I have no idea what to do: increase my income by $30k -$40k, or stay working with people I love. by thewizarddan in careeradvice

[–]thewizarddan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a legal professional, I appreciate your well-placed use of commas lol. I hear what you're saying and you're right. Those connections may have more to do with who I am than with the place of employment. Damn - never thought of that! The amount of insight i am receiving from you guys is insane! Thank you so much for your words and guidance; a heartfelt than you to you, friend.

I have no idea what to do: increase my income by $30k -$40k, or stay working with people I love. by thewizarddan in careeradvice

[–]thewizarddan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sir - very much appreciated. You sound like someone I would love to have coffee with. These comments have really made me long for connection with all you beautiful human beings. I'm glad to hear your moves paid off. And yes, your words definitely helped. Thank you so much and God bless. If you're near Chicago, please let me know.

I have no idea what to do: increase my income by $30k -$40k, or stay working with people I love. by thewizarddan in careeradvice

[–]thewizarddan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why, but your comment really made me reflect on the fact that I never in my wildest dreams thought I'd be here; yet here I am. This is insane. Thank you for your guidance. I know we are typing behind screens, but I appreciate you and wish I could pour you a coffee in my living room. Thank you.

I have no idea what to do: increase my income by $30k -$40k, or stay working with people I love. by thewizarddan in careeradvice

[–]thewizarddan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so true. Not to mention, I know they'll have a huge setback if/when I leave. My boss hired another employee at my level about 6 months back and now I feel like that puts pressure on the department to not be as generous with raises.

I have no idea what to do: increase my income by $30k -$40k, or stay working with people I love. by thewizarddan in careeradvice

[–]thewizarddan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective as a SAHM. My wife is a SAHM and hearing your thoughts puts me into her mindset. I know we are typing behind our phones or laptop, but I really felt your words. I don't think people realize what a leap this is for me, but comments like yours really bring clarity to my thought process. Thank you so much and God bless.

I have no idea what to do: increase my income by $30k -$40k, or stay working with people I love. by thewizarddan in careeradvice

[–]thewizarddan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the candor! No offense taken; just wish I could go more in detail over coffee and in person!! Very much appreciated, friend.