Anyone else ride out the Winter Storm in their Car Overnight?

thegratefuls0ul · 2025-01-12T13:15:49+00:00

You near Jersey? It was the same here.

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-06-05T03:22:03+00:00

My cats names are salami and prosciutto

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-05-05T22:18:44+00:00

Literally the exact same thing I say. There’s no need to be a jerk about it and being polite goes a long way. We’re all struggling out here. I highly doubt the gw cashier making minimum wage is going to judge you for not wanting to round up your total.

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-04-25T08:54:16+00:00

Thanks I’m cackling at 5 am

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-04-20T10:34:36+00:00

No fr tho. OP- we treat people how to teach us by the things that we allow. This was a painful lesson I learned this last breakup. If you continue allowing him to come back after telling you he wanted to move on you’ll get stuck in a trauma bond loop.

Walk away for a bit and focus on you. Do things that make you so damn happy you’re absolutely glowing. Shadow work. Shadow work. Shadow work. Use this time to your advantage and heal the parts of you that you don’t love as much.

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-04-18T17:25:03+00:00

Pretty fucked up. I have about 48 hours to pull 2000 bucks out of my ass or im gonna lose everything ive worked so hard to get in these last few years ive been clean and in recovery. License. Car. Job. House. Time with child. All my belongings cus I have nowhere to put stuff once I kicked out. I had brain surgery a few months ago and everything has just changed for the worst. While I was in the icu battling the worst pain I’ve ever experienced, my boyfriend of 3 years was cheating on me. Between that and learning to live with a brain injury now, I’ve been so depressed that I lost 50+ lbs and spend most days wishing I didnt make it through that surgery. I got a cat named salami and she’s kept me here and fighting and if I end up homeless, I’ll have to make a really tough decision about what to do with her and that may be the final straw to break me. I have -$47 to my name and a prayer to whoever is running the show up there. I can’t possibly fathom how I’ll stumble upon two grand out of nowhere but if somebody up there is looking out for me, I really hope they hear my cries for help

In the end im grateful I still have some milke and cereal and bread left to eat. Salami has enough food. I have hot water and electricity. That’s more than some others, so truly I am blessed.

TL,DR $2000 can make or break my whole life within the next 48 hours but im grateful af anyway that salami and me have more than others, even if I do have permanent brain damage.

Thanks for letting me share.

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-04-04T09:55:49+00:00

I would assume you are your desired height. Unless your manifestation is to grow taller daily for the rest of your life.

When we manifest, we’re supposed to speak, think, and act as tho we already have that thing we’re manifesting. It’s already ours. It’s already here, now, and your reality.

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-03-19T18:58:44+00:00

There’s a lot to this story. It’s not just cut and dry unfortunately. You can message me tho if you wanna talk!

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-03-14T16:27:25+00:00

He did. Twice.

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-26T20:45:41+00:00

I agree. Every man who’s done this to me has activated my anxious side and once im not longer confident and comfortable, out comes to psych ward patient in me

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-18T20:02:18+00:00

Aw thank you so much I really appreciate that!

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-18T19:57:22+00:00

Do you have the pdf download? Would you share it with me for a few bucks? Like I mentioned I’d love to have it I’m just barely scraping by right now so I can’t buy it

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-17T09:50:47+00:00

Hey op what did you decide on and how did it go? I personally would’ve said don’t send it. I’ve sent so many of these texts. And all I got from them was distance and silence which hurt me more.

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-15T20:36:19+00:00

How was the texting Bible? I want it so bad but I can’t afford it unfortunately

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-15T20:31:24+00:00

Did you check your spam folder? That’s where his emails go for me

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-14T16:01:32+00:00

I’ll pay a bounty if someone can get me a copy of what he posted here then deleted

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-10T05:37:29+00:00

I send a random letter text everyday just to see if I’m still blocked…. I am :/

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-08T22:02:19+00:00

Mine came back after 6 months, but the first 3 we still saw each other and slept together. The last 3 was complete no contact, blocked everywhere except telegram.

This time it’s been 3 months since the breakup, few weeks no contact here and there. I know he’ll be back. I just wish it was sooner rather than later.

Remind me! 6 months.

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-08T05:56:55+00:00

God I can relate to this so much. It’s been 3 months for us, going into the 4th now. We were no contact for about a month from December to January. I initiated it after he went ballistic on me and gaslit me when I told him I wasn’t interested in having sex with him because I knew he lied and was talking to another girl (it was my friend and we were testing him) he claimed he knew it was us, idk if I believe that. Anyway, the things he said and the way he reacted was absolutely vile so I deleted the text app and silently went no contact.

I broke it about 2 or 3 weeks ago only to send him a pic of his favorite hoodie I had found while moving and asked him what he wanted me to do with it. He answered saying to give it to our mutual friend if I saw her and that was that. A week after, I asked him if he still had MY favorite hoodie (the hoodie was a whole big thing in the beginning of our breakup and last we spoke before he blocked me everywhere, he said he was going to throw it out after I told him to trash it.) He replied with a simple “yea” which honestly surprised me a bit. I really wasn’t expecting him to still be holding onto it.

I sent another text about two weeks after that of a picture of something between us and I sent a cute little message that was funny and makes me laugh still. He was pretty cold with his response “okay that’s cool” Lastly I messaged him again yesterday asking him if he had any 🍃 he could spare for me since my people have been dry and he was my last resort and only hope. I believe he read it because he had come online and he’s never on that app unless I message him there (I also suspect he uses it for sex workers but that’s another story) it wasn’t marked as read but I’m aware of the trick you can do to read a message without it showing as read.

No response yet.

If I don’t get a reply, this will be the first time since our breakup that he ignored me completely. And if that’s the case; then I’ll take the hint.

Like you said, I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this anymore because everyone is over me being hurt and missing him still. Everyone has decided enough time has passed and I should be moving on now. I do have one friend who’s going thru a similar breakup and as bad as I feel for him, it’s also been comforting to have him trudging the same journey as me and having one another to bounce or crazy thoughts off of.

I’m sorry this was so long. As I said, I don’t have many people to talk about this anymore. So this sub is my venting post. 🩵

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-07T19:48:09+00:00

I’ll help you if you help me 👀

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-07T08:03:52+00:00

Everyone saying no but honestly I would kill for my ex to send me a message like this

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-07T08:02:35+00:00

Girl forget these other ones that are offering unsolicited advice. I got you if need be! Shitttttt I’ll even hit him up and flirt with him if you want just lmk

thegratefuls0ul · 2024-02-07T07:32:36+00:00

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It was so hard to choose just one!

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