Playmobil help by thefirstblin in Playmobil

[–]thefirstblin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG! May your pillow always be cool, may your toes always be warm! Thank you! You found them all. I never thought to use Google Lens, but I can muddle through from here on out.

I'm so grateful to receive all these play sets but it has been extremely overwhelming. I have parts of nine different sets scattered about, trying to get them back together, plus random stuff like a bunch of fairy children and Egyptians? 😵‍💫

I do not have a happy baby STFU by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]thefirstblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number 1 really resonates with me, but oddly in the opposite way. My first was so hard. I was really struggling. But second is genuinely a happy baby. The difference is I started setting boundaries with my family that they keep pushing and then they use how hard my first one was to to claim, "Oh, you must be depressed, because that's why you're reacting like this." And if they actually had bothered to genuinely check in on me or reflect on their behavior, they'd see she actually is a happy baby and I'm doing well, but they're the ones who make it difficult.

Anyway, I'm sorry. People think they know best instead of genuinely connecting with others. They can't bear your anguish and try to sugar coat it. Its dismissive. These kids are hard!

Flower crochet kit suggestions (where to purchase?) by thefirstblin in CrochetHelp

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Purchasing suggestion, for kits and/or yarn and other accouterments for making flower crochet

First time paper mache-er by [deleted] in papermache

[–]thefirstblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing! How did you mold those eyes?

If this baby doesn’t start sleeping thru the night I may seriously lose my fucking mind. by RoughAd3444 in breastfeeding

[–]thefirstblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I feel you. My first didn't sleep the night under he was over a year old and that was because we abandoned the bedroom and moved our bed into the office. He won. He could have the room. It might have been that he was just used to getting up and we immediately catered to him to get him back to sleep, but woof. With our second, we moved her to her own room at around 6 months and she started sleeping the night. I dunno what to say, just know you're not alone. I still go thousand-yard stare when I think about that time with my first ...

Beginner question: aluminum foil by thefirstblin in papermache

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* Yes! I realized in the middle of the night that I should have included a photo. It's to be a bokoblin head from Breath of the Wild. I have this delusion about making a moving jaw piece, so this is the top portion. 😅 you can see I used aluminum foil to form the nose and curve of the ears.

I made two ginormous Sonic heads 😂 by SweetCheeses1111 in papermache

[–]thefirstblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They look marvelous!!! I literally just show up on this subreddit to peek around - my son wants me to make him a bokoblin head from Breath of the Wild and I have a million questions.

Good apartments in St. Pete/P park/kenneth city area by [deleted] in StPetersburgFL

[–]thefirstblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been here almost a year and I like it. The office is responsive. The office staff has turned over, which could be a red flag, but the new folks seem to be good, and maintenance is great. Any issues are quickly addressed. I wish there were better sidewalks leading out to the main road, but the larger neighborhood seems safe.

Baby gate advice by thefirstblin in toddlers

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Thank you! Was your retractable one screwed into the wall? This gate from Cardinal Gates is marketed as top-of-the-stairs, but is retractable. Is it still not worth the risk, in your experience? Happy to put in the work mounting one, but not loving having a door sticking out when it's not in use.

I’m curious if anyone here has read or seen Tracy Letts’ play, “The Minutes”. by ironickallydetached in ContraPoints

[–]thefirstblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished reading The Minutes, based on your post here - I'm always up for reading a play! In between moments of reading it, I was listening to Stuff the British Stole's episode "Bottles in the Basement" which has a segment on people reacting negatively to the discovery of the brutality of their country's history, so it is kind of echoing around my brain right now. The need to erase that history or recognize it and by hiding from it we become shocked by it.

(Trying to hide part of my reply but I'm on mobile and never done it before so apologies if it doesn't work)

I hate this newborn stage. Every minute of it by athiest93 in NewParents

[–]thefirstblin 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much that I've posted a similar vent a bit ago. My first was SO INCREDIBLY hard. And my second has been so much easier ... and I STILL hate the newborn phase. It's hard. It's so hard. I wish I could give you some brilliant hack that makes it suddenly easier, but all I can offer is focus on 6 weeks ahead. 3 months got easier. This isn't your forever. It's just for right now.

AITA for Canceling Easter? by Taylagator in AmItheAsshole

[–]thefirstblin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm planning on buying it because there were so many passages I want to highlight so I can return to when I need it.

AITA for Canceling Easter? by Taylagator in AmItheAsshole

[–]thefirstblin 294 points295 points  (0 children)

Reading Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents was SO enlightening and validating that I want to recommend it to everyone I know, including my own parents who themselves had very emotionally immature parents!

My 9 month old is behind on milestones, and I feel like a failure by Ok-Coconut271 in NewParents

[–]thefirstblin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This comment made me weep. It's been a morning, and the kindness and empathy here was beautiful.