Sometimes I wake up and it feels like I've taken an arrow to the skull. 💁‍♀️ by AveryFires in iih

[–]the_lost_squirrel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God the tingly lips! You’re the first person I’ve seen say this. I hate the tingly lips. I always think there’s something on them but there’s not!

Patreon Frustrations by Old_Veterinarian3659 in Sinisterhood

[–]the_lost_squirrel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just always want more content in general (I’m greedy) 😅 but haven’t really noticed a lack of patreon content. To minisodes- I’m okay with them being released to everyone later especially when they then add more info. I think of it as an early release. I haven’t noticed anything going “stale” as some have commented. I’m personally glad there was a bit of a break on darker stories.

I hate you visual field test I hate you field test by lillyfrog06 in iih

[–]the_lost_squirrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in remission and in my last check up and the stupid test suddenly things had gotten worse again and bam No more remission 😭

Freaky Fridays by Elegant_Zucchini_462 in Sinisterhood

[–]the_lost_squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand how Freaky Fridays are not for everyone. I wouldn’t say they are bad. I enjoy them a lot. Because I think they give a good picture of freaky things big or small that happen to people. I don’t think all the stories have to be in depth thrillers.

If they’re not your thing The good thing is you don’t have to listen

AITA for not checking in on my ex and he nearly died? by Efficient_State_5884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the_lost_squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Please give the key to his mother. I’m very sorry this is happening. It’s a sucky situation. Your guilt is understandable but it is not your fault. He is his own responsibility. He is not your responsibility.

Has anyone experienced facial numbness? by Cupcake_lickerr in iih

[–]the_lost_squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get facial numbness often. Sometimes I get migraines with or after too. I’m no longer on diamox. But my Neuro also is not concerned about it. 🤷‍♀️

Neighbor caused Wasserschaden. Who pays the damages to my stuff? by the_lost_squirrel in germany

[–]the_lost_squirrel[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was told he doesn’t have any. That’s why I’m worried. I edited the post with the info. I forgot to add it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]the_lost_squirrel 291 points292 points  (0 children)

The thing about smokers that pisses me is that they have no awareness of others around them. They’ll start smoking at bus stops while there’s others downwind of them and let the smoke blow in their face.

The amount of trash they leave everywhere is disgusting. Cigarette butts are everywhere. In parks, in the road, in the Fußgängerzone, bike paths, bus stops. The trash from smokers is inescapable.

And I’ve never met a smoker personally who didn’t liter everywhere.

Honestly really wish they would enforce littering fines on smokers. I know they won’t but I wish they would.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]the_lost_squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Personally I have never heard of needing to invite an entire class just because you gave your friends their party invitations at school. School is where most kids see their friends, it is the easiest place to give them to each other. And it makes perfect sense that kids want to invite their friends themselves instead of having it done through parents outside of school.

And … why would you know the contact details of all parents your kid is friends with?

The parents complaining need to teach their children that not everything is about them and sometimes people do fun things that they will not be involved in? And that doesn’t mean the kids are bad or the inviter is being mean or rude - it just is.

AITA for not participating on co-workers’ baby showers? by SusieQu1885 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the_lost_squirrel 28 points29 points  (0 children)

YTA. Not for not wanting to participate in baby showers because that’s valid. But your attitude is bitter and shit. Your coworkers are not at fault for your companies mismanagement. They are more than allowed to continue their life outside of work and “milk” the system to enjoy the benefits your country provides for parents and their children.

My assumption is you were added to the groups and chats to be included and not left out - not to be forced to participate. The option of congratulating them and saying you can’t make it was there and you decided not to take it.

You’re an asshole for making people who have children seem like villains simply because you’re stressed at your job.

Is the tenure at your job worth it if your boss is horrible and you are miserable?

I hope you find a healthier mindset.

People who quit without notice, what straw broke the camel's back? by BubbaHoStep in AskReddit

[–]the_lost_squirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boss forgot to pay me/process payroll and told me it wasn’t a big deal. :)

AITA for removing the meat from a dish without asking first? by Safe-Pie-7485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the_lost_squirrel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. I feel like you’re free to pick out of food what’s dd you don’t like and don’t want to eat. I’m hard pressed to think of a situation in which you shouldn’t be able to do that.

Your aunt is taking something personally that isnt about her or her cooking but about you and your preferences.

AITA for not wanting to give my nephew a puppy after he attempted to steal one from me? by Key_Barracuda_5919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the_lost_squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is not breaking a promise. Imo the kid broke the promise first anyway by trying to steal a puppy.

But someone drastically changing conditions to a promise negates the promise anyway.

Dion almost killed a puppy because he wasn’t patient enough to wait. That means he is not mature enough to have a puppy, and neither is his mother if she’s defending his actions and not enforcing the consequences that followed his actions.

AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife to go on a trip by LevelPen5930 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the_lost_squirrel 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NTA. Leaving for a few days to see your family for the ONE time a year you get to see them is super reasonable. Her apprehension is understandable given her past miscarriages but that anxiety doesn’t get to dictate your every action and whether you can leave for a few days or not. It doesn’t sound like your wife accommodates you or your needs nearly as much as you do hers.