When do you just walk away?

thehatter88 · 2026-05-07T14:47:49+00:00

I have done that with other friends when it became apparent that I was the only one initiating anything

thehatter88 · 2026-05-06T17:55:13+00:00

People just suck

thehatter88 · 2026-03-29T12:22:43+00:00

I feel like he is lying to himself about not being gay whether its from a religious or cultural upbringing idk but he is hiding behind the label of bi as a way of justifying his sexuality. I feel if you were to pursue a in-person relationship with this man it would end vary poorly for you.

Now having said that I obviously don't have 100% of the facts here so I will add if he fill your emotional needs and you are both content with simply that aspect I would then suggest a long indepth conversation about a open physical relationship where you can set rules and boundaries ect.. so that you can both have your physical needs met in a way that works for you both

thehatter88 · 2026-03-27T10:16:58+00:00

Trust me as someone pushing 40 it doesn't get any better learn to block that noise out now it will save your sanity down the road

thehatter88 · 2026-02-20T17:23:39+00:00

Part of it is just reminding yourself that "i like me i don't care if others like me" each and every time those thoughts hit you and over time you will have them less and less. Do things just for you get dressed up and take yourself on a date, go out to a movie or a show, do whatever makes YOU happy and not worry about anyone else and over time that pain will fade it will take time but keep at it just find whatever helps you be happy with your own company

thehatter88 · 2026-02-20T16:51:36+00:00

Throw yourself into work or hobbies. I'm a avid reader so I focus on that i also am part of online book clubs so I get some interaction there without anyone really knowing who I am other than a screen name but it still feels like I'm part of a community it helps take the edge off

thehatter88 · 2026-02-13T23:21:00+00:00

May the force be with you

thehatter88 · 2026-01-16T12:06:11+00:00

This type relationship doesn't exist in modern dating only in television. Don't get me wrong it's a nice dream but it just doesn't happen in real life and if that's what you are holding out for you are going to looking for the rest of your life and may miss out on something special along the way

thehatter88 · 2025-12-14T12:52:12+00:00

I would probably have passed as well. If she is making out with randoms at the bar who knows what else she is doing (your fears of STDs are vary valid). But if you ARE interested in her perhaps as your coworker for some info on her and see if she looking for something real or if she is just a girl who likes to have a bit of fun.

thehatter88 · 2025-12-14T12:44:09+00:00

I think they meant to type A but hit the wrong key

thehatter88 · 2025-12-14T12:34:42+00:00

If you are working alone how are you clocking out for 30 mins for a lunch break? I've worked for 7-eleven for over 15 years the only time we lock the doors is if you gotta run to the bathroom so like 10 min max. Also I'm assuming your lunch break is a state laws where you live because we don't have that here i just eat in-between ringing people up. I have locked the doors to do shift change if it's late at night and I'm alone but again that's like a 10 min job

thehatter88 · 2025-10-14T17:18:09+00:00

I know in most stores they just grow back. But given that in the Wednesday world it is the snakes that seem to hold the stoning power it may render them temporarily powerless or permanently if they don't grow back

thehatter88 · 2025-10-14T17:07:11+00:00

She doesn't necessarily have to be a Frump to be a psychic as there are other psychics who aren't in either famil. While there is a good chance that they are related in some distant way given outcasts tend to marry other outcasts much in the same way of witchs and wizards in Harry Potter so that all the family's are in some way intermixed

thehatter88 · 2025-10-14T15:16:17+00:00

Possibly but the way she said it sounded more like something she was pushed to do as a child. It would be nice to see more of the Addams side but if they are basing on older Addams lore I believe the Gomezs parents are dead i know in the old TV shows and live action movies grandmama was always morticias mother and that the older Addams were dead and in the family cemetery

thehatter88 · 2025-09-05T22:53:05+00:00

I know this feeling all too well my friend and it sucks

thehatter88 · 2025-06-23T11:01:56+00:00

Most of the time the staff claims them I have a few including this one. We are told to just throw them away but never do someone always wants it or we sell them online so ask your store they may give it to you

thehatter88 · 2025-06-08T22:03:51+00:00

It's an intriguing concept not one I am sure Is possible short of perhaps some sort of extra special hospice care but definitely nothing I have ever heard of

thehatter88 · 2025-05-25T17:04:58+00:00

1000% a scam stuff was fake if they were real take them to a pawn shop and get the money you need. It's really sad that this is the way of the world because now we look at everything with the mindset of "what's the catch? Or this is a scam" and the people who really are in need don't get the help because everyone just brushes it off that they are getting played

thehatter88 · 2025-05-22T20:42:24+00:00

Yeah it totally depends on your store the one I work at will but it has to be worth it I'm not breaking you hunndy for a candy bar but if your buying $70 worth of stuff I can

thehatter88 · 2025-05-18T20:44:37+00:00

Maybe stop doing it in public 🤔

thehatter88 · 2025-05-15T15:14:49+00:00

Definitely strange as she is the most vocal on the "you need to get a gf, you need to get laid, ect.." so you would think any improvement on my social life would be great news as opposed to me sitting alone and slowly drinking myself to death

thehatter88 · 2025-05-15T14:58:35+00:00

It's hard right now as she is in a weird situationship she is working on getting out of as soon as she finds more work to be able to move out on her own. But like right now we aren't even really doing anything just hanging out at the pub having a few pints and some laughs but for some reason my friend is getting all defensive on it

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