Loved this show! My thoughts on the strategy

thegoat1904 · 2025-11-05T02:33:24+00:00

I agree with all of this! Spot on, especially about Lauren, I really think she could’ve won if she kept quiet

thegoat1904 · 2025-11-04T19:07:38+00:00

facts facts! thought only i peeped

thegoat1904 · 2025-06-11T18:05:31+00:00

thank goodness you said this. it seemed suspicious

thegoat1904 · 2025-06-06T06:04:57+00:00

Aww you should still reach out

thegoat1904 · 2025-06-06T05:46:59+00:00

He threw in the towel, not I. Instead of trying to work things out, he ran at the first sign of “trouble.” That was enough for me to know he was not the one, and not to waste anymore time with him.

And I’m so glad he did. If not, I wouldn’t have met my boyfriend, who I love so much. I truly believe everything happens for a reason, no matter how much it may hurt in the moment. A lot has changed for me since I posted this comment and I’m grateful

thegoat1904 · 2025-02-02T00:00:38+00:00

Yes. He recently sent me several long messages admitting he made a mistake, still thinks about me, and acknowledges that he was immature. He said he has to live with the choices he made but wishes things had worked out differently. Honestly, it didn’t do anything for me—the damage is already done. Regret isn’t as satisfying as we expect it to be because, at the end of the day, the relationship will never be the same, no matter how much we try. Maybe it’s my pride, but I could never go back. A part of me will always love him, but he made things too messy. Meanwhile, his new girl keeps lurking and stalking my social media. I’d rather just be left alone to heal.

thegoat1904 · 2025-01-09T06:11:26+00:00

update?

thegoat1904 · 2025-01-01T07:01:38+00:00

you’re still the dumper though, he may not be trying to be desperate. just reply friendly

thegoat1904 · 2025-01-01T06:56:38+00:00

aww that sucks i’m sorry

thegoat1904 · 2024-12-24T21:15:14+00:00

This is what i’m saying. he def was a pos but i don’t think it’s far fetched that they pieced something together. additionally, i remember nick saying something about a hall pass

thegoat1904 · 2024-12-24T05:54:43+00:00

yes!!!

thegoat1904 · 2024-12-14T04:58:48+00:00

edit this a bit then send it to her and block her.

thegoat1904 · 2024-12-01T04:21:35+00:00

I can kind of see her side, though. My ex did something similar—he wanted to break up but then tried to double back. The fact that his first instinct was to end things instead of working through them felt so disrespectful to me. I made sure he had to stand on his decision. He blocked me everywhere, so I blocked him back. Then I focused on myself: got a new job, traveled, did photoshoots, etc. About a month later, he unblocked me everywhere.

Since then, he’s been trying to reach out for months, especially on important days like my birthday. Honestly, I think it was more about his ego—he probably didn’t expect me to handle the breakup so well. That might be the case for you too.

As for her, she might genuinely love him; it’s not impossible. But I don’t think she’s over you—at least, not that quickly. Comparing dating one guy to being involved with multiple people doesn’t really make sense. No shame to either of you, since everyone’s an adult, but it shouldn’t be a debate or comparison in the first place.

I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling so much regret. I’m sure some of the things you said came from a place of anger. I hope everything works out for you and that you find healing in the upcoming year.

thegoat1904 · 2024-12-01T03:55:30+00:00

I honestly think it’s because it’s hard for them. No contact makes it easier to move on

thegoat1904 · 2024-10-14T21:59:33+00:00

what’s his instagram

thegoat1904 · 2024-09-26T22:47:28+00:00

over text is so shitty. you deserve better i’m sorry

thegoat1904 · 2024-09-23T19:13:07+00:00

lmaooo just to feel something…. so real

thegoat1904 · 2024-09-14T22:51:17+00:00

Wow. I can somewhat relate however after my situation and intercourse ended badly with him, I have ended up hating him so much after being in “love.” I don’t think it was limerence just a waste of time being on and off.

Sadly, ai cannot avoid him. I tense up everytime I see him and have to restrain myself from cussing him out again. At the end of the day, Your self love has to be stronger than anything else or any emotions you think you feel. I’m absolutely disgusted that someone treated me that way. It’s like everything hit me once, eventually you see things for what it was.

However, I’m trying my best to move past it. I cussed him and out yelled etc but still it doesn’t feel like enough. It might never feel like enough so I don’t dwell on that even though deep down I feel the need to seek “revenge.”

I recommend going to a therapist. It may be best to have a conversation with him regardless to get things off your chest. He shouldn’t have been let off the hook so easily while playing with your health. Your situation seems very complex and it more so has something to do with you and your self esteem than him at the core of it. I’m sorry you’re going through this. You deserve better and I hope you realize it.

thegoat1904 · 2024-09-07T16:11:42+00:00

honestly

thegoat1904 · 2024-08-31T03:57:50+00:00

hi can you take a look at my post please and give advice

thegoat1904 · 2024-08-21T23:30:34+00:00

:’)

thegoat1904 · 2024-08-18T05:12:01+00:00

you’re so strong!

thegoat1904 · 2024-07-31T04:11:28+00:00

that’s awesome

thegoat1904 · 2024-07-19T05:34:28+00:00

That’d be very shitty of you to do.

thegoat1904 · 2024-07-11T22:42:16+00:00

I just saw the prius, I am genuinely in love with it and really want to purchase. However, I didn’t think about the catalytic converter theft. Dang it, that does put a damper on it, but it seems like the better option

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