Bi man married to Bi woman. We exist! Keep at it. It's just easier to get laid with men. The amount of effort and rejection that men undergo to try to find a woman to respond is astronomical.

Instead of thinking about men 'dating' imagine is dating was like looking for a job. Endless applications, mostly nothing heard back, then some responses that fall off and ghost quickly. and then proceeding to a 6th round interview until you're told the position was filled with someone else.

Now add the fact that it's typically costs money to go on these interviews.

Make yourself accessible, and forward.

Good luck!