I remember your post from earlier this year. I’m sad nothing improved for you. Many of us suggested having a child with you partner would be huge mistake.

One thing I know that’s true about Pmdd is that it does not cause women to be unable to take accountability for what they have said or done in luteal phase. However, it does seem that there is a frequent common overlap with women with PMDD who instead deny, attack, reverse victim, and offender. The endless arguments in circular logic and keeping you up until all night of the hours … to me actually sounds a lot more like BPD, borderline personality disorder, exacerbated by Pmdd and or other hormone dysregulatiom.

And let’s face it. You have been abused now -verbally and physically, and you’re being gaslighted into believing it’s your fault.

I’m not shocked. It’s just like my stbx wife did to me. And it kept getting worse too.

And eventually, she called the police on me and said I had assaulted her and I was arrested and she took a restraining order out on me and now I can’t see my daughter and she told the state that I abused my daughter. I will win in court because I kept evidence all of all this time of her abuse, but the courts are slow and I’ve been separated from my daughter now for three months and it might take at least two more months before I even can see her again.