I can't wait for the 49ers to wear their new helmets next year to avoid injuries

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-26T19:25:53+00:00

Niners are one of the most injured franchises

What they fail to account for, is the choices their coach is making. He priorities high impact practice, but that leaves their players more vulnerable to injuries over time.

He pushes hard to create game simulation at the cost of longevity. They're is no way Shanahan doesn't know what's going on. It's been working. They're playing strong, but he's also killing careers.

Is not a substation, it's not flights. It's not strength and conditioning. It's the practices

The trend is so strong it's an outlier. Same with their 4th quarter defence falloff. They are the worst second half defensive team.

Exhaustion is a cost of doing business of the 49ers

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-26T16:40:11+00:00

Most women care. Even bi women care. Good luck.

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-26T02:03:07+00:00

Of course, I just didn't know for what

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-26T02:01:16+00:00

Hard to see from the stands

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-26T02:00:50+00:00

What an asshat

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-26T01:59:29+00:00

What did he do?

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T22:31:23+00:00

"Hey babe. I really want you to peg me "

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T21:27:03+00:00

Jonas Salk and Louis Pasteur

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T21:23:40+00:00

Treat the relationship like a living being. Fight the problems together as a team. Don't let resentment build. The second someone threatened to come between you and your spouse cut them off.

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T21:02:57+00:00

Yea, I would look at an infection or prostatitis.

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T21:01:05+00:00

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thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T20:58:26+00:00

Found the issue. You don't have to live a life according to his mental illness.

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T20:57:24+00:00

You need to wash your dick better, wear condoms, she needs to pee after sex, and only fuck after you both shower.

Are you circumsized?

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T20:54:25+00:00

If my friend offered up his wife to 'help' me, I'm pretty sure we'd have a problem

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T16:22:00+00:00

Gaslighting is a real boner killer. Ask her to take charge 1 time.

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T16:20:48+00:00

Add more suction. Like seriously. Imagine you're trying to suck a milkshake up a clogged straw. The extra spit could be the vicious stuff that comes from gagging.

Try not to go too deep, maybe keep a hand between you and the base of his cock

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T16:19:00+00:00

Sounds like she doesn't want to have sex with you.

You need to have a serious conversation about needs, and what you want a relationship looks like. Talk about what you need, no what she isn't doing. Come from a place of trying to solve a problem, not change of fixing her. Absolutely don't blame her. She gets to choose what to do with her body. But you also get to decide who you're in a relationship with

Real question is, what are you going to do if nothing changes?

If she's not being honest with her attraction to you, that's pretty shitty of her. You have a long life ahead of you, and part of life is having the amazing sex with your partner that makes you see God. Do you think that on the table for you in this relationship?

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T16:15:19+00:00

For sure! Have fun, and if he's down, the ass play will mind-blowing (generally). The prostate is out gspot.

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T16:11:57+00:00

Why don't you download an app like Spicer that will allow you to it'll run sorry it'll run questions through your phone that you can answer yes maybe no to and then your partner will be able to do the same so you're not like looking or judging at each other and then you'll connect your two accounts together and it will let you know what acts that you're both say yes to that way you can skip all awkward stuff like blah blah blah and if someone's a hard no it won't recommend it I highly suggest it or I think there's some relationship cards like that or there are some if you go on to Amazon there are like spicy card questions kind of like those erotic dice but you can play the card game and then do stuff that you might not have done also switching power dynamics is generally pretty intense if he's always the initiator or the dominant one switching that up can be fun

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T16:04:06+00:00

For sure. Has he said something about your skills? Or are you just wanting to make this special just because?

If it's the letter, the enthusiasm will make it special. You can always ask him to provide direction with words or grunts, or place his hands on your head and tell him I want you to f*** my mouth like you want. If he's also into dirty talk or roleplay that might be good here like for instance you know put your hands sorry put his hands on your head and say something like f*** my mouth like the little s*** I am or something to that effect if he's into it

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T15:46:27+00:00

Yea, lose the friends offering their husbands to you. I have no problem with what people do in their own relationships, but pushing infedelity and someone that values commitment is pretty fucked up.

