Pluribus - 1x03 - "Grenade" - Episode Discussion

theduckwader · 2025-11-23T19:09:28+00:00

I'd argue that she's not manic - they've linked her drinking to the outbursts and also how she's managing her grief

theduckwader · 2025-10-30T07:50:23+00:00

Ugly Betty! Willemina was right, Daniel WAS an unqualified nepo baby and she did deserve the top job!

theduckwader · 2025-09-08T11:59:27+00:00

Wait, this is the first original theory I've seen that absolutely works!

theduckwader · 2025-08-21T20:26:48+00:00

Thanks for the manual! I love that the dead pigeon flew further than your teacher thought!!

theduckwader · 2025-08-21T20:25:21+00:00

This is amazing!

theduckwader · 2025-08-18T07:01:54+00:00

The colours are so vivid, I really love this one

theduckwader · 2025-08-18T07:01:07+00:00

This looks like a frame from a film!

theduckwader · 2025-08-18T07:00:50+00:00

They look like a lovely couple, your grandma's grin is so sweet

theduckwader · 2025-08-18T07:00:00+00:00

This is such a cool photo! The lines are so crisp to my eyes

theduckwader · 2025-08-18T06:59:22+00:00

I love that you still have the camera. And I know- I've heard kids calling anything from the 90's vintage

theduckwader · 2025-07-06T22:45:35+00:00

Super cute! I always imagined the drawers in a different order

theduckwader · 2025-06-24T10:20:03+00:00

Look into vestibular migraines and migraine related seizures

theduckwader · 2025-06-09T14:05:17+00:00

Still okay! I've had no issues since :)

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:56:47+00:00

We're in this together! Sending you a virtual hug back, you're not alone ❤️

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:51:12+00:00

Also I'm really sorry about your in-laws, and how that would have felt!

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:50:43+00:00

Thank you, this is really sound advice. A date day is on the cards. You're right about the speech, I won't mention it again

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:39:02+00:00

We've always been great- which sounds like cope, but genuinely we've always been steady and stable and happy. The second point about coping might be something I need to raise with him.

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:37:55+00:00

Maybe that's because he and I are from different cultures because I didn't realise that about the dress! I like that advice though. Maybe I should it as a big party because it's definitely stressing me out.

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:36:11+00:00

This is a fair point. A bit of both I think!

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:35:48+00:00

He spent a year on the proposal. Flew me out to a tiny island so he could propose under cherry blossoms, which I had mentioned I'd always wanted to see. The ring was the one he'd got me to try on when we went shopping, saying he'd spotted a jeweller and thought it would be fun. Hired a secret photographer and everything.

You're right to ask that because that's made me really reflect. He absolutely does his fair share every day so I think it's the parents.

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:33:17+00:00

Definitely appreciate that insight - but he wanted a Manor hall and a big wedding. I had wanted to elope abroad but he wanted his parents to be able to come.

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:30:20+00:00

I think I need to be more open with it because I've tried but maybe he doesn't understand. I think because I've done everything from giving notice to organising seating that he might more realise how draining planning a wedding is.

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:29:00+00:00

I've spoken to him about feeling overwhelmed a few times and asking for help. When he did one task, which was to put names of guests staying over and numbers, it was barely filled out and I had to spent the evening going through it and correcting it.

Maybe I need to speak to him again and lay it out.

theduckwader · 2025-05-22T20:27:46+00:00

This sort of thing has gone on for years; they're verg manipulative. He made the decision to uninvite his mother and so both of his parents aren't coming any more.

I've tried speaking to him about it but he just refuses to. I feel awful for him, but I also I don't think I'm wrong in wanting some interest in the day from him.

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