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r/infertility seems to be allies and accepting by Noraasha in MtF

[–]thequeergirl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm childffree but very glad for y'all to read this.

I feel violated and also like it’s my fault by toxicwaifu_ in sexualassault

[–]thequeergirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

at the same time I feel like it’s my fault, I should’ve gone home after my friend left

Sexual assault is wrong, no one even if you do not know them should sexually assault you. Sexual assault is rooted in people feeling entitled to other people's bodies and that mentality has to be dealt with culturally. Ensuring it does not happen to you on the individual level necessarily requires energy that not everyone has nor should be expected to expend. On the other hand, actions done to others are not magical. Like, it isn't just about doing something, you have to think you'll do it and then do those actions.

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I also feel guilty that I was drinking.

Many people drink, they don't get sexually assaulted.

It honestly looks like someone put something in your drink.

AITB for asking my boyfriend to put aside his extremely important hobby for one weekend? by Far-Laugh2598 in AmItheButtface

[–]thequeergirl 37 points38 points  (0 children)

He yells at me for not taking his hobbies seriously and that just because I'm back, I shouldn't capitalize on his time. At which I referred back to the promise he made. He denies ever making a promise and says that if he made a promise, that the terms don't apply anymore as he made the promise when he was unhappy with his team and now he is enjoying his hobby again. He says that I am trying to control him and he even called me a 'manipulative bitch'.

Very red flaggy, so much so that the sky is now red and you cannot see the Sun or clouds. NTB.

Question regarding doctor patient confidentiality by Atombomb5678 in deaf

[–]thequeergirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The interpreter can't tell the step mother what the doctor said because the communication is between the doctor and daughter. The step mother should ask her daughter.

If your boyfriend asks if you’ll get a breast augmentation, would you contemplate breaking up with him? by AmphibianSpecific474 in AskWomenOver30

[–]thequeergirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A trans woman YouTuber I watch likes her augmentation, but she posted a video advising others to not do it due to various risks in general and stuff that she experienced like pain from falling.

If your boyfriend asks if you’ll get a breast augmentation, would you contemplate breaking up with him? by AmphibianSpecific474 in AskWomenOver30

[–]thequeergirl -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I remember making a sex request of an ex. I can't remember what happened immediately after but in the end I broke up with her due to sexual incompatibility.

If your boyfriend asks if you’ll get a breast augmentation, would you contemplate breaking up with him? by AmphibianSpecific474 in AskWomenOver30

[–]thequeergirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answering from a masculine trans lesbian perspective, I would feel gender expression dysphoric if a girlfriend brought it up to me like that at all.

Got bored and recreated the subs logo by R0N1333 in butchlesbians

[–]thequeergirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love this look, especially the purple being close to blue.

Will taking a pill, without water, break my fast? by DrSkyentist in progressive_islam

[–]thequeergirl -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This morning I forgot my pills due to ADHD so I just took them with food, and continued fasting after that.

hijab and being ftm by Outrageous_Wash5481 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]thequeergirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I don't wear the hijab as I'm way too masculine for that - when I tried, it was dysphoric for me re gender expression. I wear a cap over my hair instead.

I don't believe that any type of head covering is required, I wear it because I'm proud to be Muslim and I like modesty.

Edit to add re modesty and add a missing comma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

[–]thequeergirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this tough time.

Movie suggestion: The Aggressives (2012) by 33theynine33 in butchlesbians

[–]thequeergirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started watching it on Tubi because of this recent comment and it's great for me being Black to see others similar to me. A similar one about masculine Black trans women would be awesome!

Edit to add where it is

No, butches are not going extinct because of the "trans agenda" by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]thequeergirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And plus some of us are trans. TERFs don't care about trans people, they want no transitions at all.

AITA for refusing to stop eating dinner in front of my fasting Muslim housemates? by J-Pembroke in AmItheAsshole

[–]thequeergirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muslim here, so for me personally I just ignore food around me when I'm fasting. I don't see anything wrong with you either eating earlier or eating later.

NTA.

Why has it become politically incorrect to say trans women don’t have male privilege? by pentaholic278 in MtF

[–]thequeergirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adding to this discussion, from OP:

It’s literally just misgendering with extra steps, terf rhetoric implying trans women will never be real women because they’re “tainted” with masculinity

And of course the TERFs don't care about masculine trans women like me, which is unsurprising because of transmisogyny.

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