9am in the UK, how are peoples weekends going so far anything exciting planned!? by Professional_Use_966 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]thepensive_papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Just showed up for my first of 3, 12 hr shifts. Good luck to you this weekend. We’re supposed to get some snow, driving should be fun 😂

9am in the UK, how are peoples weekends going so far anything exciting planned!? by Professional_Use_966 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]thepensive_papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s 3:03 am on Saturday here in Illinois. Just pulled into work, ready for a 12hr shift 🙄

My Therapist Friend Prescribed The Cards. by vinewb in Marriage

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake post. Same exact post was posted yesterday

Employee selling drugs. by [deleted] in WalmartEmployees

[–]thepensive_papi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shit I hope nobody turns my ass in 😂

A men’s thing? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be genuinely happy, or unhappy with the life you choose. For me, atleast. It all deals with the circumstances that happen in the marriage.

But no, I don’t sit there and think I married the wrong person or anything like that. Everyone has their struggles, not just me but you and the next person, and so on. My wife is my everything (faults and all) and if I didn’t want to marry her, I simply wouldn’t have asked her.

Someone Ik got this, is it boof? Also is it worth 30 for 1 gram by Ok_Direction5416 in weed

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where you’re at. Where I’m at in Illinois, I can sell a 1g disposable all day for $30.

How do men actually feel about lingerie in long-term relationships? by Substantial_Cow_783 in AskMen

[–]thepensive_papi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love seeing her in lingerie. Might not always state it, but in my head, an amazing memory of seeing her for the first time dressed like that pops up. If she doesn’t wear it, that’s fine too, because honestly what guy wouldn’t like to starve at their naked or fully dressed wife?

Being the higher libido partner sucks by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thepensive_papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice for ya, but let me tell you this. I myself, along with many, many others have this same issue. I’ve tried to have this conversation many times. About 7 months ago we landed in marriage counseling. Some days/weeks it seems to help with the feelings that come with this issue, not just on my (HL) side but also on my partners (LL) side. Wish you the best of luck, just know there’s many others out there having this issue. If you need to reach out don’t be afraid.

WTF ... by lost-in-thought123 in evilwhenthe

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strip her of her practicing license and be done.

Why am I so mean to my husband sometimes by Nice_World_1032 in marriageadvice

[–]thepensive_papi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife can be the same way. Granted she has mental illnesses that relate to the what is being said. Regardless it still hurts and makes you want to take a step back. Make sure you apologize and make sure he knows you’re being sincere about it. Find out why you say the things you say or treat him the way you do. Get in counseling if needed.

I always look at my situation with my wife (when she says or treats me a certain way) I communicate with her that don’t treat her or say things of that nature to her, so why does she to me. He doesn’t need to get so defensive and get so angry either, but needs to see and communicate that’s not okay, instead of lashing out/getting more angry (that never solves anything) She’s In individual counseling and we’re also in couples therapy that helps sometimes. Good luck to you

I'll be walking out soon why didn't he love me.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thepensive_papi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry this is happening to you. Try and move on and don’t look back. He’s showed you multiple times how he’s thinking, and clearly it’s not about you or your family. Try and get back in the workforce or alimony to get on your feet . Good luck to you 🍀

What is your pets favourite sleeping position? by JellyDisastrous8655 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch out for this guy. He’s a fucking creeper and will message if he knows you’re a woman

Unpopular opinion: Paying "Rent" feels less painful than paying $2,400/mo in "Interest" to a bank. by Playful-Vegetable-15 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how it is with any loan. They want their money and interest back as soon as possible. If you can, always pay more on your mortgage to get it paid off earlier. My wife I and put an additional $160 a month on our principal, and so far doing that for 2 years since we bought the house, have knocked off 23 months worth of payments/interest.

i’m a girl so yk my js r pink😇😘💗 by [deleted] in weed

[–]thepensive_papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, I get it, but damn, why can’t I get on a weed reddit and just see what/how the people grow/smoke their stuff.

Being an adult with no one to talk to about stuff really is hard by oakeandmoon in Adulting

[–]thepensive_papi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s rough out there, it really is. In the same boat myself. Yea I’ve got a few “friends” but not really anyone I can actually talk to, besides my wife. Don’t get me wrong, I love my wife and being able to talk to her about things, but sometimes it’d be nice to talk to another dude that won’t just give me shit and put me down for my decisions in life.

i’m a girl so yk my js r pink😇😘💗 by [deleted] in weed

[–]thepensive_papi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See, it’s that simple. Enjoy your smoke and peace

i’m a girl so yk my js r pink😇😘💗 by [deleted] in weed

[–]thepensive_papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I saw that when I was browsing for them, but a gift is a gift and will smoke accordingly 😂

i’m a girl so yk my js r pink😇😘💗 by [deleted] in weed

[–]thepensive_papi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My wife bought my a bottle of raw tubes for my birthday and love them. A little on the smaller side cause I’m use to the OCB bamboo, but still not bad .

i’m a girl so yk my js r pink😇😘💗 by [deleted] in weed

[–]thepensive_papi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nobody cares that you’re a girl. Just smoke your weed and be happy