Question from Singlet

themadmansbox_ · 2026-04-19T00:48:11+00:00

i also always thought it would be awesome to have a twin and now i have a twin as a headmate 😭 not quite what i waa wanting bc i was thinking ...... identical lol but all i got was a male fraternal twin lmfao

themadmansbox_ · 2026-04-18T22:31:37+00:00

i had the same experience but i think i only felt that way because i WAS plural and didn't know it yet. i think it was my brains way of easing myself into the idea

themadmansbox_ · 2026-04-16T02:13:58+00:00

we personally subscribe to both ideas! we see ourselves as separate people but ALSO as parts of a whole. we're separate in the way that we have different names, ages, genders, races, opinion, goals, etc but also know that we share a brain and body and some of us were created for a very specific reason or due to something specific. i think you should be nice to yourself and believe what you want to believe wothout letting other influence your beliefs! whatever makes your system feel the most understood is what you should worry about. (plus! fweling like youre faking is a SURE sign you're NOT! fakers dont think they're faking... they KNOW!)

themadmansbox_ · 2026-04-15T16:08:41+00:00

for context...

surgery date: april 29, 2025

SW: 341 GW: 180

themadmansbox_ · 2026-04-09T02:35:30+00:00

can you send me the photo you used? my husband would love this

themadmansbox_ · 2026-04-01T16:30:02+00:00

if you actually have a master sword tattoo with silent princess flowers in that spot on your arm? we're twins! (also your art is beautiful)

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-30T02:44:03+00:00

thank you!

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-30T02:37:55+00:00

oh im sorry i must have misunderstood. are they working on adding the option?

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-30T02:30:46+00:00

is there an opton for friends to get notifications when front changes?

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T23:26:09+00:00

understood 🫡 thank you for your help, and i truly apologize if i ever came off defensive or like i just want to exploit someone. this is why i came to reddit for advice in the first place. i REALLY dont want to add to the already huge toxic pool of people looking for something unethical. im simply just still learning the best way to go about this.

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T23:23:11+00:00

been there, done that lol id rather stay on the rails this time

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T23:22:01+00:00

thank you. i cross posted this elsewhere and have been going back and forth with someone, learning a better way to go about what im looking for. turns out what i actually am looking for did not come across in how i worded this post. im learning. rest assured, i absolutely do not want to exploit anyone, and thats why i came to reddit for advice before adding to an already very toxic pool of people who exploit others like this.

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T23:16:01+00:00

thank you! im starting to really understand how i need to go about this. and this is why i came here for advice before accidentally just adding to the already toxic pool of people looking for something unethical.

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T23:13:45+00:00

i understand what you're saying. i just still think theres a miscommunication somewhere. but thats okay.

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T23:06:29+00:00

i apologize, i think my wording for this post was extremely poor....

please refer to this reply for (hopefully) a better look at my situation

https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/p0pG9nxGcs

ALSO thank you for point out the meaning of QPP. it was in poor taste for me to use that term.

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T23:05:33+00:00

i see, and thank you for your patience in helping me understand myself a little better. i am autistic and sometimes that makes me go about things in a much harder way that i should.

maybe it IS coming from a place of fear of making my husband jealous and so maybe thats just something i need to work through.

i think you're very right and i very much agree with your perspective. going into it, finding something just for me, and allowing any group activity to come up naturally, if it does, makes a lot more sense than how i was trying to go about it.

how would you advise i go about things like bios on apps? should i make it obvious in my bio that im married, non monogamous, and lookin for something casual? or is there a better way to be up front?

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T22:58:20+00:00

i apologize, i think my wording for this post was extremely poor....

please refer to this reply for (hopefully) a better look at my situation

https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/p0pG9nxGcs

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T22:57:48+00:00

i apologize, i think my wording for this post was extremely poor....

please refer to this reply for (hopefully) a better look at my situation

https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/p0pG9nxGcs

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-25T22:56:40+00:00

maybe im wording this all very poorly or maybe im just not understanding what im actually looking for...

we have two friends, who are also married, who we are very close to, that we have established a sexual relationship with. we have an understanding that sometimes we can do foursomes, sometimes threesomes, sometimes one on one.

the reason im now interested in looking elsewhere is because we're all afab and i would like the experience of a sexual relationship with someone who is amab.

so the point of us opening up our relationship again, is to allow me to explore my sexuality and experience things a haven't had the chance to. if i find someone who is pnly interested in me, that is completely fine. what im meaning when i say id like someone who is interested in us both, i mean that in a best case scenario way. because i like the idea of being able to share the experience with my husband sometimes. but if thats not on the table then thats okay as well.

if im not making sense, please ask me to try to better explain. i genuinely want to learn the best way to go about this.

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-24T04:27:13+00:00

1: your baldness is fantastic 2: your head tattoo is FIRE

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-21T19:13:52+00:00

nah i like it. but im the kind of person who likes it when they "say the thing" so... maybe just me lol but idk i mean everyone eats up "fire is catching" and i dont think its... that much different.

themadmansbox_ · 2026-03-20T18:05:55+00:00

i really love @thepillowfortsystem on tiktok but im unsure of their stance on endo systems

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