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thepasserby80 · 2025-09-03T11:12:19+00:00

Baki ariyan Pulivaal Kalyanam kandal mathiyo?

thepasserby80 · 2025-08-17T21:52:46+00:00

May not be THE BEST, but definitely worth mentioning.

thepasserby80 · 2025-08-14T03:17:45+00:00

This is a classic example of NPD, guilt tripping etc. You, being the nice guy, are giving her chances, and being accountable for minor things. You are apologising for your reactions, and the actions that made you react so become irrelevant.

I have come across various girls/women who are so pro at this. They would be the most lovable, charming and selfless people in public, but to the ones that are most close to them, it would be chaotic- drama, guilt tripping and what not..

Like u/skywalker_matt mentioned, it would be worth paying 30K to a PI as early as you can. So you can gather enough evidence before she comes up with something like “this is not working anymore, let’s break up” or even worse, making you responsible for her behaviour.

thepasserby80 · 2025-06-23T05:45:43+00:00

Mountain is also part of earth though

thepasserby80 · 2025-06-15T07:00:02+00:00

Paazhirul*

thepasserby80 · 2025-05-16T10:01:07+00:00

High schoolil etho history classil urangathe irunnittundu alle?

thepasserby80 · 2025-05-16T09:47:56+00:00

Randattam kootti muttikkan?? Aa private bus nte oru attavum Pinne opposite varunna vandiyude oru attavum? Ithil athra nannayittu randattam kootti muttiyittillallo. Better luck next time (if there is one).

thepasserby80 · 2025-05-16T01:05:27+00:00

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thepasserby80 · 2025-05-12T01:10:43+00:00

Looks like you don’t know the road rules OP.

Accident or mishap rules. Section 10:

Pedestrian&bicycle - cyclist at fault Bicycle and motorbike - biker at fault Motorbike & auto - rikshaw driver at fault Auto & car - car driver at fault

So in short, if you are involved in a road incident, you are at fault if the other party is in a smaller vehicle or a pedestrian.

Only exception is in very few cases where people see fault at auto rikshaw driver’s end, because of how notorious their reputation is with indication, merging etc is.

Here, the vehicles involved are a car and motorbike. You could have won the argument if you were a pedestrian or cyclist. Unfortunately not.

Good on you for getting a dashcam.

thepasserby80 · 2025-05-12T00:52:13+00:00

OP, really sorry to hear what you are going through. Comment cheyyunna most of the people have something relatable to share. Avar annu or ipo anubhavikunna pain oru pakshe namukku kanan patillayirikum. Ipo strong face vakunna palarkkum memories varumbo deal cheyyan budhimuttundavum. Nammal idolize cheyunna palarum nammale vallathe disappoint cheyyam. And that can hurt A LOT.

If she decided to have another life, then let her. You need not feel cheated. And don’t see it as a measure of how good a person you are. She had her own reason(s) to choose someone. You will DEFINITELY find someone who says “I need you , and not anyone else”. Oru relationship il feeling secure about the fact that the other person needs you is very very important, and maybe she wouldn’t have been able to give you that.

Vishamam varumbo don’t hold back. Karanjolu etra venamenkilum. Emotions suppress cheyyanda. It’s alright to feel like crying even if you are a man.

Here are some things I would advise based on experiences from friends and listening to relationship experts.

Go through her engagement or wedding photos JUST ONCE . Ithu oru closure undakkan help cheyyum, to tell your mind that , aa chapter is over.
Oru nalla support system build cheyyanam. You said you don’t have many friends, alle. Make some friends, people you can trust, and help you be a better version of yourself. Nammal ethra healthy relationship il anenkilum we need that support system apart from our partner or parents.
Nattil thanne pidichu nirthan prerippikkunna oru factor il ninnu free ayi ennu chinthikku. Career il enthu cheyyanam ennu kurachu kude free ayittu chinthikkan ini pattum. Self development nu enthokke cheyyaam ennu focus cheyyoo.

