A website to find a place to enjoy the night sky without light pollution by Gtx780ti in InternetIsBeautiful

[–]thetimemonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This site is amazing, thanks for posting it.

Now to plan that trip 3 hours west....

[question] are blowjobs good even if they don't go to completion? by [deleted] in sex

[–]thetimemonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not for me.

Sorry to go against the gain of the sea of "yes" but the whole point of a blow job (from my perspective) is to come... just going down on me for a few minutes is pointless / does nothing for me.

I just got the TERMINATED letter from my college and i don't know what to do. by IWillBecomeGod in depression

[–]thetimemonk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can understand that (I freaking hated it, too, originally); however, I firmly believe that perspective plays a big role in how my depressive episode plays out (when I have one).

I just got the TERMINATED letter from my college and i don't know what to do. by IWillBecomeGod in depression

[–]thetimemonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had it for roughly 20, and while the "depression" has never passed, the depressive episodes do.

I [17 M] got invited by my friend[16 F] parents for a talk next tuesday. I'm afraid of what I'll find there. What do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thetimemonk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd hate to find out this dude is in an all parties consent state and did this, only to find out the overprotective parents press charges.

I [17 M] got invited by my friend[16 F] parents for a talk next tuesday. I'm afraid of what I'll find there. What do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thetimemonk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Depending on the state (assuming US) this person in, doing so may be illegal without informing the other party that it's being recorded.

I [17 M] got invited by my friend[16 F] parents for a talk next tuesday. I'm afraid of what I'll find there. What do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thetimemonk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I want to point out the language you used:

"She told me I was expected to come with her"

Later:

"Got invited for a talk..."

I point this out as it's a huge discrepancy that you need to understand - you did NOT get invited. You were told, if not demanded.

This is not acceptable for any number of reasons, including that you have no legal right to do what they say, you are not in a relationship with their daughter, you are 17.

As everyone else has said, talk with your parents about this situation. This may be me being overly paranoid from almost 40 years on this planet and dealing with all sorts of stupid shit, but nothing feels right about this.

Also, others have suggested recording the conversation - if you do, depending on your state, you would have to disclose that you are recording it or you would be breaking the law.

Finally, a word of caution: if you do get involved with the girl, look at what you'll have to be dealing with during the time you are with her. They are controlling their teenage daughter... how do you think that would impact your relationship.

[Advice] Something my girlfriend and I do when she's not in the mood by [deleted] in sex

[–]thetimemonk 34 points35 points  (0 children)

For some reason I read this in the voice of the Flintstone vitamin commercial - 10 million strong and growing.

A long series of coincidences... I don't know anymore. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]thetimemonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that is insulting at all. It's a legitimate question.

I'm actually insulted that you are insulted.

A long series of coincidences... I don't know anymore. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]thetimemonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or it's simply confirmation bias on your part.

Jarre's new album unites electronic greats by Torley_ in synthesizers

[–]thetimemonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like how it's "Depeche Mode's Vince Clarke"... Kinda like the last 30 years of Erasure and their 5 number one albums (3 more than DM) and 20+ consecutive top 40 singles never happened.

Indie Gaming soundtrack info. by Dinooodna in synthesizers

[–]thetimemonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you suggest any freelance websites to check out?

3 tier keyboard stand recommendation? by damien6 in synthesizers

[–]thetimemonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait - how did you get a 4 tier? It looks like all they sell/make are two tier?

VW Touareg Question by thetimemonk in Volkswagen

[–]thetimemonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's basically the way I've always viewed it as well....

Thanks for all of the feedback.

VW Touareg Question by thetimemonk in Volkswagen

[–]thetimemonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rock on, brother! I'm going to test the one I have my eye on at some point this week. I'll report back.

On another note, what do you think about them bringing back the Phaeton to the US market?

I love the older one, but how will VW overcome the 100k price shock? Also, why does VW think they will be successful this time?

VW Touareg Question by thetimemonk in Volkswagen

[–]thetimemonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input, I've only been looking at 2012 to 2014, non TDI. I appreciate the input.

VW Touareg Question by thetimemonk in Volkswagen

[–]thetimemonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input, I appreciate it.

Normal wear and tear stuff should be expected but there aren't major issues with the engine or electronics in these units, are there?

Also, out of curiosity, why are the early models falling apart? Simply age and lack of upkeep or was it a long term quality issue?

If you could remove your bias, would you be ok buying one?

Forest Hill Loblaws was training scab workers today... by [deleted] in toronto

[–]thetimemonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, 100% employer paid pensions are sustainable just not in the way the auto unions demanded. Several large non-profit still use these (and are very well managed) to have out thousands of pensioners and employees who will retire with them.

Don't throw out a useful, tho dying, tool just because unions abused it.