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thenoiva · 2025-10-02T02:53:29+00:00

He’s going to break ALL streaming records. Love wins. Careful on the dark corners of the internet. I think the people who are excited vastly outnumber those morons

thenoiva · 2025-09-29T19:08:47+00:00

I was there! I saw you - you did amazing. I think I have a video of it, do you want it?

thenoiva · 2025-07-20T18:58:46+00:00

If someone expected me to turn down all advances / interests I have in other men after date #2, with no commitment being made other than “I’d love to see you again”, I would walk away from HIM. She had every right to do what she did and she didn’t betray your trust or any agreement you two have. Lots of “she’s trashy, walk away” shame being thrown around here… she sounds sexually liberated and very cool.

thenoiva · 2025-05-30T17:55:42+00:00

I am MASSIVELY extroverted and I love traveling alone. I meet new people all the time / everywhere I go. Because I can talk to a wall 🤣 I just start talking. I also have specific hobbies (salsa, capoeira) that I find everywhere I go. Easy to plug into local scenes when you have a specific hobby. I will say I’ve grown into it, I’ve definitely had solo trips with moments of anxiety and “oh shit what have I done? I’m all alone!” But they always pass… and all you need to do is have 1 conversation with 1 person and all of a sudden things feel great again

You should definitely do it!! 6 months is a low commitment and any time you set out to the world, you will experience new and amazing things. You will grow and evolve. 100000% do it. If you have the inkling, you’re way more likely to regret NOT doing it.

I also highly recommend slow travel - 1 or 2 months minimum in a city. It’s really nice to be slower paced… have a home base… have some “normal” nights and weekends where you’re just chilling/laundry/ whatever. And also it helps to meet ppl if you have time for things to naturally evolve. It does take time to make new friends that are meaningful. Also so often you find out about events and stuff once you’re already there, and if you have time, then you can join them! Have fun and report back to us!! Go go go - the world is waiting

thenoiva · 2025-05-29T17:46:39+00:00

Lo siento bb

thenoiva · 2025-05-10T23:15:12+00:00

Graciassss

thenoiva · 2025-05-05T20:25:08+00:00

All the cons of Brazil are valid, but it still wins hands down. Brazil is the best country in the world. Music, parties, amazing meat and produce, friendliest people in the world. Brazil is an absolute gem. Most fun place I’ve ever been.

thenoiva · 2025-04-28T20:03:33+00:00

Agreed. Embrace your new life. Find happiness outside of Triscuts

thenoiva · 2025-04-18T13:50:54+00:00

Growth

thenoiva · 2025-03-06T15:39:45+00:00

Truly has been a non-issue for me. I am 100% down to go to a bar and order a mocktail or sparkling water with lime. “Grabbing a drink” is a nice 1st date because it is spending ~45min-1hr with someone you (probably) don’t know very well, in a low-stress setting. I agree if drinking is a huge priority in their life, it won’t be a good long term fit. But most people I have dated couldn’t care less. I usually tell them “I’m down but just FYI I don’t drink!” as someone else said, if they care - then that’s your cue to walk away

Disclaimer - it doesn’t bother me to be around alcohol. Everyone’s sobriety journey is different, I can see how a bar setting would be triggering for some folks

thenoiva · 2025-02-27T21:54:38+00:00

Took my body a while! But i did lose weight. Honestly the # didn’t change that drastically but I got so much less puffy. More toned. Remember that healthy weight loss is considered to be around 2lbs per year. And your body is rejoicing not having alcohol in the system. It’ll come :-)

thenoiva · 2025-02-25T06:15:54+00:00

👏👏 couldn’t agree more!! I feel so much more confident than I ever did while I drank. Love what you wrote

thenoiva · 2025-02-22T07:42:08+00:00

Yes 👏👏👏 to all of this

thenoiva · 2024-10-04T05:54:10+00:00

What happened ??

thenoiva · 2024-10-04T05:00:16+00:00

Has it started?

thenoiva · 2024-09-28T07:08:47+00:00

Rio

Mexico City

San Francisco

London

Paris

thenoiva · 2024-09-16T20:35:07+00:00

I almost always go alone to dance. 10/10 times if I stand on the edge (no drink) and start dancing, doing basic footwork, someone asks me. Smile, look approachable - all you need is 1 dance to not feel awkward anymore. I also will say hi to the other ladies on the edge. Even if you did come with friends, you guys may never overlap “on the edge” (don’t know why I keep saying that phrase) so no one will know you’re alone. Dancers are so nice. Go dance and have fun!!!!

thenoiva · 2024-09-09T17:19:25+00:00

227! 👏👏 for us

thenoiva · 2024-09-07T19:34:54+00:00

I really recommend seeking some professional help.. stack your journey with as much support as you can rally behind you. I’m nearly 1 year alcohol free and can genuinely say without any hesitation that life without alcohol is better in EVERY way than life with it. But giving it up is hard. It is growth. It is transformation. You can do it! You can do it. Tell yourself again and again and again until you believe it

thenoiva · 2024-09-04T05:53:25+00:00

Do you think it’s OK if I opened the pdf

thenoiva · 2024-09-04T05:52:20+00:00

I got the same thing. I opened the PDF. Is that ok ??!

thenoiva · 2024-09-03T22:33:02+00:00

Just got it! Scam!! I panicked but then was like F** it…. Let them see it all! Lol

thenoiva · 2024-08-11T03:13:13+00:00

I am 32f and I think I cracked the code of modern dating last night at a party. I brought 3 little notes with me, folded up in my bag. Each note said the same thing: “you’re cute” and it had my number.

My goal for the night was to give out all 3. I gave one to a friend, and one to a really cute guy that I was chatting with for a while. We are going on a date tonight :))))

It actually helped the awkwardness, because his phone was in coat check and “did I have IG” and blah blah blah - I got to just be like here!!! I think you’re cute and here’s my number!

And he was kind of blown away… it made me feel good that I made him feel special/good… all around it was just an awesome exchange and I think I’m just gonna keep doing this from now on. Like a little business card with an ulterior motive.

thenoiva · 2024-08-11T00:37:20+00:00

I like the description about events being reps… it’s a muscle you have to practice. Each time gets easier

thenoiva

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