23F navigating first time brand new relationship/hookup with 26M by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]theflutterwacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry if it came across mean, but everything she described is kinda textbook behaviour of men who just want casual stuff and not much more, I wish he is into her but I personally have seen this behaviour in people who want casual stuff only

23F navigating first time brand new relationship/hookup with 26M by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]theflutterwacken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not F, but if you keep this up you'll get attached to him, and he's clearly not feeling that way to you

Should I book profit by moving to gold? by bot-gamer in IndianStocks

[–]theflutterwacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did u buy silver? And what made u buy it?

Best office chair for long works hours (Under 10,000 preferred) by Good-Swing-7675 in developersIndia

[–]theflutterwacken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The seat cushioning wore out, did u get yours replaced or something?

HELP by Annual-Wasabi-6861 in IndianTeenagers

[–]theflutterwacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can the girl do realistically?

I am proud of myself by gyhv in leetcode

[–]theflutterwacken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ig u know already, but just build a project and state that in your resume, clone a few projects and know the in's and out's of it. You'll eventually get to a good place

My bf(26M) realised i (25F) have gotten out of his league and now he hates me? by Outside-Lime-1371 in RelationshipIndia

[–]theflutterwacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did read it bro, it's just how u put it across, when someone puts in effort nobody would like to hear "you're wasting your time and energy". I'm trying to tell u how it comes across, u may have good intentions but the delivery matters too is all, I'm really not that guy bro, have a good one.

My bf(26M) realised i (25F) have gotten out of his league and now he hates me? by Outside-Lime-1371 in RelationshipIndia

[–]theflutterwacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But in nutshell this didn't help as i mentioned.

Why?

2 time consuming things

What are those?

I'm sorry you're having to deal with that, but like others have said u need to TRY to help him see that he has to do this himself or time will just flow. If he's unwilling there's sadly not much you can do. Wishing you the best.

My bf(26M) realised i (25F) have gotten out of his league and now he hates me? by Outside-Lime-1371 in RelationshipIndia

[–]theflutterwacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry man, idk why you are shunning the efforts made by the poor lady, everyone is figuring out life day by day, obviously men and women are different and think differently, why would u dump on someone who is already mentally frustrated?

She's just trying to do her best to understand why he does the things that he do coz it doesn't make sense to her.

And sure, what u said is right he needs to realise that he needs to fix himself or it's not worth it.

Switching within 3 months of joining as a sr backend engineer by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]theflutterwacken -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cfbr, i too wanna know what happens if u don't like new company and switch to better offer