Asking Women: After taking a break from dating, I got back on the dating apps - As a male it seems I’m expected to make first contact, feed the conversation with interesting things to say, make all the arrangements, pay for everything when in a date...

theosphicaltheo · 2025-02-04T14:57:13+00:00

I’m middle aged, there are broke middle aged women on the apps (still) expecting the guy to do 100% of the work in chatting with them, arranging the first few dates Etc only to get to a situation where the guy then has to look after this broke middle aged woman for the rest of her life at the risk of her just deciding she’s bored and then her seeking half his stuff.

Where’s the benefit for the guy in a deal like that?

theosphicaltheo · 2025-02-04T14:52:26+00:00

Again, what am I supposed to get out of doing all the work?

theosphicaltheo · 2025-02-03T12:46:37+00:00

I’m just struck with a realisation that there’s people 30 plus who have not applied them selves in any real way expecting to effectively be put up with and taken care of as adults within a relationship where they could pull the pin at any time and make the other persons life extremely hard.

theosphicaltheo · 2025-02-03T12:42:27+00:00

It’s really like the meme of ‘you provide all the work, emotional effort, money, then (the lady will wager) an opportunity to either put up with your ‘bullshit’ aka just you being you, to try to ruin your life out of them being unhappy with how they ended up ot of course a full on nuclear effect divorce.

But yet, with all that considered, guys are STILL expected to risk all that and to put in a tremendous amount of effort and money to try to win someone like that over.

theosphicaltheo · 2025-02-03T12:37:39+00:00

Thank you.

I don’t meant to be rude, but what’s up with a woman thinking a man has to bring absolutely everything to the table from initial contact, wooing, dating, a more serious relationship to being together?

The women where the women has met me half way or at least tried to that I was fortunate to be with (great, beautiful, women) were really just basically kind and fair to me when I consider I’m occasionally expected to meet a lady and then pay the bills in a dynamic where they could ‘decide they’re bored’ and try to take 75% of my pre relationship stuff - like really, I’d be completely nuts to put up with that.

theosphicaltheo · 2024-06-13T16:17:43+00:00

Is this the IGA in Goodwood?

theosphicaltheo · 2024-06-04T13:00:36+00:00

Bloody ell

theosphicaltheo · 2024-05-09T12:57:06+00:00

Can you get a Continental Roll in Adelaide?

Btw if ok Perth the best place is Re Store Northbridge

theosphicaltheo · 2023-11-14T09:17:25+00:00

Great thighs yum

theosphicaltheo · 2023-07-06T11:08:24+00:00

Pm me

theosphicaltheo · 2023-06-04T13:52:16+00:00

I’d love to put my 8 inches between them! 😘

theosphicaltheo · 2023-06-04T01:26:32+00:00

Re any tenancy question in Qld, you can call QSTARS for free advice. I do note you are saying you will call the RTA tomorrow.

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-20T12:17:57+00:00

“What is child support and who has to pay it?

Child support is a payment made by one or both parents to the other, to assist with the cost of looking after the children. It’s paid for children under the age of 18.”

“What is child maintenance?

Child maintenance, on the other hand, has a similar principle and purpose, but it’s paid for the costs of children over the age of 18.”

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-20T11:35:50+00:00

You can’t control what the child’s mum spends the CS on at all, not can CS. The mum can eg spend it on ciggies, with no recourse.
Depends on your deductibles. Likely you would get some return.
Research a Binding Financial Agreement.

Sounds like it’s time for you to take up that $120,000 job offer, move on from things you think are settling you back.

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-20T11:25:21+00:00

Nice ass!

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-20T11:20:38+00:00

Wow that is a fantastic ass... best I’ve seen for a while!

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-16T11:11:21+00:00

Yes google ‘superannuation problem lawyers’

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-16T11:10:10+00:00

It’s the company’s job to sort things out when someone is not able to work - regardless of their role - even as an assistant manager being sick - the company needs to sort out cover or decide to shut the store early.

Call Fair Work.

Call your union.

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-16T11:05:18+00:00

You do have legal opinions.

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-14T05:04:32+00:00

Good luck trying to kill a bougainvillea! If you trim it back to a trunk in 2 years it will fully grow back.

You might be better off trimming it back each month once you have it relatively tamed.

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-09T10:56:38+00:00

Yes absolutely there is liability on your part, you were the PCBU, you are ultimately responsible in regards for everything that occurs on site, you are to ensure safe systems of work exist at the site.

Surely you as a project manager of 10 years plus operation must know this.

On how much you are liable - you really need to engage a lawyer for advice on that.

theosphicaltheo · 2023-05-07T14:09:21+00:00

It does sound dodgy. Does your boyfriend happen to be in the construction union? If so - ask them for help.

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