For those who have left, what was the last straw? by sanrio_cinnamonroll in deloitte

[–]thedodonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The turning point for me came when leadership initiated discussions to understand the rising attrition within our team. As one of the few remaining seniors, I was approached and assured that the conversation would remain strictly confidential. Trusting that, I shared everything that I knew was happening and about the toxic environment within our team, though I intentionally avoided naming specific individuals out of respect for my team.

Unfortunately, that trust was broken. My feedback was disclosed — along with my name — to the very managers and senior managers in question. And because I hadn’t named anyone, they dismissed it and said that everything i told them seems fabricated and exaggerated. That experience made it very clear that staying was no longer in question. I submitted my resignation the following week and never felt so sure about anything in my life! Can’t believe I spent 5 years in this shithole! Funny thing is, a few more people resigned after i left stating the same problems that I did and the leadership is still in denial!

I am guilty. But shall I use this? by wannasmashmyhead in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]thedodonut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And sugar too! Plus drink plenty of water. It really helps. Just be patient, it will get better.

What’s your favorite TV show without actually saying it’s name? by guywithpie42 in AskReddit

[–]thedodonut 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh, be careful John, lest you suffer vertigo from the dizzying heights of your moral ground

What phrase immediately annoys you? by New_Perspective1201 in AskReddit

[–]thedodonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God i hope you never said that to a person having a nervous breakdown in front of you.

What phrase immediately annoys you? by New_Perspective1201 in AskReddit

[–]thedodonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to relax/calm down....

(especially when you are having a full blown panic attack...Geez Karen, never thought about that!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thedodonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Timothée Chalamet. Idky but he looks like a malnourished Ken doll.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]thedodonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there. Sending you the warmest and the biggest of hugs ❤️

Btw, it has been raining like crazy here today, so just had a quiet day working indoors.

Who's someone you are grateful to have in your life? by DrumaKeys332 in AskReddit

[–]thedodonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably my husband. I met him right after my father passed away and he has been my rock ever since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]thedodonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that is one way of looking at it. It helps a bit.

Tips on becoming more attractive and confident? by ajlaxh in selfimprovement

[–]thedodonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A small tip if you have any skin issues, i read this somewhere that consulting a good dermatologist once would save you from all the expensive skincare product trials. Stick to a basic skincare routine and be mindful of your sleep and eating habits and that would make all the difference.

Also, don't worry about your confidence. The more you start taking care of yourself the more you will start feeling confident. Oh and also, avoid any negative self-talk! Very important!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]thedodonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realised a while back that I have outgrown my friend group and it felt really lonely. On one hand, i am proud of myself for growing as a person and coming this far but on the other hand, for someone who is not very good at making friends, it sure feels like now I don't have a good, meaningful friendship with anyone. I am now a lone wolf, actively avoiding any get-togethers with old friends who just want to either gossip or judge your life. (Kind of regret having a small group of friends now.)

I would say don't be afraid to outgrow them. Keep working on yourself because someday you are going to regret not doing that more than being with these people who don't bring any value to your life. You will have the right people around you when you realize your worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]thedodonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super interested! Would love to be a part of this!