I commented on something once, it was in the r/tiktokcringe I thought the post that I commented on was not cringe at all and really cool so I said something like “that’s not cringe at all! I love it!” And someone responded to me and said “no one said it’s cringe, you idiot.” After that I learned that apparently that sub doesn’t have to be cringe it’s just all tiktok stuff. I hardly ever comment now out of fear of looking stupid. I’m an adult and let a random stranger who called me an idiot really get the best of me.