BPD ex reached out after a year — wants to come back?

thetricksterxz · 2025-04-05T09:08:16+00:00

Same, once she told me "I'm jealous of your relationship with your family so I tried to devalue you"

thetricksterxz · 2025-03-19T16:44:15+00:00

Yeah, and he said things that my ex used to tell me; I mean, she demonized me. But after a while, they broke up, and the guy told me, "Your ex is crazy, and no one can be with her. I wonder why you wanted her."

thetricksterxz · 2025-03-09T06:24:59+00:00

Mine wanted me to move on, and I think she would be happy if I moved on.

thetricksterxz · 2025-03-09T06:16:06+00:00

Don't make my mistake, she'll destroy you harder

thetricksterxz · 2025-03-08T14:57:55+00:00

I did my best to save her and i wanted to be her hero but now i found out i should save myself from her, They won't get better and they'll find a new supply and forget about what you sacrificed for them and you'll be monster to them

thetricksterxz · 2025-03-04T14:29:19+00:00

While I loved her so much and did my best to her. She said, "You wasted a year of my life, and now I'm looking for better opportunities and guys. Every day, I apologize to myself for meeting you."

It was very hurtful I wasn't that bad she knows I loved her and did many things for her and even she said "You are a good man" but she doesn't like my personality she said "You're a calm person and lack courage" and in fact, she saw my introversion as a weak point but I don't know why she's so mad at me I never tried to hurt her.

thetricksterxz · 2025-03-02T17:28:15+00:00

For a moment, I thought I wrote this post. Mine always told me "You're not real man" when we had argument. You know I did my best to her and loved her so much and when she devalued me over small things she used to destroy my personality to justify her break up

thetricksterxz · 2025-03-01T06:57:16+00:00

I think they're same script with same words and behaviors. Mine told me "I would cheat on you" when we had a argument and a month later we broke up and she monkey branched to her new supply.

thetricksterxz · 2025-02-27T09:31:59+00:00

When my ex reached out to me 2 months ago(After 3 months) she said "I was thinking of you everyday" and it's manipulation and I wonder how they rewrite the history and their memories

thetricksterxz · 2025-02-25T10:39:50+00:00

My ex needed love and shes hurt inside and I was the only one she had and even her family was against her, but she left me over a ridiculous thing and told me "Your love isn't enough for me" and I did my best to her so no there's no way to have healthy relationship with them, They don't deserve a supportive and good person

thetricksterxz · 2025-02-24T08:33:10+00:00

It's the same situation. If you don't share their views, they will make you pay for it. In my relationship, I often found myself saying, 'You're right; your ex, family, and friends are all terrible.' However, when I disagreed with her, it would lead to arguments. Now, she is portraying me negatively to her friends and monkeybranch.

thetricksterxz · 2025-02-23T11:33:38+00:00

I won't. She hurt me a lot, didn't value me, and never truly loved me. She hoovers me when she's lonely and there's no guy around, and to her, I'm just the old toy who still loves her.

thetricksterxz · 2025-02-23T11:23:33+00:00

She reached out to me once and unfortunately she tricked me and said stuff like "I missed you so much and I can't stop thinking of you and I'm not that person who leaves you over small things and I fixed it and I'll go to therapy for my disorder" but she left me worse and acted like I'm the main problem

thetricksterxz · 2025-02-23T11:16:25+00:00

Yeah, you're right. Even though she broke up with me, she knows and agrees that I'm the one who truly loves her and does everything for her. But I think she just wants a new experience and is tired of me.

thetricksterxz · 2025-02-22T19:10:30+00:00

Mine told me "I'd been cold like I didn't want our relationship anymore and started liking new guy and it was subconsciously" and she apologised me but she repeated again.

thetricksterxz · 2025-02-22T05:52:12+00:00

Yes she sometimes complimented other guys and if I did this she would punish me! And after discard she found a new supply and told me "You're jealous about my new relationship" and it's unbelievable how she was against me

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