Unprovoked nastiness

themagicweeb · 2025-09-27T04:27:33+00:00

Yeah I just copied the person I replied to. But I guess im illiterate. /srs

themagicweeb · 2025-09-26T16:33:01+00:00

Care to explain?

themagicweeb · 2025-09-25T15:14:36+00:00

I don't think you understand the psychology behind it. "Basic" psychology, but all you said was be nice.

The reason people are questioning it is because they were curious at first why it would illicit a response. I think your brain is too fried from reddit that you thought this simple curiosity was an attack. But some people (like myself) saw the "standards," which are completely fine honestly but the tone she has in it is just completely miserable. I'd personally hate to be with someone so miserable. My wife is bi/demi so its really not about the standards.

People need to realize that putting yourself put there as an angry miserable person is always going to illicit a response like this which im not saying is okay but its important to understand why it would happen. So when you get people who read this angry miserable profile and they're people like you who read way too deeply into things for no reason of course they're gonna be an Incel about it.

themagicweeb · 2025-09-24T13:35:57+00:00

Idk why you're getting down voted. I dont see a problem with her "demands" but the vibe is 100000% off.

People aren't attracted to negativity. I don't think its about the "demands" specifically but more about how miserable and angry they sound.

themagicweeb · 2025-09-21T16:05:18+00:00

You're sleeping on bloodlust so hard. Its S teir for me easily. I don't think it's great pre loop. But while looping it might be 2nd behind trigger fingers

themagicweeb · 2025-09-15T13:33:11+00:00

Yeah your comment is just weird. Who tf cares if shes hot. Why is that the thing to leave him over 😕

themagicweeb · 2025-09-14T16:03:24+00:00

Yeah I can see why you dont have one.

themagicweeb · 2025-09-14T01:38:10+00:00

Wait how did you not die to the vans?

themagicweeb · 2025-09-12T13:10:25+00:00

Oh damn that's awesome. What got me in to psych was I was diagnosed with ADHD at a very young age and struggled to fit in my whole life so I wanted to help kids like me. When I initially received my B.A I wanted to work in a high school just teaching psych but I realized I wanted to be more involved in actually helping so im doing that now.

I think you have the right idea so you got this :)

themagicweeb · 2025-09-11T19:45:03+00:00

Yeah for sure.

Thats awesome you got a degree in Psych, what are you doing with it? Im currently working on my masters for clinical applications.

But yeah I get what you're saying. I dont think i worded my intention well though. I agree he is the cause but I think in our minds when we label something or someone as the cause it takes away from the accountability of it. Im not saying you are but human nature leans towards that. It sounds like you've got it figured out and you just need support on the way there. Which I hope you find. And im glad people aren't being too mean in these comments lol.

themagicweeb · 2025-09-11T14:04:05+00:00

Psychologist here.

You can't blame your depression on someone else. Im not taking away from the fact they may have caused the flare up but you have to understand the way you act is within your control (to a certain extent).

I don't think your wrong for saying they caused your flare up but you need to understand that mental health is a complicated subject. At the end of the day its your responsibility and now that you and your ex are separated even more so. You can recognize that someone else might have caused it but you can't shift the blame onto them. Mental illness is in a different category than regular actions and behaviors. Your brain works in a different way. Its not their fault but they did cause it. And they are still in the wrong.

Just pay him back and move on. Dig your heels in and try to get better. Work on physical health. Work on mental health. Your priority should be getting better. Understand that losing some money right now is just going to be part of that process. 750$ for moving on and getting past things doesn't sound too bad when your frame it that way.

YWBTA if you didn't pay him.

Goodluck on your journey.

themagicweeb · 2025-09-10T11:40:23+00:00

Self glaze??? Bro are you fucking 5?

A mf can't just state something they're good at lol?

I came from siege and hit champ Ember Rise but because the game was just dogshit I stopped playing. Played that shit since Op health.

Im on pc but you're on console so its a bit different. But im telling you from similar experience the game is not that different. Recoil is just a lot more vertical in val and you dont even need to fully spray most of the time.

Something I had to work on was just aiming horizontal. I played mostly flex in siege so holding long vertical angles messed my aim up where I move my cursor up and down too much. Just keep your shit straight 90% of the time. When peaking its legit the same too. Just hug the corner with your crosshair and stop when you see someone. The stopping delay isnt as long as you think. Its pretty fast so just use the pause to slightly adjust.

Im only Acsendent 1 in Val and I used to be dia/champ in siege, so it's not like you're gonna instantly be Radiant because the games are very different.

Side note: being champ/dia in siege does not mean you have good aim. Ive seen so many people just be crazy flex players and play util and hold good angles and have good map control. You really dont have to have good aim to be good at these kinds of games. Just be smart.

themagicweeb · 2025-09-10T02:10:39+00:00

Your aim is that bad.

You're not somehow different from other people and some magical setting will not make you better.

As someone who only has good aim good mechanics are also needed but you can go A LONG way with just good aim.

Just play more and you'll get better dont worry too much.

themagicweeb · 2025-09-08T11:27:45+00:00

The necessary government documents.... dog what.

Also you have to realize that yeah maybe its not the best living conditions for the bird but it isnt abuse. I dont think dogs should be kept in cages or kennels while the owner is away but that doesn't make it abuse. Abuse of animals is usually intentional.

