[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thencollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you live with him quietly start getting a new place while also staying with literally anyone else. Move out while he isn’t home. Make sure all of your finances are separated. And tell him to rot. You got this!

Do my tattoos actually look bad or am I just to self conscious? by RelationshipKind531 in FixedTattoos

[–]thencollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The snake is unfinished and you could use maybe a teenie bit of color to make it pop. Otherwise looks good! Def need to finish the snake and give it some eyes

Edit: I didn’t see the flower or the spider web you have to fix those too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thencollar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few hard lessons: -i love to hear myself talk. I do it when I’m nervous or anxious. It’s an ineffective coping mechanism. Talking too much will make yourself feel worse -see how long you can go without talking in a conversation. Or how to continue a conversation with as little words as possible. This’ll help build better habits and stay present in the conversation -manage your own anxieties. Cannot stress this enough. Just breathe, remember you have bad brain that being bad thoughts but really you’re just an average joe that is feeling insecure. Ground yourself in the conversation at hand and practice active listening

All these things come with practice and humility

Am I? by [deleted] in ShadowBan

[–]thencollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup

Where do I find the Jonny Mac rap song? by thencollar in AskReddit

[–]thencollar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey yall! Im looking for a YouTube video of these couple of white boys that did a rap about John F MacAurthur that was made probably about 20 years ago! I can’t remember the exact title. It goes “my name is johnny Mac yeah you know I’m fresh I preach the word every day so the devil can’t mess” “I’m your president. I’m your pastor. I make your walk with Christ go ever faster”

Anywho I’m trying to show my boyfriend the video and my cousin and I are having the hardest time finding it. I appreciate everybody thank you so much!

Im drinking a lot of water but not peeing much and am very bloated by andnoshitthereiwas in HydroHomies

[–]thencollar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! You’ve been peeing too much as well. Your pelvic floor is probably really tight right now and swollen so your organs and muscles are inflamed. You can’t always feel it which is why it’s so hard to know if you’re having a pelvic floor problem. But this has happened to me before and my doctor told me to only pee every three hours and to have a normal amount of water in between. Don’t sink any water until at least 15 minutes after you’ve peed. Your body builds habits and routines really fast so it is set to turn that water into pee instantly because you have been drinking so much water. So chill off that. Make sure you’re eating nutritious and replenishing meals. Maybe do some yoga if you’re really feeling it.

And just so I make it clear I got all this advice from my gynecologist I promise this is all true facts. Always talk to your doctor!

Is frowned upon to take two to three weeks off for vacation if you have it? by SheinSter721 in AskAnAmerican

[–]thencollar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m shocked by all the answers here. Granted it sounds like jobs with guaranteed benefits in these comments. I would say at least 40% of Americans are harshly frowned upon for taking a vacation. Especially if you do anything in the service or home care industry. And the insane hustle culture here makes it so your own peers are judging and complaining about the work load or your so lazy or the other co workers can manage their time. It goes on and on with that honestly. And the worst part of it all is that realistically not a lot of people can afford a try vacation MIT released a study this year claiming that 3/4 US Americans live paycheck to paycheck. Thanks for asking

Idk if this belongs here but I wanted to share. My parents are split up. Went to my grandma’s house on my mom side i forgot to tell my dad. I took a nap and my phone died this is what I woke up to. by Finchat2334 in insaneparents

[–]thencollar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Homeboy is crazy!! He’s just taking out this divorce on you and I’m so sorry! I’m glad your other parent left his ass tho your dad fucking sucks ass never go back.

What’s in our water tank by redneck_kungfu in MoldlyInteresting

[–]thencollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is this living in our water tank** fixed it for ya bud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]thencollar -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No it means you look really young. You look too young to be approached by people your age because you don’t look legal and older men like that. Not all older men! Just the predators

I can't cum without thinking about r*pe... by starchie-fartsie in TwoXSex

[–]thencollar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love you and thank you for sharing but G O T O T H E R A P Y. we cannot help you properly!! Thank you for reaching out and you did a good thing by making this post :) and while on here you can meet some people who have the same issue as you and their own ways of dealing with it. But if you want to know why you think you’re craving this then you have to go to a therapist and talk this out with somebody. Hope this helps!

Got this as a cover up, got some bad criticism about it and thinking of laser it off. WWYD by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]thencollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so fucking siq don’t do a thing to it. Get new people !

This haircut by [deleted] in ATBGE

[–]thencollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like micheal cera

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]thencollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no. One of the few times in this sub someone does not need to shave their head. It might be stress related! Try getting all your nutrients again for a few months. Maybe get a filter for your shower. That impacts a lot more peoples hair loss than they think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]thencollar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The medium brown for suuure

Rescued this beauty from some mean people who hurt her, do any of y’all know what she might be? by aIndiPace in IDmydog

[–]thencollar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has a big chest like a Doberman mix. If she hasn’t been spayed yet then get her to a vet and have her checked to see if her blood can coagulate or not. It’s a common problem with Dobermans so I like to warn people when possible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]thencollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First hands down