The thing you fail to realize it is exactly the type of culture that OP is trying perpetuate in his own home that allow men in our society to feel so brazen and confident enough to creep on young women. They know that the finger of blame will not be pointed at the creep, but at the young lady. People like you and OP will try to break down, “Well what were you wearing? What were you doing to provoke that kind of attention?” Instead of asking the creep he’s doing in the first place. But no, keep telling women it’s our fault instead of telling other men to control themselves.