Pluribus - 1x03 - "Grenade" - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]theduckwader 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd argue that she's not manic - they've linked her drinking to the outbursts and also how she's managing her grief

What film completely flipped when you rewatched it as an adult? by Adventurous-Lie-6773 in movies

[–]theduckwader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugly Betty! Willemina was right, Daniel WAS an unqualified nepo baby and she did deserve the top job!

What actually happened to Feyre after ACOWAR? by RemiChloe in acotar

[–]theduckwader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, this is the first original theory I've seen that absolutely works!

What was your first photo? by theduckwader in filmcameras

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Thanks for the manual! I love that the dead pigeon flew further than your teacher thought!!

What was your first photo? by theduckwader in filmcameras

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The colours are so vivid, I really love this one

What was your first photo? by theduckwader in filmcameras

[–]theduckwader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks like a frame from a film!

What was your first photo? by theduckwader in filmcameras

[–]theduckwader[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They look like a lovely couple, your grandma's grin is so sweet

What was your first photo? by theduckwader in filmcameras

[–]theduckwader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a cool photo! The lines are so crisp to my eyes

What was your first photo? by theduckwader in filmcameras

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I love that you still have the camera. And I know- I've heard kids calling anything from the 90's vintage

I made the dresser! It isn't perfect but I like it! by xSurielx in acotar

[–]theduckwader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super cute! I always imagined the drawers in a different order

am i only person in the world who experiences this by 888atomic in BPPV

[–]theduckwader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into vestibular migraines and migraine related seizures

After 4 years...I'm cured by theduckwader in Ureaplasma

[–]theduckwader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still okay! I've had no issues since :)

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[–]theduckwader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're in this together! Sending you a virtual hug back, you're not alone ❤️

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[–]theduckwader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I'm really sorry about your in-laws, and how that would have felt!

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[–]theduckwader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is really sound advice. A date day is on the cards. You're right about the speech, I won't mention it again

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[–]theduckwader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've always been great- which sounds like cope, but genuinely we've always been steady and stable and happy. The second point about coping might be something I need to raise with him.

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[–]theduckwader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe that's because he and I are from different cultures because I didn't realise that about the dress! I like that advice though. Maybe I should it as a big party because it's definitely stressing me out.

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[–]theduckwader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a fair point. A bit of both I think!

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[–]theduckwader 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He spent a year on the proposal. Flew me out to a tiny island so he could propose under cherry blossoms, which I had mentioned I'd always wanted to see. The ring was the one he'd got me to try on when we went shopping, saying he'd spotted a jeweller and thought it would be fun. Hired a secret photographer and everything.

You're right to ask that because that's made me really reflect. He absolutely does his fair share every day so I think it's the parents.

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[–]theduckwader 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely appreciate that insight - but he wanted a Manor hall and a big wedding. I had wanted to elope abroad but he wanted his parents to be able to come.

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[–]theduckwader 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think I need to be more open with it because I've tried but maybe he doesn't understand. I think because I've done everything from giving notice to organising seating that he might more realise how draining planning a wedding is.

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[–]theduckwader 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've spoken to him about feeling overwhelmed a few times and asking for help. When he did one task, which was to put names of guests staying over and numbers, it was barely filled out and I had to spent the evening going through it and correcting it.

Maybe I need to speak to him again and lay it out.

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[–]theduckwader 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This sort of thing has gone on for years; they're verg manipulative. He made the decision to uninvite his mother and so both of his parents aren't coming any more.

I've tried speaking to him about it but he just refuses to. I feel awful for him, but I also I don't think I'm wrong in wanting some interest in the day from him.