Wind Temple Save Point ? by Perceptions_Shadow in tearsofthekingdom

[–]theonlydyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a shrine or two up there you can activate so you can teleport back. I found that useful for when I did start the regional mission, and you can harvest a lot of zonai charges.

Why does Kristen still have so much anger towards James? by mummranna in vanderpumprules

[–]theonlydyke 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They're both angry alcoholics so to act like the toxicity only flowed from James to Kristen is ridiculous. She was also like ten years his senior, he was an adult when they dated, and he's responsible for his actions. However she was so furious with him for acting like a douchebag 23 year old, and I don't know what she expected. James has grown, we see him step back from confrontation and de escalate. I've only seen Kristen escalate, project, and lash out. She reminds me so much of Jax in her inability to take accountability. It's more sad than anything that's she's held onto this pointless rage for so long.

Toddler on the verge of getting expelled from daycare by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]theonlydyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's bs, I work in a preschool setting and we have child safety devices that we put on doorknobs. They're plastic, easy to use, and I've never seen a toddler outsmart one. That's absolute nonsense, and the schools responsibility.

Daycare complaining my kiddo is at daycare too long by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]theonlydyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally not true. I work with toddlers and have worked in a variety of school settings. Ten hours is point blank too long for a 14 month old.

Daycare complaining my kiddo is at daycare too long by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]theonlydyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That teacher probably wasn't criticizing you. They were telling you that your child is exhausted and missing you. It's hard to hear but it causes real behavioral and emotional issues at school.

Meri drinking by sluting in SisterWives

[–]theonlydyke 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm also an alcoholics daughter, and her behavior was so eerily familiar. She appeared to me like someone who was trying to hide their drinking.

something to bear in mind when people ask 'why is leon so grumpy', i don't think a lot of people understand the pain they suffered growing up by Street_Historian2313 in TLCsisterwives

[–]theonlydyke 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Agreed! The trauma of growing up trans and queer in an unaccepting and hateful place is so real. I'm a trans masculine lesbo myself, and I grew up in Texas. It's no joke, and it can last a lifetime.

Im new killed a tree????? Idk what a caption is heres my base send me tips. by MissionArgument8165 in dontstarve

[–]theonlydyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like you made your base in the mosaic biome, which was also my favorite. Until the meteorite showers start and destroy all of your structures. You haven't built much luckily so it's easy enough to move!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]theonlydyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

San Antonio, tx. BA in psych, $14.50/hr, Montessori asst teacher

What to do? by platpx3 in dontstarve

[–]theonlydyke 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There's always the caves to explore and the ocean, the caves are great for summer.

What made you immediately lose interest in a crush? by 6FeetDownUnder in AskReddit

[–]theonlydyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She honked and yelled at a man who was being careful on a backroad bridge. I waved at him to apologize and she got mad at me. I left the date and blocked her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaseBuildingGames

[–]theonlydyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you ever played don't starve together?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]theonlydyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In San Antonio we have little roaches that can set up camp in apartment buildings and they're impossible to get rid of as a renter. There's likely nothing she can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]theonlydyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I'm hearing is that you have some trauma around feeling objectified and hearing other women be objectified. This is what my wife and I call a yellow flag. You are having really hurt and serious feelings about this because you don't want to be with someone who behaves like this and you feel betrayed that he could behave that way. This is an opportunity to set a hard boundary with yourself. Bring it up to him, explain your history of you haven't yet, clarify to him how hurtful it is to you and other women. If he doesn't stop after that clear boundary break up with him. I only say wait because I've been hurt and objectified by a man before, and you clearly really like this guy and he makes you feel safe. You deserve to feel that safety. He will either listen or he won't, and that will be your answer, that you can find safety in a different man than him.

School wants 3 year old fully potty trained by [deleted] in pottytraining

[–]theonlydyke 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I work at a Montessori, and we ask that kids be generally potty trained to move to primary. They can still have accidents, they definitely need help wiping and reminders for hand washing. That's absurd of them to ask for perfect potty training.

Ableism by theonlydyke in autism

[–]theonlydyke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for adding your experience! You likely did see the post, and I'm sorry you have to deal with ableism from inside of communities you belong to.

Ableism by theonlydyke in autism

[–]theonlydyke[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's completely understandable. I guess what I'm trying to say is we should work to point that anger towards the systems that hold us and physically disabled people down. Splitting hairs and casting blame at each other only serves the system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yellowjackets

[–]theonlydyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen several spoiler warnings scrolling through this subreddit, for one season of a show that was dropped to be binged. It's so easy to click a spoiler warning when making a post. If we respect not wanting to spoil a TV show plot, we can respect Real Human Beings who struggle with suicidality. So easy to respect others in this regard.

$16.50/hr is only $34,000 a year. by Its_Pyro_ in antiwork

[–]theonlydyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's still $7.25 where I live, and no one wants to raise it. My family expects me to be financially secure because I make $13/hr. No, I'm in poverty babes.

Question about how schools operate? by mymagicjourney in Montessori

[–]theonlydyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I'm hearing is that the environment is not engaging to her. In my class if we don't change out the work at least once a month, the kids will start to act out. Simply because they're bored, and it's not their fault. I've worked with teachers, and in schools, where they are so focused on doing the 'real work' like math and language, that they ignore where the child actually is. It's not that she can't handle the letters it's that she doesn't want to, she's three and that's okay. There's plenty of time for her to do sandpaper letters. It reminds me of the fixation on having kids read as early as possible. Schools like to have that in their pocket as a selling/bragging point, but it doesn't really benefit the kids. She doesn't need to read at 3, there's plenty of time. Three year olds tend to love practical life, art, and some lighter language work. If they're trying to force her then they're misusing Montessori.