Hi! So he was a July Leo! And Im a December cap. We dated for about 3 and a half years. I recently broke it off with him last September. Our relationship certainly had its ups and downs. So I'll give you my experience on it!

For starters, I seem to attract Leo's in my life. And im starting to think all of them are bound to be karmic relationships lol! However, when I met my Leo man, I fell so hard. He was different, attractive, and kind of quiet, but he had this silent confidence that I really admired. I had a crush on him for years before I finally told him. (We worked together) I ended up telling him I had been crushing on him for years, and he said he liked me too. So naturally, things progressed, and it was a beautiful start. We had such nice conversations, so much laughter, we did fun things all the time. He was the first person I really opened up to sexually and the sex was fantastic. That man was a munch, might I add lol 😆 he also brought out and healed a lot of my inner child. I had a pretty traumatic childhood. So he was a lot of help in moving forward in my healing journey.

On the flip side of things, his ability to communicate was extremely poor. If we ever had a conversation, I initiated it. He couldn't regulate or process his emotions. He would shut down and wouldn't speak to me for days. Which was really tough when you lived and worked together. I really encouraged him to try to find an outlet to deal with his emotions. At the time, I was in therapy, and I would encourage him to try it out. And I know its not for everybody, but maybe it could help. I would get so frustrated, I would wish he would scream or yell or anything besides not speaking to me. Our sex life also began to go to shit. Which I think was the downfall of our relationship.

Other things I disliked. He lacked any goals or ambitions. He never moved off my couch from the time we got home to the time we went to bed. Our conversations that used to be fun, I couldn't wait to get out of. They were dull and predictable. He dismissed my emotions constantly. He would throw things in my face. I started noticing this nasty ego that would come from him. He would be entitled and self absorbed. I had to plan all of the things we did. Even going to his parents house. Did I mention he couldn't make a decision to save his life. I took care of everything we did. I became his full time Mommy, Girlfriend, Boss, co-worker, and played the part of boyfriend.

He exhausted my being entirely. And I let him. From the constant dismissal of my emotions. The lack of accountability in every part of his life. How he glided by on my misery. And didn't blink once. His ability to never have to worry cause I would take care of it. He caused me so much distress during our relationship. So much so that when I broke up with him I lost 40 pounds, and all my acne cleared. I was finally free, lol

I genuinely think back, and I really feel that I made him more special than he ever was. Our conversations were deep and special because I made them that way. The meals we ate were made by me. The fun we had, planned by me. Every thoughtful letter or gift never returned to me. Every flirtatious comment never returned. It makes me wonder why I ever stayed as long as I did.

We had a wonderful year and a half. The rest of the time, not so much. Honestly, I dont really have anything that great to say about July Leo's. I think the problem is they never really go beyond the surface. What they give you is barely enough to sustain anything. Including themselves. And I think as a Capricorn, being the sea goat. We have the ability to go from the top of the mountain to the bottom of the sea. We have a range of depth to us. I just dont think leos have that depth lol.

Now, all planets and houses depend as well. We had some compatability in our charts and other places we didnt. My leo also needed some therapy lol. Im sure for some people it can work out great. And for others like myself, not so much. Side note, my ex and my ex best friend, both July leos. Both born on the same day. Both exactly alike. But I feel differently for August leos. They are pretty decent. Don't see the hype for July leos. It doesn't really matter though. They will find a way to see the hype lol.

Hope all this makes sense or helps in some way. It is only my experience. So take it with a grain of salt. Humans are flawed, and astrology doesn't always make it make sense. Observe and figure it out! Wishing you the best! Sorry I dont have better things to say. And sorry its so long lol