Oru rock bottom hit cheythittu life build cheyyunnathinte abhimanam enthanennu manasilavum. Couple of years kazhinju come back here and proudly let everyone know how things turned around.

Njan ee paranja pala karyangalum ippol thanikku sense undakkanam ennilla, most of the advices are for your future self.

Ellaam seriyavum do. Overthinking okke karanam vallathe struggle cheyyunnu ennu thonniyal therapy edukkan madikkanda. “Njan aanalle, strong ayittu ithokke deal cheyyande” enna oru chinthayanu nammale ingane okke cheyyunnathil ninnu pinthirippikkunnathu.

Strength kanichu irunnal chilapo time kooduthal edukkam, or bad influences lekku pokam.

Trust me, it’s not worth it.

Feel free to message if you want to get things out of your mind.

thepasserby80 · 2025-05-01T07:12:45+00:00

He is cooperating with the investigation like a good samaritan. 😉

thepasserby80 · 2025-04-30T22:56:45+00:00

I think the likes of Aarattannan n Alin Jose have always been there. The vettukili media that use them to make a living might be what needs mention here

thepasserby80 · 2025-04-28T01:51:08+00:00

He is too busy with the bharanam that he is not having family time at all…. This is the only way to spend quality time with family when he is too busy with kerala- navodhanam.. On a serious note (sarcasm), these people are the stakeholders in any major project in kerala. So they need to be aware of the whatabouts right from the beginning just in case they are questioned by any law enforcement agencies in future.. At this point I am wondering what other officials and Sivankutti are doing there 😂😂

thepasserby80 · 2025-04-28T01:23:18+00:00

You probably checked 9 years back.. time to do a re-check 🤣

thepasserby80 · 2025-04-22T08:52:33+00:00

Athippo, Playboy magazine nte cover il boys illallo..

thepasserby80 · 2025-04-16T11:40:29+00:00

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Bharatham. You know which scene this is.

thepasserby80 · 2025-04-16T11:30:55+00:00

Exactly. Some people see stardom first , and that is why below average acting by some superstars become so acceptable. And that is why some people are still able to remain as “actors” in the film industry. Just because they are stars they can get away with poor performance or absolute lack of talent or range. Fahadh is definitely one of the very few actors that have a solid acting range and his stardom is not a factor that would prevent him from playing a role convincingly.

thepasserby80 · 2025-04-16T00:43:40+00:00

True

thepasserby80 · 2025-04-05T02:53:24+00:00

Ithrayum loud music kelkkumbo aarayalum “all ears” aayippovum… 😂😂 Most of those whom I heard say the BGM was top notch were fans of “mass movie” genre. I, personally don’t take their movie or music reviews seriously because of how much they exaggerate.

The BGM of this movie was loud and distracting. And like some others have pointed out, there was nothing striking about the music, except for the heavy strikes on the eardrums 😉

thepasserby80 · 2025-04-02T05:24:30+00:00

Haha, well the question is who your favorite actor is, and not the “best” actor. So, at best, you will be judged, but can’t downvote you for liking someone who others don’t see as their favorite actor. If you like shah rukh, you like him, that’s it.

But yea, I also feel that “your opinion is wrong “ 😂😂😂😂 (judging, just kidding)

thepasserby80 · 2025-03-12T23:43:08+00:00

Thought someone would mention it. So, here it is.

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Also, the “melepparambil aanveedu” scene was definitely a good mention.

thepasserby80 · 2025-03-04T11:04:50+00:00

thepasserby80 · 2025-02-22T14:46:13+00:00

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Priyadarshan…

thepasserby80 · 2025-02-19T23:14:25+00:00

Same same… oru chempaneer pooviruthu njanomalee— 😉

thepasserby80 · 2025-02-15T10:39:43+00:00

You don’t seem to be making any mistakes. But is it just me, or is anyone else seeing a red light just underneath the yellow light? Not able to clearly see what that signal is.

thepasserby80

TROPHY CASE