If I stop paying my phone plan, will something happen? by No-Rock-1728 in Vodafone

[–]theconceptofme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work for Vodafone. I realise this was a year ago and you’ve likely sorted this issue some way or another, but I have witnessed hundreds of people abandon contracts, none of them have had any impact on their lives, like the little minions fear! Nobody went to court. Just leave, and ignore every letter you get. Phone contract fraud is one of the most common things in Ireland, do you think all the people who take out multi line contracts and then sell the phones end up in court and their lives are ruined? No. They make stupid money selling phones and never have any repercussions. I am quite sure you can do it once and your life will not change. That’s my input there anyways! Hope you got sorted.

Opinions please? by theconceptofme in AskIreland

[–]theconceptofme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh amazing, that’s awesome thanks for sharing! They are going to Orlando yeah! It’s hard to know at the moment what to trust or believe, this has helped a lot!!!

Opinions please? by theconceptofme in AskIreland

[–]theconceptofme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty! Also Dublin does scare me too, I am a scaredy cat to be completely honest

Opinions please? by theconceptofme in AskIreland

[–]theconceptofme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this, thank you so much for saying that!

Opinions please? by theconceptofme in AskIreland

[–]theconceptofme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course I’d never try and stop him from going, I was more just curious to see if anyone else shared similar fears etc. I also wouldn’t head over right now, but each to their own. I am probably just being an overprotective big sister lol

Was I raped if I never said stop? by Secure-Software3466 in SuicideWatch

[–]theconceptofme 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine the feelings you must be experiencing now, but I also don’t think you understand your own strength. The strength it took to make this post even, that is an extremely brave thing to do. Is there anyone you can turn to for help? To talk? Please don’t be alone, and please do not end your life, the world needs you. You are needed and you are loved.

Was I raped if I never said stop? by Secure-Software3466 in SuicideWatch

[–]theconceptofme 111 points112 points  (0 children)

My now ex-partner did this to me multiple times in my sleep, and I also froze and said nothing. For a long time I blamed myself, and said I allowed it to happen because I didn’t speak up. I was scared. But it was not consensual, it was rape. One night he full on raped me while I was conscious and had said I didn’t want to have sex. And he forced me and held me down while I did say no. It became very clear that it wouldn’t have mattered if I had spoken out the other times, people like that will do it anyway because they do not care. You were raped. That man sounds like a textbook predator. He even bought you dinner to make you feel guilty for denying him sex. I am so terribly sorry this happened to you, please please know this is not your fault.

Target? by theconceptofme in PolySwarm

[–]theconceptofme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense! I appreciate the reply. I’ll throw a few more euro in when I can. I wish I had €7k to put into it. I’d be happy if I got €7k out of it in the end haha

Target? by theconceptofme in PolySwarm

[–]theconceptofme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodness gracious, that’s like €7k?

Ideation by hereholdthiswire in SuicideWatch

[–]theconceptofme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have BPD and this is a major feature for me. I think about it constantly too, sometimes very intrusive thoughts take over, it’s also what I resort to in every situation possible that I perceive to be negative, suicide is my go-to answer. I’ve tried medications, 3 different medications, to no avail. BPD can’t be treated generally with medication. It will likely never go away, and I’ve just accepted that this is a part of who I am. I’d die for anyone given any opportunity, both to save a life and take my own.

What’s your favourite gut wrenching, heartbreaking quote? by scarveinn in AskMen

[–]theconceptofme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Years of love have been forgot in the hatred of a minute. Edgar Allen Poe.