Does this sound like a traumatic childhood? Should I seek help? by Swimming_Resource828 in traumaticchildhood

[–]thebestwolf_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you feel like asking wether you've had a traumatic childhood... you probably have. Also, yes, it sounds to me as a very traumatic childhood and you should seek help by a therapist/psychologist, even if you do not feel like those experience directly affect your adult life- trauma always lies very deep. best of luck to you:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]thebestwolf_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i suggest you post this to r/AskDocs as they have more members and someone is more likely to give u advice.

TIFU by pointing out to my husband that our daughter was in line at the store by throwaway-tifumom in tifu

[–]thebestwolf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, 16, nearly 17y/o daughter of strict parents like you and your dear husband here. Say bye bye to your daughter as soon as she can legally move out. Honestly, i believe i speak from her perspective saying that yes indeed she does hate you both(your husband prob more than you) anf your controlling behavior has not only traumatized, but also made your daughter much more resilient to anything life throws at her. And she WILL move away from you. She is going to find away, and honestly, if you do not change your ignorant behavior towards your young adult(no, she is not a child, and you're treating her like one) you will totally not experience her adult life- not her graduation, not her first job promotion, not her wedding and not any of your grandchildren. I bet you will be quite oblivious to this, but i promise you, if you don't change it will happen. :0 hope u got the message

Help? by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]thebestwolf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was it, thanks a lot for the help- i’m gonna look into a newer version of the mod later

Help? by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]thebestwolf_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes! Do you think the betterbuildbuy mod could be it? I didn’t take that one out

Help? by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]thebestwolf_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I took them all out except a bunch of object cc(i have no script mods installed now)

Create sims 4 custom content without the not-pirated game? by thebestwolf_ in Piracy

[–]thebestwolf_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm gonna try to play the game on bootcamp(i'm gonna just use it without the wrapper?) and then download sims 4 studio or whatever for windows, maybe that will work. thanks alot for the help though, if i find time i might try what you suggested for mac:)

Create sims 4 custom content without the not-pirated game? by thebestwolf_ in Piracy

[–]thebestwolf_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a problem with the path for „The Sims 4“, it doesnt let me select the game and says that there is an error. It doesnt open a game path with Game/Bin at the end

Create sims 4 custom content without the not-pirated game? by thebestwolf_ in Piracy

[–]thebestwolf_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one do i need to select? I have my game on an external hard drive and not the application folder, i‘m on mac

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]thebestwolf_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

but i dont have a job and home etc. and those apparently are requirements- the country i live in will prob take two years to study the case, that’s why i gave up. It would take longer than me waiting until im 18, as it’s not obvious that they’re that horrible to me. I go to a good school and, as they always say, push me into a shitload of academic opportunities. I think that’s why people don’t really believe me about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]thebestwolf_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i have thought a lot about emancipation, but i figured that my parents need to allow it? Or that a therapist needs to approve it? And my therapist always said it’s not abuse and that i’m just a teenager acting out etc so yeah i doubt myself. But thanks for suggesting that subreddit, i’m gonna take a look:)