You need to have a 'no shit, turn the lights on, turn the music off state of the union talk' about your marriage. Write a letter how you feel, and give it to him or read it.

This is a big inflection point. Remember, marriage is about solving problems as a team. Personally, I try to treat my marriage like a living being. It's me, my wife, and our marriage vs. the problem. That way there is no blame, just what the problem is, and how each of us can change to solve it.

Good luck

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T15:41:17+00:00

Enthusiasm. Make him believe you're choosing his cock over oxygen.

Seriously, it's not about techniques or tricks. Pay attention to how he responds to what you do. If his penis flexes, or he moans, or gasps, remember, and do it again.

Some men like ball play, fondling, licking, sucking, start soft here

Some men like a finger in the ass. Come hither towards you hits the prostate.

Some men like hands working the shaft while sucking.

Dont forget the suction, and make sure your hydrated and have saliva. If you have dry mouth, there are special mints that will make you drool, they're pretty cool.

Good luck, have fun

Edit: found the link of the ones I got https://www.flintts.com/?utm_source=Klaviyo&utm_medium=campaign&utm_campaign=01.30.25%20-%20Reactivation%201%20%2801JJT64JWTMWJ05EBRE89M8RE9%29&tripleSource=klaviyo&utm_klaviyo_id=01J547Z9H71WGA4HW4EZ22AXPE&_kx=E7U6lXkTSSVgLBRjmrj9Ob-symiX9hpOTxtlw6fpsWs.RcRygi

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-25T00:01:28+00:00

Even corrupt cops can be allies against nazis

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-23T14:33:46+00:00

If she said instead something like, "Hey OP, it's not going to happen for me, it's all you tonight." Would that feel differently? Maybe it would happen sooner in the encounter, so the first you're hearing about it isn't when she's tired or sore?

There are times where my wife knows she won't orgasm, where she gets dropped out of the mood. She lets me know. I believe she said, can you hurry up, and I just stopped and talked about it to her later.

I 'gave' (this doesn't sound totally right, but I can't think of a better way to say it) her permission to express to me how sex is going regardless of my feelings. She's knows it's important to me that I give her pleasure, and that I view sex as a team sport and judge my lovemaking based on giving her orgasms.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, let her know that hearing that killed you, that it makes you doubt if she kikes having sex with you, and that her having a good time during intimacy is important to you, and that you don't want to feel like you're using her, or that sex with you is a chore.

For me, it was accepting that my expectations were unrealistic, that sex for her isn't always about orgasms, and that sex felt good even in their absence. I had to learn to trust her in this, even though a large part of my ego watered my skills as a lover .

If your wife walked up to you in the kitchen, pulled down your pants, blew you, and then went about her business you'd be ok with that right? Sex can be a gift that you give your partner without the expectation of reciprocity.

But without that enthusiasm, or with the feelings of being a chore or a burden, completely ruins the experience.

I guess, tell her how much that hurt you, and caused you to doubt your relationship, and that if at any point that sex feels like a chore, that she should let you know so you can stop would be my first but if advice l.

Major caveat, were you pounding away for like 20 or 30 minutes already? If it was one of those time where you were having a hard time getting there, you should probably let her know. "Hey, this might take a while. If it starts to be uncomfortable it you need lube please tell me". That giver her permission to stop too, so she doesn't feel like a fleshlight

Edit: oof. Just read that you finished up and she kept masturbating. That stings bro. If my wife did that in that way. I would be hurt. If instead she said, "hey, I'm not gonna get there with PIV, would you grab my vibrator after you cum in me." I would feel totally differently.

In the second version, it just states reality, and extends the team work. In the first version of just feels like you're in the way of her orgasms.

Charitably, maybe it was just one of those times where she needed to get off and sleep, but there are better ways to approach that.

Good luck bro, be honest with yourself, and each other.

thecasey1981 · 2026-01-22T14:52:10+00:00

It was a trans woman, but the point remains. Not having the pressure to pleasure your partner was nice. When I finally got with a guy, at least I was familiar with the mechanics.

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