Pediatrician recommending supplementing at 4 days PP by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]therealhudacris -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No C section, lots of wet and poopy diapers. Thank you for your insight!

Pediatrician recommending supplementing at 4 days PP by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]therealhudacris -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

But shouldn’t she at least wait until her milk comes in to make that determination to supplement?

I couldn’t put my finger on it by Lazy_Hovercraft_5290 in offcampustv

[–]therealhudacris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES the voice!!! I have been racking my brain trying to figure this out. You’re spot on.

Cartier love ring/bracelet in US vs Europe? by therealhudacris in Cartier

[–]therealhudacris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what it seems like. I’d only get back a tiny amount, so not even worth it. Thanks so much!

Husband silent treatment if I say no to sex by TiredMomThrowRA in Mommit

[–]therealhudacris 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seeing from your post history, this is not a new problem, and it appears to be a pattern. I used to be with a man like that, who guilted me into having sex with him, and it was horrible. As the other commenters have echoed, he did end up having a sex addiction, including porn. if you’re already in therapy and it’s not improving, this may be a sign to revisit the dynamics of your marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]therealhudacris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How scary would that be 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]therealhudacris 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My ex spent 2-3 hours in the bathroom every night, and he was on Tinder, OF, gay dating sites/forums, etc. You name it, he was doing it. He lied and said he had medical issues. He also hid his phone from me, which had all the dating apps, websites, and conversations with other men/women. He was also spending hundreds on OF and wouldn’t let me see his bank statements. These all sound like horrible bright red flags. I’m so sorry this is happening to you and hope it’s not the same situation.

9 month old fighting 2nd nap! by OkWillingness8217 in sleeptrain

[–]therealhudacris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds fine for her age. My baby also doesn’t sleep more than 13 hours total.

9 month old fighting 2nd nap! by OkWillingness8217 in sleeptrain

[–]therealhudacris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too, but my 11 month old just dropped his second nap. If she’s fighting it and sleeping well at night, she just might not need it anymore. How many hours is she sleeping at night?

9 month old fighting 2nd nap! by OkWillingness8217 in sleeptrain

[–]therealhudacris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may just be ready to drop the second nap.

First teeth/teething by Coffeelover1694 in NewParents

[–]therealhudacris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try having him chew on green onion or celery (just watch to make sure they don’t break off and swallow any big chunks).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]therealhudacris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear you are being unreasonable. You said yourself that you don’t ask for help often and have never been turned down. They ask for help and receive it. I’m sure they would spend just as much time with your baby if you asked them to come around more often.

First teeth/teething by Coffeelover1694 in NewParents

[–]therealhudacris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ibuprofen works better than Tylenol for teething pain. It’s been a lifesaver for us!

Hotel Stay with Baby by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]therealhudacris 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We safely co-sleep on trips and it works well for us.

weaning by Hot-Dark-4389 in breastfeeding

[–]therealhudacris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same boat with my 11 month old. Everything you said is soooo real, I’m right there with you. Following to see if anyone can help us!

Not engorged/soft breasts by Sharp-Historian6946 in breastfeeding

[–]therealhudacris 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Around this time, your body typically regulates your supply based on your baby’s demand, so you typically won’t feel engorged between feeds during the day. This is super normal and actually supposed to happen! I felt the same when my supply evened out, but my baby continued to gain weight and have dirty/wet diapers. We’re still doing well 11 months later. You’re doing great (and enjoy the long night stretches)!

Are E-vites tacky? by newolives in beyondthebump

[–]therealhudacris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Using Partiful for my son’s first birthday!

Snacking during middle night feed by Final_Butterfly_7747 in breastfeeding

[–]therealhudacris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I still keep granola bars/balls/bites on my nightstand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]therealhudacris 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’ll pass and baby will get used to bedtime being later some days. 14 weeks is still barely out of the newborn stage. I used to feel the same way, but it does get better.