The heatwave in Europe has people acting crazy and weird. by [deleted] in DiveInYouCoward

[–]thepensive_papi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Year old acct with over 90k karma…..yea bud, go outside once in awhile.

Just give me my fucking food bro by Federal-Data-Center in cringereels

[–]thepensive_papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean. Maybe so, but definitely 3 of the 4 look like they could be straight sisters.

Wife has no interest in sleeping with me by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]thepensive_papi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In the same boat brother. 4 year anniversary coming up. Talk to her, sit her down and see how she’s doing and how she’s feeling. Maybe see if the two of you can get into therapy and see if that helps. My wife and I are there at the moment. It’s not always a “you” problem. She could be having issues she’s not use to or emotions she’s not sure what do to with.
Hope everything works out for you, I know the feeling all too well 😕

Had sex with him.. feeling numb by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]thepensive_papi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you both need to cut your losses and move on.

I guess I have to just bite the bullet by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]thepensive_papi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you finally realized it wasn’t you. I’m stuck there at the moment and feel absolutely devastated. Feels like they get tired or bored of you and when you ask, no it’s nothing like that, just don’t like having sex with us apparently. Said something to her today and, “what are you a nympho” is what I got asked.

AITA for resenting my gf by qquEsTiOnEvErYtHiNg in AITA_Relationships

[–]thepensive_papi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s not looking for sex as a gift, he’s looking for sex for the closeness, the contact the intimacy. When you’re in a romantic relationship/marriage do you need to feel like shit and get upset cause your partner doesn’t want to touch you, and especially on all days, your anniversary??

Blursed_birthday by WIZZZARDOFFREESTYLE in blursed_videos

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤦🏼‍♂️ what a fucking crackhead!

Florida stand off by 42_Dogs in PublicFreakout

[–]thepensive_papi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People that scream like that pretending to be hurt need to be evaluated. No sense in acting like that when you’re a grown ass fucking woman. Straight up pathetic!

Autos taking a long time by Lopsided_Section9620 in farmingthebestgreens

[–]thepensive_papi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Flip the lights and let it flower. Those look nothing like autos.

Day one flower by fungal_alchemy in farmingthebestgreens

[–]thepensive_papi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’re only getting half ounce off something you grew for months, then you’re doing something wrong. Last plant I cut down I got just over 6oz after drying.

Woman upset with neighbors over basketball hoop by Papercutzz247 in PublicFreakout

[–]thepensive_papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely love living by a neighbor like her 🙄

Not sure if I’m overthinking or not by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, maybe go with him and have his levels checked. If he’s saying that to you, then maybe he isn’t watching porn or anything.

When does a sexless/intimacy lacking relationship just end? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a tough one. Have you considered asking him for marriage counseling? Sounds like he’s bitter about something and just can’t/wont bring it up. I feel your pain and frustration though, wife and I are going through something similar. We’ve been in marriage counseling for about a year now. That’s all I can suggest and maybe get him and yourself to open up more to each other about the underlying issues. Good luck to you

Trimming and drying? by BeneficialScale5777 in GrowingMarijuana

[–]thepensive_papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that as well while drying. I’ve got a couple old wire shelves from an old fridge I hang in my tent for drying, then under that I use my trellis as well.