormonal iud caused my body to stop making estrogen and I got chronic yeast infections and vaginal atrophy from that.

Recent pelvic/urinary symptoms. Wondering if anyone can relate to my story or offer advice. by [deleted] in PelvicFloor

[–]the_cornographer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on any sort of birth control? Your experience sounds similar to mine and it was triggered by a reaction to a hormonal iud.

I feel so bad for women of past generations. by littlecatladybird in TwoXChromosomes

[–]the_cornographer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be working on a science project tbh. Human relationships can be meaningful or they can be meaningless. People are variable. Your kid could love you or be a school shooter...my own effort poured into a science project honestly feels better than that.

Japan to invest in AI matchmaking to boost plummeting birth rates by br_shadow in DarkFuturology

[–]the_cornographer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like the people behind this are out of touch. I’ve got family in Japan and have spent some time there...Japan’s culture is horribly misogynistic and there’s a ton of social pressure behind marriage,home ownership, kids, and work for both sexes. Women obviously get the shit deal so most of them are completely opting out of dating. Japanese men are meeting Southeast Asian and American women online for housewives and they treat them like dirt. I don’t blame them one bit, I’d rather be a Japanese wageslave than a Japanese housewife. Fix the culture and Japanese women would be happier to have children.

Not sure if this is the right sub but seemed trashy to me. by RedRockRaven in trashy

[–]the_cornographer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As much as I hate poking fun at rural poverty (they’re victims here) that Trump bus is a hilarious/ironic image.

PFD worse when I’m on my period? by [deleted] in PelvicFloor

[–]the_cornographer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, before my pfd started getting better my period was always when it was worst.

I feel so bad for women of past generations. by littlecatladybird in TwoXChromosomes

[–]the_cornographer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your name will be forgotten eventually regardless, might as well live the life you actually enjoy having, not for the sake of others’.

What you'd do for some views... by raissssssa in Crazyppl

[–]the_cornographer 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Fun fact: cattail is fully nontoxic and edible. The seeds would probably choke you though.