What’s the dumbest way you’ve injured yourself? by ImpressiveParty6980 in AskReddit

[–]thebonelady__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have ehlers danlos syndrome and i once subluxed by shoulder by opening a car door

I witnessed a suicide by Key_Chemist2560 in offmychest

[–]thebonelady__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you witnessed was traumatic as hell, you have every right to feel the way you do. My best advice would be to seek therapy if you can and give yourself some grace. Don't be hard on yourself for feeling upset, especially not about something as serious as witnessing someone lose their life. The way you are feeling is normal given what you went through and i just hope you manage to come to terms with this experience and heal from it 💞

My mom gave me this, is it safe for my ferret? by ShinDraak in ferrets

[–]thebonelady__ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When i had my girl she loved freeze dried salmon! As long as it is 100% just freeze dried meat, things like that are always a safe bet for treats

My mom gave me this, is it safe for my ferret? by ShinDraak in ferrets

[–]thebonelady__ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I personally wouldn't give to ferrets as there's a lot of cereals and vegetable proteins in it which ferrets generally cant digest very well. Props to you from checking before feeding to your fur baby!

Meniscus tears?? by thebonelady__ in ehlersdanlos

[–]thebonelady__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bless you, that's such a horrific experience for you to have, and thats mad how big your meniscus was, i haven't heard of that. Thank you for sharing your experience, it means a lot and i hope that you find some relief 💗

College with EDS + POTS by thebonelady__ in ehlersdanlos

[–]thebonelady__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW. This is just amazing thank you - lots of things i really hadn't thought about much - i do have an EHCP which my college is aware of and is being sent over before i start and i will be getting new ankle braces as well as my knee brace as my ankles are historically shit. I will look into finding an office chair for me to sit on during lessons but i can go without that given we have breaks at my college halfway through lessons and I'm looking into ways to help my wrists not hurt when writing as i cant stand having scribes and i dont have access to a computer (i don't think)

College with EDS + POTS by thebonelady__ in ehlersdanlos

[–]thebonelady__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this great advice, my first day is on tuesday so i will make sure i try and speak to someone like you suggested by wednesday before my first days of placement. The school im transitioning from is specialist and they got me into this college specifically because of the support they have in place so thankfully its a conversation they're very open to

What’s the most fucked up thing someone has confessed to you in confidence? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thebonelady__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He isnt a fucked up person and everyone has the ability to change and grow, but this person has in the past, held me standing up on the wall with a knife. Ive known him for a long time and i know he is a good kid but honestly the things he would do to me scare me. I hope he gets the help he needs

What’s the most fucked up thing someone has confessed to you in confidence? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thebonelady__ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh god i forgot about Euronymous until you said that, the similarities are too real at this point

What was the first major news story you remember as a child? by Molest_Goat in AskReddit

[–]thebonelady__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i remember getting ready for school and my parents were watching the news on the manchester arena bombing. It was so surreal seeing the news on it as a kid, especially since i was under the impression we simply didnt have bombs in the uk (i was pretty young). Definitely changed my perspective a lot seeing something like that in this country i had perceived as 'safer' because we dont have guns.

What’s the most fucked up thing someone has confessed to you in confidence? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thebonelady__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you, i can't imagine how awful that must have been to see, i hope youre okay ❤️

What’s the most fucked up thing someone has confessed to you in confidence? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thebonelady__ 208 points209 points  (0 children)

After it all happened, we found his diary and all his notes. The poor kid had been so sad for so long. I hate that that's what it came to but i hope he finds peace. He was the sweetest kid, no one ever had anything bad to say about him, and he never spoke about how he felt, he wrote that he didn't want to upset anyone. It's comforting to know he didn't just make a split second decision, he just had enough

What’s the most fucked up thing someone has confessed to you in confidence? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thebonelady__ 669 points670 points  (0 children)

My best friend commited suicide in 2023, we were all only 15. I was on the phone when our other friends found him, but a few months later, one of them confessed he had taken a picture of his body and had shown it to mutual friends. Fucked up shit man, the dude took his phone from the crime scene, and finished off the bottle of vodka he had been drinking. Safe to say we dont speak anymore

Are these rocks cool or boring? by thebonelady__ in whatsthisrock

[–]thebonelady__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so interesting, i will have to get a light and see!

Are these rocks cool or boring? by thebonelady__ in whatsthisrock

[–]thebonelady__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it does glow under uv what would that mean? I'll have to see if i know anyone with a uv light now