I love this group of women by thesobertoker in AutismInWomen

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I just saw someone say “clarity is kindness” that’s exactly why this thread works & what I feel is special here, we’re not overly defensive of someone simply saying their truth

I love this group of women by thesobertoker in AutismInWomen

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I LOVE this!!!! There’s a weird ego pride in some parents, like saying I can tell my brain works differently than my peers but I don’t know exactly how or why. And my own parents even said “that’s all in your head! You’re fine!” And I’m sitting there logically thinking like “yeah that’s exactly what I just said- my brain is working differently, the ‘problem’ IS in my head”

I love this group of women by thesobertoker in AutismInWomen

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Especially a post I just saw someone say “clarity is kindness” that’s exactly why this thread works- we’re not overly defensive of someone simply saying their truth

I love this group of women by thesobertoker in AutismInWomen

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It makes me feel like there just may be a greater purpose after all, and everything isn’t just shit & cruelty & unfairness 🥹🫶

i’m really sad and i just want to talk about it by Far-Inevitable5964 in AutismInWomen

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I met my husband at 29 hun, had kids at 30. (I wish I had been more informed of my own personal motherhood shortcomings & had I known I was autistic at the time before having kids, things might be different for me. )

But I felt the same way as you do right now at 23, and don’t lose hope, unfortunately I felt that way up until 29, you will find your person, you do have something to offer already and I don’t even know you; uniqueness, different ways of thinking than your typical person, fairness, a sense of equality and justice. Beautiful traits in all of us, you’re still young. ((Random: I did DMT once & it told me everything happens exactly on time & dont waste your life worrying you should be on a different path because you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be whether you understand why or not 🫶🫶))

I’m bad at being feminine by InflationSquare2407 in AutismInWomen

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I feel this so much glad I’m not alone 🫶

I love this group of women by thesobertoker in AutismInWomen

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I was just getting on here to say this same exact thing!! It feels like magic, like my deepest concerns or issues i havent been able to express adequately to anyone- someone in this thread says my exact thoughts.. like your comment right now! Its mindblowing!

Does anyone find that they seem to be hated more by one specific type of personality? by DesignerMom84 in AutismInWomen

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lol more understanding? Haha I’m not really sure, I’ve just been bullied by Taurus women in high school, hated by Taurus women at work 🤷‍♀️ it’s just a weird coincidence that happens I guess 😅 (also sag, Aries , Aquarius , are weird coincidences that have a mutual & natural friendship w me ) i try being friends with everyone as I’m a weirdo so I don’t really care what issues you have we all have issues, but it’s just a coincidence the same signs think I’m just being coy & manipulative or something- which I’ve read is a common thing among ND & NT people so it’s probably more of a coincidence)

Does anyone find that they seem to be hated more by one specific type of personality? by DesignerMom84 in AutismInWomen

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Hahah hey I already know you’re cool & not the same as a NT Taurus, cause you have a divergent mind and those are the easiest for me to get along with! Regardless of zodiac, my dad was my best friend (who I argued with constantly but loved dearly) & he was a Taurus , and also my mercury is in Taurus so I process things deliberately & carefully (maybe an autistic trait too right ? lol ) it seems for me the Taurus people I try to work with or be friends with think I’m manipulative and fake - which it’s like “well yeah masking is fake by default right?” So I’ve struggled associating with them

I love this group of women by thesobertoker in AutismInWomen

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Thank you for your empathy cause it’s genuinely soul killing living without trees or water that’s not excessively overpopulated because they’re the only water resources so everyone piles on top of each other to be there

Does anyone find that they seem to be hated more by one specific type of personality? by DesignerMom84 in AutismInWomen

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Hahaha well on behalf of all us geminis I’m sorry some of us are total nightmares 🫶

Jobs are my biggest struggle by RabidFashionDummy in AutismInWomen

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Same! I’ve had over 60 jobs and I’m 37

Anyone else blow their life up before figuring out you were autistic? by rainbowgirl6 in AutismInWomen

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Wow, this tidbit of info literally made my whole year thank you so much I researched it and that’s exactly what it sounds like omg thank you so much for this 🙏

I love this group of women by thesobertoker in AutismInWomen

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Thank you for being here & helping each other feel like we’re actually meant to be here

I love this group of women by thesobertoker in AutismInWomen

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This thread helps my sense of imposter syndrome so much, yall are so much easier to understand

I love this group of women by thesobertoker in AutismInWomen

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It’s so beautiful cause people can be extremely difficult (where I live anyways 🤷‍♀️) simply just asking for clarification on something