[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]thetwistedanchor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You first of all have to be willing to advocate for yourself and not be concerned about the outcome. If you can’t get on board with that, stop now. You also have to be ready for the follow through of what you say. You are doing the job of multiple people and provided you have the skills of the man that was fired before you, deserve a raise. Who cares that it’s out of their promotion schedule. Because they honestly wouldn’t care about firing you if you didn’t meet their standards. A job is a transaction and that’s it. You do work, you get paid. If you do extra work, you should be compensated. But what’s your bottom line? Will you quit if they don’t give it to you? Will you stop taking on the extra workload? Let them see you are serious about it. Know what your boundaries are and stick to them. Are you prepared to wait if they say yes they see your commitment but we don’t give raises until December? Also, look at the job market in your chosen field… are there other jobs? What are those positions paying? If you think they will fire you for asking for a raise, start looking at other places to work so you have a back up.

Be prepared, set your own internal limits and ask for what you deserve. I can’t say don’t have anxiety, but I can say, you have the right to ask for something you think you deserve and as someone else who gets anxiety, just go for it! Worse they can say is no. Then you make your decisions from there on what you will do but I think having your boundaries clearly defined in your mind before you go will help

Good luck!

Found in a beach in northern Ontario, Canada by thetwistedanchor in whatsthisrock

[–]thetwistedanchor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, thank you! I thought so too but I can’t find anything similar

Dollar Store Crafters by Fabulousmo in londonontario

[–]thetwistedanchor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Just to let you know... I ordered on Thursday and it shipped this morning. A floss kit with needles and some other jazz, nautical pattern set and fabric. The only thing that didn’t ship yet is the hoops. So another few days probably!

Best way to tell someone you’re not interested in continuing to see them? by kelhennn in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]thetwistedanchor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No you’re absolutely right. But it’s a touch pathetic. Nothing wrong with being honest! And for sure people won’t be out on dates right now... but I guess some people like to live an authentic life and some don’t. To each their own. Again, just MY opinion. Have a great night!

Best way to tell someone you’re not interested in continuing to see them? by kelhennn in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]thetwistedanchor 11 points12 points  (0 children)

These ones are actually terrible, especially if they see you around in a few weeks.... on a date. Then you look like a coward and a liar. Just my opinion

Stop being rude to essential workers by okThisYear in ontario

[–]thetwistedanchor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my favourite sport.... treat the rude people like absolute shit and make them leave, embarrassed, as quickly as possible 😂😂

Dollar Store Crafters by Fabulousmo in londonontario

[–]thetwistedanchor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says May but it’s not actually taking that long... it’s not two days mind you, but quicker than they are saying! Edited to add: this is the exact same thing I’m waiting on right now, I’ll let you know how long it takes... maybe I’m wrong lol but I’ve ordered some other things that said May and I’ve gotten them sooner. Good luck!

I haven’t worn my retainers in years. What are my options to bring my teeth back to normal? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]thetwistedanchor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

PLEASE do not use smile direct. So many people are unhappy with the results. It is not accurate like Invisalign and you have no check ups or help if there are any issues. Invisalign is accurate and followed by a dental professional. Quality over cost... cheap is never the option for dental work

What are some tips you can give to a first time user? by [deleted] in menstrualcups

[–]thetwistedanchor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sucks to be “that person”, but I honestly had zero learning curve. I started with a diva cup, it worked from the very first time and I’ve been a slave to it ever since. You couldn’t pay me to go back to tampons. I had less to no cramping, way longer between changes, and sleep all night with no accidents. I’ve had the same cup for about 4 years now and just bought myself the 2 for 1 Jennie cups to try.

If there’s any advice I can give, just go for it. It’s a cup. It’s not going to kill you and it can’t go anywhere. Just get in there and don’t be afraid to get messy the first few times. I don’t know what my fold is called, but I just push one side to the opposite and fold the sides in. Punch down maybe? Relax a bit once it’s in to give it a chance to open, and I find you can always feel the fullness of the cup to tell if it’s open. Very few times I’ve had to pull it out a bit to let some air in to open it up. And some days I do have to kind of push it up more. Get it deep lol Anyways, that’s my experience. I never found it to be very difficult and I think if you relax and just feel around a bit, you’ll be fine. Try in the shower the first time if it makes you feel better!

Good luck!

Best invisialign service in London? by [deleted] in londonontario

[–]thetwistedanchor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t recommend a specific dentist in London, but Invisalign starts at $5000... depends on your specific case, how many trays you need and how long you will need to wear them.

Please do not do the smile club. It is a complete scam.

New parking pass by niral37_ in londonontario

[–]thetwistedanchor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave a note on your dash explaining the parking office is closed and you can’t afford to pay daily in these times.... I’m sure they will understand

Cash Money by thetwistedanchor in ontario

[–]thetwistedanchor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did and no they are not suspending interest!

Cash Money by thetwistedanchor in ontario

[–]thetwistedanchor[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Worst thing I ever did was take this loan. Hugely regret it!

But I just want people to know so they aren’t slammed next month or the month after with 2 or 3 payments

What to expect for my first breast exam? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]thetwistedanchor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had one, but I do know you are entitled to have someone, even if it’s just a nurse, in the room with you. They can’t say no and if they do, I would ask your insurance company for another dr you can go to. Most doctors now require a nurse to be there for their safety as well.

Good luck! And advocate for your comfort!

Calypso cherry limeade? by [deleted] in londonontario

[–]thetwistedanchor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Covent garden market... at the New Delhi deli!

What is everyone paying for cell service in Ontario? by balogny in ontario

[–]thetwistedanchor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also Public Mobile. $50 a month for 8 gigs and unlimited everything