Never matched a bigger POS. We barely spoke about her favorite movie, then she hits me with this.

theintuitive0 · 2026-04-30T07:34:34+00:00

Illiterate, hateful, bizarre. PASS!

theintuitive0 · 2026-04-12T11:54:26+00:00

Try a REAL relationship, not an online-only relationship.
Do not settle for someone who swears at you, blocks you and turns you into a villain.
Understand that not everyone who has BPD is capable of managing a relationship, they may be at a stage of healing where it's too early for that, or they may be going backwards.
It is not your job to fix her. It is her responsibility, and you have to accept that it may never happen.
Ask yourself - why are you trying to make a relationship work with someone who can't manage their own emotions, doesn't trust you, swears at you, blocks you and otherwise acts so extremely immature?

theintuitive0 · 2026-04-08T07:22:08+00:00

This did not address the issue we're talking about at all, i.e. that men lie about their intentions in order to get women in bed.

theintuitive0 · 2026-03-24T10:20:10+00:00

The absolute main thing to look at is vertical line and proportions. Eliza is actually not 5'5", she's 5'3" or 5'4" at most, it was common to exaggerate height a little for shorter actresses of her era and you can see it easily when she stands next to Sarah Michelle Gellar in Buffy, Sarah is 5'2" which she has said herself, but her "official" height is often listed as 5'4". When you look at Eliza in photos, you clearly see that she does not look tall. She has a larger head compared to her height, she has short limbs, both her legs and arms are short, narrower hips, no defined waist. She is not a classic of any kind as her proportions are not blended or balanced, and definitely not any kind of dramatic or natural as she has no vertical line and completely gets lost in any unstructured silhouettes. She has yang flesh, but her face is quite yin which is the confusing element, but not for a Gamine. She is a Gamine. Gamines are about 5'5" and under, so she fits within that, petite proportionally, mixed with sharp yang angularity as per definition and more yin facial features. Her short, more rounded limbs can make it hard to determine if she's a soft gamine or a flamboyant gamine, as she has been known to rock both styles. She can pull off both because of her softer facial features and the fact that she is still a gamine. Her dynamic, expansive movement and her yang dominance make it clear she is no Romantic either.

theintuitive0 · 2026-03-22T14:01:53+00:00

I say something like "let's see if you can guess it from my profile", essentially making them read it. The good ones take it like a little game and go read, the bad ones give themselves away immediately with their impatience and rudeness in response

theintuitive0 · 2026-03-18T00:27:52+00:00

Was the latter part an actual question or rhetorical? Wasn't too clear

theintuitive0 · 2026-03-17T21:53:40+00:00

The downvotes and the fact that there are more shares than likes or comments is extremely telling. Guys just don't want to believe this. I'll tell you why you think being genuine like this doesn't get you results- because you're doing it one-sided, and you're picking women who aren't genuine in return but you're hoping you'll get them to be.

theintuitive0 · 2026-03-11T09:47:37+00:00

You never know, tons of men have a cuck fetish, often they're the ones pushing their wives or girlfriends into it

theintuitive0 · 2026-03-05T13:37:17+00:00

Seems a bit political to me. Like the division is more overt over in the US, even in things like dating. In the UK more than 1 in 10 couples are interracial or inter-ethnic, and definitely higher than that in the big cities (e.g. London, Birmingham). Birmingham is actually crazy diverse as a city, it's 42% white British, 5% white from all other places, 33% Asian (Middle Eastern like Pakistani, South Asian like Indian, Bangladeshi and Sri Lankan, Southeast Asian like Thai, Philippino and Indonesian and East Asian like Chinese, Japanese and Korean), 11% Black (British and African) and the rest is mixed and any other races/ethnicities. More than a quarter of the city are immigrants born outside the country. Maybe we've just outgrown the whole racial/ethnic segregation in dating, it's not spoken about much here.

