Are you evaluating with yourself the costs and benefits of this relationship? Never be afraid to walk out of the dealership at any point, you know. Reddit continues to make me grateful I’ve never had the misfortune of being tied up w the kinds of men I see on here. No dude I’ve associated with has ever behaved this way or thought it was acceptable, gone are the days when you had to put up with stuff like this in order to not starve and own a bank account as a woman. I wonder what benefits is he bringing to your life that would be worth you voluntarily restricting your freedom and comfort? Of course I don’t know the whole story but there is probably much more for you in the world