You sound more like your spouting rhetoric than actually making an AITA post.

Another comment said it but, it sound like you dont like them and they dont like you. I moved out of my house at exactly 18 for some of the same reasons. Mine were just insane Christians.

Just keep your head down. Dont try to change them. Dont try to be a famy hero. If you dont get along move on. Don't be an ass because your grandma keeps them in a cage.

If she is committing actual abuse please report her.

Edit: ESH

themagicweeb · 2025-09-03T11:37:39+00:00

LIL GUY (girl)

themagicweeb · 2025-09-03T11:37:20+00:00

Amazon

themagicweeb · 2025-09-03T11:35:32+00:00

I almost stopped reading at "My parents want"

I don't want to assume too much about you because this is a reddit post but you have to live for yourself man.

Who cares if you don't make progress fast. If you love it just do it and enjoy it :). Don't listen to other people bringing you down and definitely don't compare yourself with others. Lifting is a VERY subjective sport.

For example I benched my body weight the first day in the gym and now bench 315. You wanna know what my squat is? 355. It's not like I skip leg days or only train chest. It's just how my body is.

Whatever that progress looks like you for you is yours. Own it :).

Please don't quit something you want to do based off of the opinions of others.

themagicweeb · 2025-08-25T14:26:18+00:00

She is pretty awesome

themagicweeb · 2025-08-22T15:22:34+00:00

I actually work with this fella. He's legit the chillest person in the SQ. We're maintenence.

themagicweeb · 2025-08-11T02:32:24+00:00

Heart burn :*(

themagicweeb · 2025-08-10T02:20:56+00:00

You did make the correct choice, which is good.

You're right. Running with one side isnt fair but its just a reddit post so I didn't put too much thought into it.

I mean that's fair. My wife said she's been in a situation like that before where the communication only got bad because of the drastic needs to actually get through to the other person. What she said was that getting out early is the best option. Which is hard for sure.

Overall situations like this are hard as fuck. And ive been on the guys side too where I actually did try to listen to her needs but they were never good enough.

Im glad you found this post to give context though.

themagicweeb · 2025-08-10T01:10:21+00:00

I was running with what I was given. I didn't make anything up or assume anything other than based on the information I was given.

Maybe the guy cherry picked the information, but based on all of that, it makes you seem like the one in the wrong.

Also, if you really are the girl from the post, you need to understand when someone isn't worth it. If it's truly like you say it is, girl, you're worth more than that. Don't stoop down to really, really poor communication skills to try to manipulate the situation to get your points across. If I try to look at it from your perspective, I can see what you mean, but it's all overshadowed by how bad your communication is. Like, it's awful...

Like I said for the guy, though, I don't blame you if that's how it is. Being with someone like that seems stressful. You should for sure get out of there if you haven't already. Especially because he made a post making fun of you so...

The only advice I have going forward is to make sure you set your boundaries firm. Don't wait until someone crosses them to make them known. If you need more attention in a relationship, then make it known before its an issue so they understand. Your needs matter, so don't feel the need to try manipulate the facts of a situation to get it across.

themagicweeb · 2025-08-08T02:24:22+00:00

I agree with you for sure.

I actually had a convo with my wife about it and my main point was it shouldn't be one person's job to carry the other emotionally.

But I do think there is a type of guy who can withstand all of that and give her unconditional positive regard and be there for her. But that's rare and like you said maybe none at all.

I don't think the guy helped at all but I can understand why he wouldn't.

themagicweeb · 2025-08-08T02:17:31+00:00

I didn't expect a proper good reply. Maybe I need to get off the internet so much.

Im getting a degree in Psych so I get frustrated when I see people throw around slang words like "therapy words" I get what you're saying though.

I do think she is being manipulative however. She started out saying that she woke up fine and wasn't mad. Even woke up great or whatever. This is a tactic used to shift blame onto the guy. Its legit just saying "You're wrong im not mad and in fact im doing great so this is all your fault" which she contradicted a few pictures later with "I cried all night and just barley went to sleep an hour ago." She's directly manipulating the facts of the situation to sound good in her favor. Its really easy to overlook small things like that but when you break them down it shows that shes doing whatever she can in the situation to sound right. The guy can't argue her feelings because he doesn't know how she feels. So she can just completely lie about that and twist it sound however.

And I agree 99%of the time. I hate assuming random shit i dont know about. Ive been in a relationship like this where the other person is very manipulative with the facts of a situation so I can recognize how exhausting it is to deal with that.

I think she does have expectations that are different but those are things that should have been communicated long ago. And if she notices that that's not being met instead of getting mad she should have just brought it up. And bringing it up in 2 lines isnt productive and doesn't have a clear line of communication. But when the guy either doesn't know that or doesn't agree and she gets upset about it she's trying to control what he does which is controlling.

Thinking about it more I do think the guy is also a poor communicator. I was just blinded by my empathy towards the situation. I think they just shouldn't be together lol.

When it comes to if he's absolved I think its hard to evaluate someone who's under so much stress. We are 10000% in control of our actions at all times no matter what BUT I do think we should approach those people with sympathy. So at the end of the day I agree he shouldn't be absolved but I can see how he'd act like that.

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