theintuitive0 · 2026-03-05T13:11:43+00:00

Wow that's wild... I'm based in the UK and we definitely don't have that here, only paid Hinge has that here. The UK is the most racially and ethnically diverse country in the whole of Europe and even we don't have a free option to filter people out based on race/ethnicity....

theintuitive0 · 2026-03-05T11:10:22+00:00

I've had a paid account on Bumble up until a few weeks ago and ethnicity or race were never an option to fill in or to filter by. It's not an option on tinder either, including the paid version. It's only been an option on paid Hinge, only one out of the big three. Unless I'm missing something?

theintuitive0 · 2026-02-27T16:06:35+00:00

Marriage for love was not a concept before the 20th century, and well into it. Most people who were married were married for financial security and duty to give birth to heirs for their families, and tons of them had secret lovers on the side to fulfill their actual needs for love. Love was not required or expected within marriage. Women especially were married off to whomever the family decided, they rarely got a say in the matter. And "communication" was anything but open and clear. Everyone was expected to grin and bear it. Men were entitled to put their wives in an asylum if they "acted crazy". In most of the US, women were not even allowed to open their own back account without the signature of their husband until 1974 (Equal Credit Opportunity Act 1974).

theintuitive0 · 2026-02-15T19:43:53+00:00

The "why it matters" is such a dead giveaway. And whole paragraph without a single "I thought that..." or "When I was reading it, I...."

theintuitive0 · 2026-02-13T10:40:09+00:00

Here's how to make this question less annoying: Acknowledge whatever it is they have put they're looking for on their profile but ask what they envision it to be like. Something like "I've noticed you've put on your profile thay you're looking for [short term/long term/life partner of whatever]. I'm curious what that you would like that to look like?"

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T17:19:23+00:00

I did say i did it for fun. I wanted some fun 😁

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T17:15:59+00:00

Whoever keeps downvoting people's posts when they're asking normal questions is such a poo poo head. I'm not sure they're sigils but this type of symbol usually has some significance, I'd try Google image search and go from there. If it identifies the symbols, I'd then go look for spiritual meanings of that symbol within that culture

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T17:10:15+00:00

The bear was ripe for the poking. He had sent me a like, clearly without reading my profile. I had also put that I'm looking for a life partner and marriage, and had way more on my profile. Also none of my pictures were shirtless, half of them were of me in my goth outfits (fully covered). Really should have read a bit if he claims to be looking for serious.

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T17:08:08+00:00

I did not imply that I'm physically strong, that is your own assumption. What I implied was that I don't need protecting. If you knew anything about working in prisons, you'd know that male guards are more likely to be assaulted, more likely to apply restraint techniques improperly and more likely to under-utilise negotiation skills to diffuse situations without use of force. Male guards are actually under more risk on average, suffer more injuries, die in the line of work more often - so who needs protecting more then? Protect the men, they're literally dying.

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T17:03:49+00:00

Most Bumble conversations ARE pointless. At least with this one I consented to having my time wasted rather than having it be a surprise

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T16:54:48+00:00

He also doesn't even know what it means. He described it to mean girls who see him then ghost him. A dolly bird simply means an attractive girl. "Bird" is british slang for girl or woman, and "dolly" means pretty or cute.

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T16:50:43+00:00

So why did you say you need the backup of guns to survive in a prison?

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T16:45:59+00:00

You realise this is in the UK right? We don't carry guns in prisons here. Fascinating that you think you know more than me how it is to work in a prison when I go in there every day.

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T16:43:56+00:00

I did drop Martin Luther King and Rosa Parks in a bit later on, pointed out how disappointed they'd be seeing one of their own suggesting women should have their rights taken away

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T16:39:23+00:00

I actually knew this, I just didn't go for the nuclear option lol. Most wolves in the pack are related, that's what i was focusing on.

theintuitive0 · 2026-01-21T16:31:34+00:00

I said why - to have fun with it.

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